<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681</id><updated>2011-12-08T06:22:04.152-08:00</updated><category term='May &apos;n&apos; Mike&apos;s'/><category term='frog'/><category term='Sarawak layer cake'/><category term='EFT'/><category term='China Disabled People’s Performing Art Troupe'/><category term='Ramona Rahman'/><category term='sufi music'/><category term='badminton'/><category term='Sazali Samad'/><category term='Ramadan'/><category term='Rosita Jaafar'/><category term='God&apos;s Little Acre'/><category term='movie memorabilia'/><category term='Tsem Tulku Rinpoche'/><category term='Aziz Daud'/><category term='Mohan 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Mat Cincang'/><category term='Ng Teng Chai'/><category term='Jason Loh'/><category term='Norhasikin Ali'/><category term='porcelain painting'/><category term='Craft Haven'/><category term='Lee Boon Seng'/><category term='Cheam Oi Ling'/><category term='Sean Khoo'/><category term='Kavita Kaur'/><category term='Pudu Cafe'/><category term='Purnama Cahaya'/><category term='Mah Meri woodcarver'/><category term='Gophers Tri-O'/><category term='watch and clock repair'/><category term='electronic items'/><category term='dadih'/><category term='Sepang Beach'/><category term='Hari Moyang'/><category term='children&apos;s theatre company'/><category term='Terry Gallyot'/><category term='Grace Chen'/><category term='Enot'/><category term='vegetarian food'/><category term='superhero stories'/><category term='Tracka'/><category term='chicken curry'/><category term='Kechara Oasis'/><category term='Malayan Mansion'/><category term='SS2'/><category term='Sri Rasi'/><category term='Smokecity'/><category term='Siti Khadijah Diaudin'/><category term='Roll of Honour'/><category term='Cineleisure'/><category term='Andaman Sea'/><category term='FTIMDC'/><category term='BK Yap'/><category term='Ultimate Gym'/><category term='Sri Mahamariamman Temple'/><category term='Ho Ching Yuen'/><category term='Masjid Tanah'/><category term='Hubback'/><category term='Sin Geok Guan Wayang Hokkien'/><category term='King Crab'/><category term='Astro Vaanavil Super Star'/><category term='Selvasaras Enterprise'/><category term='Hans'/><category term='breakdance'/><category term='Hari Gawai'/><category term='abstract artist who paints exclusively for charity'/><category term='Navaratnam Sundram'/><category term='Jennifer Liau'/><category term='Fong Kim Far'/><category term='Air Brush Art'/><category term='Keith Raymond.'/><category term='Lloyd Gan'/><category term='blogger'/><category term='Rainforest World Music Festival'/><category term='Plenary Hall.'/><category term='Calvin Ho'/><category term='Selangor'/><category term='Langkawi'/><category term='wu ha'/><category term='horse riding'/><category term='Sheikh Muszaphar'/><category term='D1GP.'/><category term='Adelina Lee'/><category term='D24'/><category term='rendang'/><category term='Joanne Kam'/><category term='Jalan Yap Kwan Seng'/><category term='snow crab'/><category term='Joe Rozario'/><category term='Putra Perdana Merdeka Gallery'/><category term='Sir Henry Gurney'/><category term='Ice-cream parlour in Ipoh'/><category term='Off Lorong Yap Hin'/><title type='text'>Tell Me A Story</title><subtitle type='html'>Tales for the constructive mind...</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>181</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-5773240979430155257</id><published>2011-12-08T06:20:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-08T06:22:04.171-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Flaunt it and shine at Miss Jumbo</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Miss Jumbo pageant is not only about  celebrating beauty in different shapes and sizes, but also about being  proud and confident.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; IT took a fair bit of coaxing to get  girls to join this beauty pageant, mainly because they didn’t believe  they had the potential to be beauty queens. Most were afraid of being  heckled on stage and being subjected to humiliation. It also didn’t help  that the pageant winner will be crowned Jumbo Queen.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this  beauty contest, participants must weigh at least 80kg – and it’s open to  all women regardless of their age and marital status.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:264px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/11/10/lifeliving/f_p10singing.jpg" alt="" height="276" width="250" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Ong Kay Li belting out Born This Way. She was chosen first runner-up.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“If  you look around at beauty pageants like Miss Malaysia, they only accept  thin girls. What about the ones who are more generously endowed?  Shouldn’t they be given a chance to do the catwalk and to show off that  they are beautiful and talented as well?” said Sungei Wang Plaza’s  senior manager of promotions and public relations Lim Kok Kheng.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;He was inspired to organise the beauty pageant for plus-sized girls from a beauty contest he saw while holidaying in Thailand.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“That  beauty contest was held to highlight the plight of elephants and the  girls had to mirror the grace of the animals,” recounted Lim, who  immediately saw the pageant’s crowd puller potential.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The first  Jumbo Queen pageant, held in 2007, only attracted 20 applicants. When it  was held again in 2010, it attracted more than 40 aspirants. This year,  30 joined the pageant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lim and his colleagues are committed to  making the pageant a success, and they are always on the look out for  potential contestants.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Purnisha Premchand, 31, who runs an online  plus-sized clothes business called Curve Queenz, initially approached  Sungei Wang with the intention of becoming a wardrobe sponsor for the  beauty pageant. Instead, she was persuaded to participate in the  pageant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I saw it as a good way to market Curve Queenz,” said Purnisha.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:264px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/11/10/lifeliving/f_p10Yoong.jpg" alt="" height="275" width="250" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Crowned: Yoong Swee Moon danced her way into the judges’ hearts and won the Jumbo Queen title. &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;There  were participants who recognised the opportunity for recognition that  the pageant offered. The experience must not have been all bad as Nor  Intan Julyana Yahaya, 33, who calls herself Pretty Diamond, has been  trying her luck for the title since 2007.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Despite its title,  pageant contestants are judged not on their weight, but on poise,  grooming and personality which amount to 90% of the overall marks. The  remaining 10% of the score is from crowd support, which tests the  participants’ ability to market themselves. During the finals, the  supporters cheered on the participants complete with a frenzy of  colourful pom-poms, banners and whistles.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The reigning Miss Jumbo  Yoong Swee Moon was happy she won because she wanted to debunk the  notion that fat people are inactive. The basketball player and  sports-mad make-up artist wowed the crowd with a cartwheel at the  finals, and walked away with the crown.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Some people are  fascinated by the pageant for its novelty appeal. But there are others  who were supporting the participants because they saw a chance to change  society’s treatment of those who do not conform to beauty stereotypes.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  the longest time, only thin girls could become air stewardesses or  actresses. Even if plus-sized made it in the entertainment industry, it  was always in the comedy genre.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But not all big girls are content to take things lying down; some joined the contest to prove that they are beautiful.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Mandy  Ong, 33, who was first runner-up in last year’s pageant, recalls how  she would always receive compliments about her Barbie doll looks, but  they always came with the put down “but you are too big ...”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Since  so many people think fat women are ugly, I took matters into my own  hands by joining this pageant. I knew that if I could stand up in front  of the crowd and let my inner beauty shine through, I would have proven a  point,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another participant, Siti Zuraida Edham, 35, was in a defiant mood.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:364px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/11/10/lifeliving/f_p11fans.jpg" alt="" height="233" width="350" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Huge support: The crowd in a frenzy over their favourite contestant.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“You can call me fat if you want. What do I care?” said the housekeeper who tips the scale at 121kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another  contestant Zamzarina Ahmad wanted the public to be more sensitive to  the feelings of those who are overweight. Growing up, she was teased  mercilessly for being fat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The 30-year-old assistant director,  who weighs 119 kg, says that because of the taunts, she became  withdrawn. Maturity and family support helped her come to terms with her  size.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“No matter what size you are, you must learn how to be  comfortable with yourself. Be confident, be brave and most of all, take  care of your appearance,” says Zamzarina.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The contestants also  shared that they faced misconceptions that they are fat because they had  let themselves go, or were too lazy to manage their weight. They are  seen as weak-willed because they could not control their tendency to  overeat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Many do not realise that obesity can also be caused by genetics, hormonal imbalance and health problems.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ong  revealed that she started gaining weight seven years ago, on an average  of eight kilos per year, due to job stress and eating irregularly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Chin  Swee Heang, the oldest contestant at 45, attributed her weight gain to a  botched up operation. Even today, the mother of three has to undergo  annual adjustment procedures to realign her intestines.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But the  finalists this year are determined to not dwell on the downside of being  called fat. “There is no point in getting angry,” said Goh Yea Min, 29,  this year’s third runner-up.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The crucial thing is to shed this  perception that obesity is a barrier to having a good social life,” said  Ong Kay Li, who weighs 95kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yong who won the crown this year believes in the good life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“As  the Chinese say, the ability to enjoy one’s food is to experience what  prosperity is about, so I am not going to feel guilty about being a  foodie,” said Yoong, who weighs 94kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There were those who tried to lose weight. Lee Hui Leng, 33, last year’s second runner-up, reveals that she had lost 35kg once.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I  ate nothing but apples for three months but I regained the weight after  two years,” recounted Lee who trimmed down from 120kg to 85kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The onus is on them to stop wallowing in self pity, added Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She  took charge of her social life by joining the Young Malaysians  Movement, an organisation aimed at promoting national unity and  integration, eight years ago.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I learned how to be a confident public speaker and performer,” said Lee who loves dancing.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another contestant Theresa Chin, 39, said that being overweight is no excuse for not enjoying life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I’ve  climbed Mount Kinabalu twice. So my friends call me ‘Dunlop Pillow’ but  I see this as a compliment because it means I am a cuddly and warm  person,” she said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Purnisha, who works as an HR executive, said  she did not face discrimination at her workplace due to her weight  because it’s her job performance that mattered most. “In the end, it’s  about proving your worth through diligence and wisdom. For all that is  said about fat people being this and that, I feel that most times, the  discrimination is in one’s own mind,” said Purnitha.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &amp;gt; &lt;i&gt;If you would like to participate in the next Jumbo Queen contest, please call 03-2142 6636 or e-mail: &lt;a href="mailto:joanne@sungeiwang.com"&gt;joanne@sungeiwang.com&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-5773240979430155257?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/5773240979430155257/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=5773240979430155257' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/5773240979430155257'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/5773240979430155257'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/12/flaunt-it-and-shine-at-miss-jumbo.html' title='Flaunt it and shine at Miss Jumbo'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-6866370233954824932</id><published>2011-12-08T06:14:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-08T06:19:59.740-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Making a living on Dead Man’s Street</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Jalan Masjid in Ipoh has earned the eerie moniker of Dead Man’s  Street because of its many coffin shops and funeral parlours. Star2  takes a tour and finds a lively lot.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;THIS is my honey,” says Ng Kam Wah, the owner of Kam Chiew Coffin Shop, as a way of introducing his wife, Yip Woh Teng, 66.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In fact, all the girls on this street are my honey,” adds the 70-year-old with a mischievous grin.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  coffin wholesaler is not a rampant playboy but he is one undertaker  with a sense of humour. His most appreciative fan is none other than Yip  whom Ng has been married to for 44 years. According to Ng, it was she  who made the first move while he was still an innocent youth back in his  father’s old coffin shop in Buntong, Perak.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:284px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://starstorage.blob.core.windows.net/archives/2011/11/28/lifeliving/f_12Cham.jpg" alt="" height="386" width="270" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Cham Swee Hung says the real objective of the job is to console the living.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  Ng and his honey, it’s a partnership set for eternity. He has already  bought their coffins and they are safely tucked away in the store. Ng  paid RM25,000 for each, revealing that the oak caskets of modern elegant  design had been imported from the US.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“These models have a  built-in elevating base which allows you to raise the body for viewing  and then lower it back before the lid is sealed,” says Ng, proud of his  acquisition.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When the time comes for either one of them to go, he  hopes that the send-off will be similar to the one that he had overseen  for the late Lay Heng, a timber tycoon, in 2006. During the funeral  procession, 200 of the deceased’s friends and relatives took turns to  carry the casket from Jalan Bendahara to Jalan Gopeng, a 5km journey.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Like  most of the funeral directors on this street, Ng inherited the coffin  business from his late father. Jalan Masjid or Dead Man’s Street has  been Ng’s home and workplace for 42 years. He and his wife live above  their shop lot on the same row as eight other coffin shops. In the  evenings, they sit in wicker chairs at their shopfront and talk about  the day, serenaded by the tinkling bells and chants of Taoist priests  from nearby funeral parlours. They are semi-retired now and their son,  Chuan Wai, who is in his 30s, oversees the company’s business, taking  the company into the third generation.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:364px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://starstorage.blob.core.windows.net/archives/2011/11/28/lifeliving/f_12screws.jpg" alt="" height="300" width="350" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;The  screws devised by Ng Kam Wah. Note the grooves which allow the quiet  turning action from a turnkey to lock in coffin lids minus the stressful  sounds of hammering.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;How Jalan Masjid evolved into a  one-stop area for bereavement needs may have its answer in Chop Wing  Hup, the first casket shop to open here. Lau Say Kee, 66, says that his  grandfather, Chee Chong started the casket company in 1923 in what was  then known as Hume Street.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My grandfather, an immigrant from  Kwantung, China, was the owner of a betting parlour. He became a coffin  maker by circumstance when he had to make one for a close friend who had  passed away. Word got around and he soon found a new business for  himself,” says Lau.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another company is believed to have opened at  the same time as Chop Wing Hup but Lau recalls that it winded up soon  after. This places Kwang Fook, a 60-year-old casket company, as the  second oldest establishment on the street. It is run by Kooi Swee Keng,  64, who took over her father-in-law’s business when her husband Cheng  Kok Kuan passed away suddenly from a heart attack at age 53.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;True to the saying that birds of a feather flock together, others followed suit, giving the street its unique identity.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:294px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://starstorage.blob.core.windows.net/archives/2011/11/28/lifeliving/f_12hearse.jpg" alt="" height="350" width="280" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Riding  on a celebrity’s popularity: A hearse rental service making use of  Michael Jackson’s photo to illustrate how a deceased’s image will be  displayed during an actual funeral procession. Where star power is  needed, celebs like Leslie Cheung, Marilyn Monroe and Elvis Presley are  popular choices.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;In touch with the times&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At  the street entrance, opposite the old Ipoh bus stop are the Phuan Yee  and Foo Kwong Association buildings, the street’s busiest funeral  parlours. How these buildings landed their roles dates back to the time  when the upper floors were used as convalescent homes for the destitute  30 years ago. Cham Swee Hung, 36, of New Cham Fei Casket says that it  made perfect sense to hold the wake downstairs when one of the residents  passed on. The convalescent home has since closed but people still look  at these associations as the ideal spot for wakes because all their  funerary needs are nearby.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In terms of funerary services, this  street would see many firsts as the industry evolved to accommodate the  changing face of time. An old photograph shows that sometime in the  1920s and 1930s, the street would see its first motorised hearse in the  form of a Bedford truck, rented by the Machinists Association (no longer  in existence), for one of its members who had passed away in an  accident.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In 1973, Kam Chiew made headlines in &lt;i&gt;The Star&lt;/i&gt;.  It read: “Here Comes The Coffin – In A Crane”. According to Ng, he had  then constructed a large teakwood coffin measuring 1.829m by 1.524m to  hold the remains of Yeong Chin Poh, a wealthy Chinese medicinal shop  owner. As the weight would make the slippery slopes of the burial site  too dangerous for it to be manoeuvred by hand, the Yeong family agreed  to hire a crane to avoid a mishap.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:394px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://starstorage.blob.core.windows.net/archives/2011/11/28/lifeliving/f_12walkway.jpg" alt="" height="310" width="380" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;A typical walkway in Dead Man’s Street.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;One  will also find traditional vestiges like the handmade Mui Fa Mak  (shaped like a rose in Cantonese) coffins. One of these rests in Kam  Chiew’s store, waiting for the owner to claim it as her eternal resting  place. It is a symbol of a faithful husband’s vow to provide for his  wife from beginning till end for its making was commissioned before the  husband’s demise in 2006.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;These coffins come with a special  locking system which sees a series of nails being turned into  ready-bored holes to secure the lid. No hammering is involved as the  nails are fastened with a turnkey. They were invented by the old masters  to shield grieving families and expectant mothers from loud sounds.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Despite  the taboos that come with death and of public perception that this  street was where things went bump in the night, business flourished.  Most of the funeral directors here drive luxury cars and as for their  fleet of hearses, the Toyota Alphards are the latest rides, going for a  rental rate of RM800 a day. In terms of property value, rent for a  ground floor shop lot was RM600 in the 1960s and 1970s. It has since  ballooned in the past few years. The one and a half shop lot occupied by  Kwang Fook cost Kooi RM400,000 to acquire.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;b&gt;Nothing to be afraid of&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There  is the perception that only casket shops can do well here. Ten years  ago, when Kooi tried to diversify her business by opening a bookshop and  an accessories boutique, she had to close down within a year due to  poor sales.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Phuan Jun Hei, a 30-year-old sales executive from  Fook Loke Sau which was part of the Eight Eleven group, does not fully  agree. He points out that while the left row of the street has been  conquered by casket and funeral services, there is one lone cushion  maker on the right row that has been there for at least 20 years. In the  end, it is all a matter of having a clear view of one’s target market.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The  dominant business here is in bereavement so a bookshop offering  Buddhist prayer books and self-help titles on how to cope with loss may  do well. For those who are inclined towards fashion, there is a market  for shrouds and mourning clothes. So, it is important to have the right  concept,” says Phuan.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The plus point of being unique has  inadvertently thrust the street’s tenants into the spotlight. Cham  proudly reveals that he had just been interviewed by Astro recently.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ng  also remembers how he had gone to a police station in Sungai Siput for  the first time only to be told by an officer that he was famous. It  turned out that an article on him had appeared in a popular Malay  magazine subscribed by the policeman.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Chong Peng Wah, 50, who has  the task of bathing the deceased at Kwang Fook personifies the  camera-loving character. On hearing that his picture would be taken, he  quickly donned his coat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But not all crave the spotlight. A  mourner who had just lost his father asked us to leave the funeral  parlour while we were trying to snap some pictures of a paper house.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Show  us some respect. We are already overwhelmed as it is. We don’t need  more hassle from you,” he says, the distress clearly showing in his  voice.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Undampened by the mourner’s attitude, Chong quickly found  another willing candidate in Kong Wah, 64, who happens to be from the  Kam Chiew group.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kong has been in the business for 30 years and  we, it seems, are in luck. They are in the midst of preparing a wake for  a former employee, Wong Yee Lam, who had passed away at 7am in an old  folk’s home earlier. He was 73.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Of course you can take pictures.  The deceased used to supervise our workers here. I used to drink with  him. We are friends and colleagues. He won’t mind,” assures Kong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Meanwhile,  one hears the constant hacks of dry coughs. Many undertakers in Jalan  Masjid are heavy smokers. Being on call 24 hours, nicotine, they say,  helps keep them awake.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Organising a funeral is not easy,” says Kong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Bungle  up at the onset and everything goes awry. Even as I am talking to you  now, my mind is already thinking of other things,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kong’s eyebrows shoot up immediately on the insinuation that undertakers can be made party to murder cover-ups.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“For  us, the most crucial document is the death certificate. Without it,  nothing moves. The only way to get a death certificate is from the  police,” he asserts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And don’t expect to hear any ghost stories from this lot.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lau is the first to shake his head when asked about netherworld encounters.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I blame the media for planting such thoughts in the public’s mind,” says Lau.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The drama, says Ng, is always from the living.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of  the most unforgettable was a doctor who performed an autopsy on his own  mother. Ng, who was there to oversee the funeral arrangements, recalls  how the man’s sister had berated him in front of the whole family when  she found out what he had done.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Not that my client was heartless but all he wanted to know was the cause of his mother’s death,” he shrugs.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On  the other hand, Ng feels that the doctor should have been more  accepting of his mother’s demise as she was already in her 80s.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  niggling question of whether Jalan Masjid will continue to retain its  infamous reputation in the future remains to be seen. There is talk that  authorities are planning to discontinue licences and move everyone to  an industrial area in Fahlim. But feedback reveals that it is an  exercise that will see plenty of discontent.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The first time they  actually talked about relocation was 20 years ago. After that, nothing  was heard. I guess a suitable place has not been found yet. Anyway, I  don’t see the point. It’s not that we are troubling anyone,” opines Lau.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-6866370233954824932?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/6866370233954824932/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=6866370233954824932' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6866370233954824932'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6866370233954824932'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/12/making-living-on-dead-mans-street.html' title='Making a living on Dead Man’s Street'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-5043291602473969265</id><published>2011-11-02T17:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T17:12:00.162-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Magic In A Can of Paint</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Everyday life inspires colour trends. But to own a colour, you have to build a relationship with it first.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;ASTOUNDING  as it may seem, blacks and whites will be the latest colour trend for  2012. It is a prediction that makes even Heleen Van Gent, head of Akzo  Nobel, a global paints and coatings company which produces Dulux, smile  in disbelief.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“If I told my grandma that I was going to paint my  room black, she would say, ‘Child, you can’t do that!’” says the  48-year-old mother of three, with a laugh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Agreed that we have  been raised to associate colour with symbolic meanings, but Van Gent  reveals that everyone has an adventurous streak when it comes to colour.  She recalls a presentation she did in China some time ago.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:314px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://starstorage.blob.core.windows.net/archives/2011/10/30/lifeliving/f_17heleen.jpg" alt="" height="399" width="300" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Heleen Van Gen says colours and world events go hand in hand, and each era has a signature shade.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thinking  that the Chinese would fall for reds, she presented a colour palette in  the auspicious shade, anticipating that it would hit home. However,  they were more interested in what was in fashion at that time!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But  Van Gent assures that it will not be all grim and gloomy next season,  where wall colours are concerned. Knowing the Asian mindset, the trend  will definitely take on a more vibrant character.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for colour  predictions, what’s going to be in is not the result of crystal  ball-gazing or a matter decreed by a select few. Although she has a  panel of architects, professors and interior designers from around the  globe presenting their findings, the decision on a season’s favourite  colour ultimately stems from the man in the street.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is  everyday life that inspires designers and stylists, who in turn present  their ideas in fashion magazines and design books, she explains. It is  from here that the sprouts of a season’s trend will take root and  spread. And colour, being such an integral component in our lives, will  naturally find a place for itself.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Colour, Van Gent adds, is not  just a shade on a pallete. It is life itself. Colours and world events  go hand in hand. One example is the Go Green movement, which aims to  raise environmental awareness, and the Think Pink campaign for breast  cancer awareness. People also “see red” and “turn blue” in the face.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Each  era also has its signature shade. In the 80s, there were neons. The 90s  was dominated by earth colours, while metalics heralded the millennium.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Van Gent grew up in the 60s, when orange was the colour of the era; she remembers vividly receiving an orange table lamp.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But  the colour that has had the most influence in her life, however, is the  classical shade of dark blue found on jeans and sweaters worn by  schoolgirls, with white shirts to match.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I liked the colour scheme so much that I used it in my house,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For an inkling of how the black and white trend may be translated in Asia, we take a hint from Van Gent’s own home.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She  brightens up her rooms with keelims, handwoven Indian rugs made by  people who use colour instinctively. For example, a weaver may suddenly  run out of thread. If the same colour thread is not available, she might  just continue weaving with that of another shade. The result is an  exciting and unexpected feel to the whole piece. Against the backdrop of  black walls, the effect is stunning.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But no one should be a  slave to trends, she adds. It is the onus of the homeowner to experiment  and do a bit of soul-searching on what shade her walls should sport.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My  house is like a paint laboratory. If you touch the walls, you can feel  that they’re soft because there are so many layers of paint underneath.”  Well, Van Gent has painted her house no less than six times in two  years.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This, she says, allows her to see how a colour will look  like in real life. Take, for example, the Celestial Sun shade in the  Dulux range. On the swatch, it is almost white. But once it’s on a wall,  the brightness of this yellow is almost dazzling. Interestingly,  instead of having a blinding effect, the colour is neutralised by  surrounding elements.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Yellow is like a prehistoric colour. It is  found in nature in plants and greens. It is present in antiques and  you’ll be surprised how this colour can really work in a roomful of  classical furniture,” she enthuses.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For this colour expert, there  is magic in a can of paint. An old grey building can be given new life  with a fresh coat of colour – not necessarily yellow, of course. In a  community project that Van Gent took part in to revive the surroundings  of an economically-challenged area in the British Isles, the change in  the children’s behaviour was apparent when their old school yard was  repainted.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It still gives me the goosebumps when I think of it.  The children came to their newly repainted school and were so happy to  see the transformation that they started jumping and running,” she  recalls.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Closer to home, a can of paint is certainly cheaper than  renovation work, and easier to use, provided one has the right tools  and know-how. Van Gent recalls that her husband repainted their bedroom  red in one night.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;However, the first step is to build a relationship with colour.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;If  you need help on the best way to get acquainted with or how to “own”  your own favourite shade, check out ownacolour.com, a charity website  launched by Dulux to raise money for Unicef. Roger Moore, the actor who  shot to fame as Ian Fleming’s James Bond, is the spokesperson for the  charity.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-5043291602473969265?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/5043291602473969265/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=5043291602473969265' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/5043291602473969265'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/5043291602473969265'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/11/magic-in-can-of-paint.html' title='Magic In A Can of Paint'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-2081220156660034999</id><published>2011-11-02T17:08:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T17:08:56.822-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Peaceful Parents Joyful Juniors</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="story"&gt;   &lt;h1 class="story_title"&gt;Seeking peaceful resolution to problems&lt;/h1&gt;   &lt;span class="story_date"&gt;2 November 2011&lt;/span&gt;   &lt;div class="story_body"&gt;     &lt;table width="450" align="center" border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="3"&gt;     &lt;tbody&gt;         &lt;tr&gt;             &lt;td&gt;&lt;img alt="" src="http://parenthots.com/getfile/802a955d-0e9e-4026-997a-25465d341c18/gracepeaceful.aspx" height="338" width="450" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;         &lt;/tr&gt;         &lt;tr&gt;             &lt;td style="text-align: center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small"&gt;For the workshop, communication is the first to be emphasised.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;         &lt;/tr&gt;     &lt;/tbody&gt; &lt;/table&gt; &lt;p style="margin-bottom: 0in"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By GRACE CHEN&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;At the recent preview of a workshop with the enticing title,  Peaceful Parents, Joyful Juniors, my boys, aged eight and four, got into  a fight. It did not take long before the younger fella’s bawls turned  the cosy room into a giant pressure cooker. At that moment I had the  urge to give both a tight slap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But wait, wasn’t I in a room with two experts? Now’s the time to find out if this programme is effective or quixotic, I thought.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Take a deep breath,” advises Jin Yap and Carly Nair, the workshop facilitators.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do. As I exhale the four-year-old extends his hand and asks Mummy to  kiss the pain away. His brother unmasks the real perpetrator by showing  me the fresh scratch marks on his arm. By the time both have had their  say, the anger has evaporated. No slap equals no tears, and no more  outbursts equals a happier mum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Call it a little sample of what to expect at Nair and Yap’s workshop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nair, 29, who hails from Scotland, is a hypnotherapist. A mother to  three-year-old twins, Nair was inspired by her school guidance  counsellor back in Aberdeenshire to pursue a career in wellness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Twenty-six-year-old Yap has eight years’ experience as a counsellor. At  18, he went to Dehyana Lee, a life coach specialising in addiction and  breath work, to undergo a 12-step recovery programme. In addition to  breath work, Yap also practises art therapy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Both Yap and Nair advocate NLP (neurolinguistic programming) and EFT  (emotional freedom techniques). In a nutshell, NLP teaches people how to  build rapport and trust by active listening; EFT is a way of soothing  energy disruption by tapping on the energy meridians to remove negative  thinking and beliefs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These, in addition to art and colour therapy, are the tools used in Nair and Yap’s workshop.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;table width="200" align="left" border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="3"&gt;     &lt;tbody&gt;         &lt;tr&gt;             &lt;td&gt;&lt;img alt="" src="http://parenthots.com/getfile/de318f72-40f9-4621-83de-aed347280b70/jincarly.aspx" height="251" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;         &lt;/tr&gt;         &lt;tr&gt;             &lt;td style="text-align: center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small"&gt;Yap and Nair use EFT and NLP to help children and parents understand the emotional aspects of a relationship better.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;         &lt;/tr&gt;     &lt;/tbody&gt; &lt;/table&gt; &lt;p style="margin-bottom: 0in"&gt;But back to my boxing champs, do I let it go? What if I do, will it mean that I am condoning physical violence?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“We don’t have all the answers. No doubt parenting is a challenging and  exhausting task and that’s why we think that parents are heroes,” laughs  Yap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Truthfully, they state that their workshop on peaceful parenting does  not come with guarantees. Instead, the aim of the day-long session,  which involves parent-and-child (between ages seven and 12)  participation, is focused on communication methods and exploring parent  and child emotions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There will be activities designed to understand the power of verbal and  non-verbal communication, and parent and child will be taught how to use  visualisation, a technique to create images in the mind for better  confidence and performance. At the end of it, it is up to the parents to  practise these methods with their children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“The catchword here is active listening. The same way you listen to a  business prospect is the way you should listen to a child. Don’t just  focus on the words but read the body language too. It’s also about  putting emotions into your daily communication with the children,”  explains Nair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But having started the programme two-and-a-half years ago under the  banner of Rainbow Children, surely they would have something to share, I  push on. What can a parent do on days when tantrums and patience are in  opposition?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nair suggests self-reflection.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Ask why this is grating on you. Is it the noise that bothers you? Why?  Are you irritated because you are tired? Or are you unhappy with your  husband for not taking out the trash? Many times, parents take out their  frustrations on their children,” says Nair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Going deeper, she adds that parents are the ones with issues, not the  child. Say, when a child makes noise, why is there a need to shush him  up? Is he doing anything wrong? Or when you are in a family restaurant  and your child does that, and a diner gives the kid the evil eye. In  telling the child to keep quiet, you are actually trying to please the  other person who has made you uncomfortable, she points out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If it’s a lesson in consideration that you’re trying to drive home,  explain why. Make it clear that the digestion process works best in a  calm and soothing atmosphere. Explain that whooping noises do not  contribute to sereneness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still, keeping junior happy does not mean an end to rules and conduct  but instead of resorting to authoritarian methods, one can impart  lessons in a fun way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Say, if you are in a library, you can engage a child in a little  contest of who can talk more softly, for example, instead of going  ‘sshhhsshhhsshhh’ all the time,” says Nair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And Yap is all for sparing the rod. “Resorting to caning or adopting the  ‘My Way Or The Highway’ stand is very damaging. A lot of social ills  and problems come from there,” he notes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He also reminds parents to lead by example.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“If parents want to have children who are sharp in following their own  dreams, but they are not doing the same with theirs, then how can they  expect their child to do so?” he asks, adding that his experience as a  counsellor shows that children mirror their parents’ actions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In an earlier workshop, Yap separated the children and parents in two  different groups where they were asked to act out a tantrum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It turned out that the children’s actions were identical to their parents’!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This means that it will be pointless to tell a child not to fight when  the parents are constantly arguing or to expect them not to swear when  every single sentence a parent utters is filled with expletives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yap also points out that when parents complain that their children have  to be told a hundred times to brush their teeth, maybe it’s because the  very basic practice of listening to each other is not carried out among  the adults in the family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For Yap and Nair, having happy children is largely dependent on the  atmosphere at the home front. As such, the first step towards peaceful  parenting is to take on a positive stand. This means ensuring that only  practices which are in line with what is good and right are observed  among the adults. That will pave the way for junior to have a joyful and  meaningful childhood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Peaceful Parents, Joyful Juniors Workshop takes place next month  at B2-05-03 Bukit Utama Condo 1, Bandar Utama, Petaling Jaya, Selangor.  For details and to register call (010) 277-2950 / (03) 7713-2091 or  e-mail &lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:info@ultimateperformancesolutions.com"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#0000ff;"&gt;info@ultimateperformancesolutions.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div id="sn_fb_like" style="float:left;width:400px"&gt;  &lt;/div&gt;     &lt;a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php"&gt;&lt;img src="http://s9.addthis.com/button1-share.gif" alt="" height="16" width="125" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-2081220156660034999?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/2081220156660034999/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=2081220156660034999' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2081220156660034999'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2081220156660034999'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/11/peaceful-parents-joyful-juniors.html' title='Peaceful Parents Joyful Juniors'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-1775267237073807621</id><published>2011-11-02T17:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T17:07:24.697-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Emotion-filled performances at fest</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;THE Collision Arts Asia Festival which took  place at Publika in Solaris Dutamas recently also featured a 72-hour  creation challenge for the artistic community to see if they can muster  up a show within three days.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In an effort to raise money for  underprivileged children in Cambo-dia, artistes from all walks of genres  banded together to perform for free in a two-hour show which ended with  a spectacular aerial and fire show from Viva Circus and Psycusix.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:234px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/11/1/central/m_14hulahoop.jpg" alt="" height="325" width="220" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Spins: Hula hoop fire trick from Psycusix.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Opening  the act was Hilton Lee, a male belly dancer who admitted that he had  spent more time on his costume than worrying about rehearsals.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;With six years of experience in his hips, Lee gave the ancient art of seduction a tribal fusion feel with his wicked gyrations.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Making  a special appearance was Michelle Chang of Sutra Dance Theatre who  showed her support for the arts by joining forces with four new dancers  to present a whimsical piece on a love triangle.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;From Olah Karma  of KupuKupu Arts and Events, comes a haunting tale of infanticide told  through dance. Titled Komulo Nimbus, it is a story of an insane young  mother who murders her babies. But instead of being vengeful, the souls  of her twin sons take pity in their mother’s suffering and refuse to go  to heaven until she is healed.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:414px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/11/1/central/m_14komulo.jpg" alt="" height="267" width="400" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Why  so serious?: A dancer in Komulo Nimbus immerses himself among the  audience and earns a candid camera moment with this playful fan.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;This  sad piece saw an unexpected lift when a member of the audience took the  chance to snap a picture of himself with one of the twins midway  through the show. Much to the dancer’s credit, he maintained a straight  face.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Olah, who is the head of the AH! Project, which aims to  raise awareness on social problems through the arts, is famed for his  thought-provoking pieces.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;His last performance, Medula Oblongata,  at the Short and Sweet event at KLPac was about the story of how six  glue sniffers came clean.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Rising from the dead to breathe life  into the show was Reizo Zen, who has been impersonating Michael Jackson  for the last 20 years.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Zen had started life as a clown before developing an interest in mime and later, impersonation.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:314px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/11/1/central/m_14olah.jpg" alt="" height="301" width="300" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;A cry: An Iranian student dances the part of the insane mother in Olah Karma’s Komulo Nimbus.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Fans of MJ can reconnect with the Gloved One through Zen in Facebook.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As this was a charity show, Mr Banana, a clown from Canada, also did his bit to drum up donations by passing his hat around.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Unperturbed  by the lukewarm response, he pleaded with one generous member of the  audience who was watching the show at the upper floor to take out his  wallet and throw him RM10. To watch more of Mr Banana’s antics, catch  him on myspace.com/mrbananashow.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Closing the Collision Arts Festival was Viva Circus who performed a series of pole dances and aerial stunts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At  one point, hearts almost came to a stop when an aerialist went into a  free fall only to be stopped at the last minute by a series of clever  knots she had made in the folds of hanging silk.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Credit also goes  to Psycusix, who had the crowd moving back to ensure that they would  not be razed by the flames of their fire show extravaganza.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To warm up, they showed off their arsenal of tricks which included contact juggling, poi and wand levitation.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Viva  Circus began humbly as a pole dancing outfit four years ago. Over time,  Vivian Lea, the founder, expanded the group’s show repertoire to  include aerial artistes and give budding local acrobats a platform to  show off their talents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-1775267237073807621?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/1775267237073807621/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=1775267237073807621' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/1775267237073807621'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/1775267237073807621'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/11/emotion-filled-performances-at-fest.html' title='Emotion-filled performances at fest'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-876919668634148784</id><published>2011-11-02T17:02:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T17:04:43.402-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Fantastic Faun</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A lithesome dancer commands the stage as a frolicsome forest creature.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;WHEN &lt;i&gt;L’apres Midi D’un Faune &lt;/i&gt;(The Afternoon Of A Faun) was staged in 1912, famed &lt;i&gt;premièr danseur&lt;/i&gt; Vaslav Nijinsky nearly caused a riot. The editor of France’s venerable &lt;i&gt;Le Figaro &lt;/i&gt;newspaper  started a campaign against the ballet, calling it shameless and deeming  Nijinsky’s choreography “too expressive”. Thanks to the furore, the  dance was only performed another few years before it was shelved.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It was revived in the 1980s by two dance notation specialists who  reconstructed it from Nijinsky’s notebooks and photographs taken shortly  after that first performance. Since then, the piece has been performed  by the great Rudolf Nureyev and later elements of it were used by  Queen’s Freddie Mercury for the band’s &lt;i&gt;I Want To Break Free &lt;/i&gt;music  video in 1984. Coincidentally, it was in that same year that Ramli  Ibrahim would perform his own version of the frisky, uninhibited faun in  Malaysia when he returned from studying dance abroad and established  the Sutra Dance Theatre.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And recently, Ramli reprised the choreography for Sean Scantlebury of New York’s Battery Dance Company.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:414px"&gt;  &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2011/10/2/soundnstage/sm_pg19scantlebury.jpg" alt="" height="285" width="400" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Animal behaviour: Sean Scantlebury as the faun in Ramli’s choreography of L’apres Midi D’un Faune. — Photos by GRACE CHEN&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;This intriguing performance had its start in January, when the  American troupe – working with the UNCHR (United Nations High  Commissioner for Refugees), Aswara (National Academy of Arts, Culture  and Heritage) and Sutra – held dance workshops for refugee children. The  workshops were part of the Battery Dance Company’s Dancing to Connect  programme, which exposes children from low income families to the arts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The lithesome Scantlebury, 31, had been a visual treat on stage, and a  bulb must have come on in Ramli’s head after the lights had dimmed at  the Aswara auditorium in Kuala Lumpur back then....&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So, did Ramli’s contemporary version of &lt;i&gt;L’apres Midi D’un Faune &lt;/i&gt;cause  a scandalous sensation at the DBKL Auditorium on Sept 22? Well, suffice  to say that, though one could have heard a pin drop, there were no  gasps of outrage. Today’s dance audiences are obviously well acquainted  with the animal kingdom and animalistic movements, thanks no doubt to  National Geographic and the Discovery Channel....&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As the titular faun, Scantlebury was simply amazing, and not just  because he managed to effect a sort of crazy calm while kicking his  heels in the air, an action that may have made a less competent dancer  look silly. It was his ability to appear masculine as he placed his  palms together to endearingly rest his cheek on them. It was his  underlying energy that commanded every eye. It was how he made Sutra  dancer Divya Nair float like a feather when they danced together.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of course, the stage was not Scantlebury’s alone to conquer, and there were three other performances in the &lt;i&gt;Into The Center &lt;/i&gt;production that night.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In &lt;i&gt;Karma&lt;/i&gt;, which featured actor Sandra Sodhy as Mistress Maya  with Ramli and Sutra dancer Guna as her servants in the illusory web of  Time and Death, it was the constant rasp of Valerie Ross’s musical score  that set a rather unfortunate mood. A member of the audience remarked  that the performance felt more like a tribute to a mosquito god. And  thanks to her menacing presence, Sodhy too came across as a human-sized  insect. Others thought the piece too much of a mish mash of classical  Indian dance, ballet and contemporary dance.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:414px"&gt;  &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2011/10/2/soundnstage/sm_pg19divya.jpg" alt="" height="267" width="400" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;The ‘faun’ with Divya Nair who becomes the object of his affection.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;But the piece did tug at the heart strings when we saw how seamlessly  Ramli and Guna came together despite their age differences.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Those who have followed the growth of Sutra from the days when it was  an open-air ashram in Brickfields, KL, would know that Guna joined  Sutra in 1989 at the age of 26 and is now Ramli’s right-hand man. What  both have gone through to withstand the test of time revealed itself in  this piece – and the moment when Guna lifted Ramli in his arms and spun  the senior dancer took on a metaphoric significance.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Finally, we came to &lt;i&gt;Layapriya&lt;/i&gt;, choreographed by Jonathan  Hollander, the head of the Battery Dance Company, using a musical score  from Finish composer Eero Hameenniemi.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The conventional practice has always been, fast tempo equals swift  movement but Hollander seems to have broken this traditional rule. The  60-year-old choreographer would not only apply this to &lt;i&gt;Layapriya &lt;/i&gt;but to another vignette for &lt;i&gt;Into The Center&lt;/i&gt;, when Ramli moved like a snail despite the ascending tempo of tabla beats in the background.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When the same treatment was seen in &lt;i&gt;Layapriya&lt;/i&gt;, there was a  brief moment when this writer wondered if they were playing the wrong  music. When the tempo rocked, the dancers glided. When there was the  anticipation that the pace would finally pick up and move on, things  still remained in slow motion.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What gives, we wondered at first. Then we recalled what the MC had  said at the beginning of the show: Take a deep breath and relax. And  that, in turn, reminded us of the snail.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;A few days earlier, we had observed a snail in Ramli’s garden.  Content in a pot and oblivious to the snarling 6pm traffic just outside  his gate, the snail was rippling leisurely across a leaf no bigger than a  palm, leaving a shiny coat of slime in its wake.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There were two ways of regarding the snail: As a pesky critter out to  destroy or as a potential idea for a National Geographic documentary  entitled &lt;i&gt;Lessons On Taking Your Own Time, Starring The Snail&lt;/i&gt;. If one was of the second school of thought, one would have appreciated &lt;i&gt;Layapriya &lt;/i&gt;and learned a lesson from it: Command your surroundings, don’t let them overwhelm you.&lt;/p&gt;            &lt;hr noshade="noshade" size="1"&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-876919668634148784?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/876919668634148784/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=876919668634148784' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/876919668634148784'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/876919668634148784'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/11/fantastic-faun.html' title='Fantastic Faun'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-8066769749796732594</id><published>2011-10-24T18:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-24T18:23:16.942-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Malaysian Masala</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Although locally-made Indian movies are not a dime a dozen, there have been inroads made into the scene. &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; TO trace the colourful trail of Malaysian made Indian movies, we must go back to the 1960s. One could consider &lt;i&gt;Rathapei&lt;/i&gt;  (Bloody Lust) as the first Indian film made by a local production as it  had been done by a dance troupe who recorded their performance on stage  while touring India.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Two more projects would follow suit in the 1970s. One was by Felix Anthony, a producer from Ipoh with &lt;i&gt;Thun Bangal Urangu Vathillai&lt;/i&gt; (Worries Don’t Stop) and &lt;i&gt;Anbe En Anbe &lt;/i&gt;(My Love).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One was a disaster. The other two never saw light of day due to lack of funding.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:264px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2011/10/24/movies/f_18suurya.jpg" alt="" height="361" width="250" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;He’s  the man: M. Suurya, a newcomer to the silver screen, plays the  quintessential Indian hero. The actor, who is director M. Subash’s  cousin, helped to produce Pensil in 2005.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;So, credit  for the first locally-made Indian movie to become a success has to go to  Panchacharam Nalliah, better known as Pansha, who directed &lt;i&gt;Naan Oru Malaysian&lt;/i&gt; (I Am Malaysian) in 1991.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Pansha, an established film distributor who then shot to fame in &lt;i&gt;Adutha Veedu&lt;/i&gt;, a TV3 Tamil drama about hostile neighbours in 1984, recalls what spurred him on.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“During  the 80s, many production houses from India did their filming in  Malaysia. Every time they came, there was a lot of talk about  collaborations with Malaysian artistes to encourage the film industry.  But as soon as they finished production, these people went back and  nothing more was heard. So, I decided to do something about it by making  my own film,” says Pansha who wrote, directed and played the hero in  the movie.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Naan Oru Malaysian&lt;/i&gt; made its run in three  locations and raked in RM150,000. Pansha recollects that it played to  full house in Kuala Lumpur’s Federal Cinema during its week-long run and  even reckoned that it would have done better if not for the turmoil  between two bickering political parties who had forced the authorities  to cordon off the town area which affected attendance at the Coliseum  Theatre in Jalan Tuanku Abdul Rahman, KL. But in all, the man has no  regrets.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:394px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2011/10/24/movies/f_18appalam.jpg" alt="" height="249" width="380" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Haani Shivraj and Gana Pragasam in Appalam, directed by Afdlin Shauki.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;In 2005, Deepak Menon made &lt;i&gt;Chemman Chaalai &lt;/i&gt;(The  Gravel Road), a Tamil film with English subtitles. The film was shown  at a number of film festivals across the world including the  International Film Festival Rotterdam, San Francisco International Film  Festival, Pusan International Film Festival, Korea, Nantes Festival 3  Continents, France and the Fukuoka International Film Festival in Japan.  A few years later, he released another film, &lt;i&gt;Chalanggai&lt;/i&gt; (Dancing  Bells). These were not your average Tamil movies, but rather stories  portraying the daily life of people as humanly and realistically as  possible, and met with a promising reception. However because they were  made in digital format (which is not yet a recognised medium), the  movies were not classified as locally made films.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What made &lt;i&gt;Naan Oru Malaysian&lt;/i&gt; different for Deepak’s films was that it was shot on 35mm film. According to Pansha, the director and producer of &lt;i&gt;Naan Oru Malaysian &lt;/i&gt;from  Berjaya Film Production, shooting on film is a giant step for the  industry in terms of cost as it requires a huge budget. A can of film  which has a screening time of five minutes can cost RM500. So, a full  length movie spanning two and half hours can take up to 100 cans. In  truth, this means that last year’s production of &lt;i&gt;Appalam &lt;/i&gt;was indeed only the second Malaysian-made Indian movie after &lt;i&gt;Naan Oru Malaysian&lt;/i&gt; to be shot on 35mm film.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Malay director Afdlin Shauki’s &lt;i&gt;Appalam&lt;/i&gt; was produced by Tayangan Unggul, a sister company of Astro, and released with much hype from the media.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:414px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2011/10/24/movies/f_18naanOru.jpg" alt="" height="244" width="400" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Pansha (middle) with well-known local actor Ramesh (right) in a scene from Naan Oru Malaysian.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Interestingly,  Gana Pragasam, the actor who played the hero in this movie was also the  first producer to come up with the Tamil VCD.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Hello, Yaare Peserathe&lt;/i&gt;  (Who Is There?), a comedy about prank calls, was first released as an  audio cassette in 1999, before it was adapted into a two-hour VCD movie.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“There was no Indian movie VCDs back then except for the Kollywood imports. I wanted to create a new market,” recalls Gana.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  start was not encouraging. When he bandied the idea to local producers,  one told him point blank that no one would want to see his face.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Unperturbed,  Gana went ahead. A stall at Batu Caves, Selangor, set up during the  Thaipusam festival, became his first sales outlet. Eleven VCDs and  RM2.5mil later, this prolific producer, director, script writer and  actor is best known among Tamil movie fans as the local comedy king. His  latest project, &lt;i&gt;Budak Estet&lt;/i&gt;, an animation is due for release in 2012 as a 26-episode TV serial.  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:244px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2011/10/24/movies/f_18Subash.jpg" alt="" height="384" width="230" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;M.  Subash in Pensil, about a disabled boy’s unconditional love for his  drunkard father. The success of the film shows that an Indian movie can  do without the song-and-dance formula.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having forged his own path into showbiz, the former Toshiba copier technician is also the industry’s most fiery advocate.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In  a letter to Astro in August this year, Gana who is also president of  Malaysian Indian Art Activist Association, voiced that the current  practice of the broadcasting station in producing local Indian content  on an in-house basis was no help in encouraging the industry to  progress.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Allocations to produce documentaries and 26-episode  dramas should be given to private production companies to help the  industry expand. Local stations should have at least one Tamil channel  airing 100% locally produced content,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The National Film  Development Corporation Malaysia (Finas), he added, should also play  its part by allocating grants to deserving companies.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So is the  Indian movie scene in danger of extinction? A personal observation at a  DVD store in Brickfields, KL, shows that it is still progressing at a  healthy rate. This year alone sees two film releases.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One is &lt;i&gt;Garuuda&lt;/i&gt;,  directed by M. Subash. Released in August. It features actor M. Suurya  in his first starring role. In this action-packed movie, the fight  choreographer is none other than national taekwando champ, Selvamuthu  Ramasamy, who made headlines in the 1989 and 1991 SEA Games with his  gold medals.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another is &lt;i&gt;Anusthanaa &lt;/i&gt;a thriller starring  Anaantha the THR Raaga DJ, and Haani Shivraj. Shot in Kampar (Perak),  Fraser’s Hill (Pahang) and Kuala Lumpur, it promises plenty of suspense  and drama and should be released at the end of the year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another new movie, anticipated for the Deepavali season according to Pancha, is &lt;i&gt;Vilaiyaatu Pasanga&lt;/i&gt; (The Tuff Nuts) directed by Vimala Perumal&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Being Malaysian-made, the local Indian movie naturally has a &lt;i&gt;muhibbah&lt;/i&gt; feel.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For example, in &lt;i&gt;Singakottai&lt;/i&gt;,  a GV Media VCD production of a comedy about a royal court that has  isolated itself from the modern world, the king receives a letter from  the Kuala Lumpur City Hall! Audiences are quick to recognise the palace  as the Sultan Abdul Samad building in front of Dataran Merdeka.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In &lt;i&gt;Undercover Rascals&lt;/i&gt;, starring C. Kumaresan of &lt;i&gt;Gerak Khas &lt;/i&gt;fame and Jasmine Micheal, the hero’s best friend falls for a Chinese girl, lending a unique touch to the song-and-dance routine.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So, since we are brewing our own productions would it be possible for an Indian movie to go without the song and dance for once?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Subash, who directed &lt;i&gt;Pensil&lt;/i&gt;,  a story of a disabled boy’s unconditional love for his drunkard father  which was shown over Vaanavil in 2005, gives a ready nod.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;However, he points out that one of the trials of making &lt;i&gt;Pensil&lt;/i&gt;  was a rejection slip by a station because there was no song and dance.  But after sinking more than RM25,000 of his and his partner’s hard  earned savings into the making of the film, they were not going to let  go.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The perseverance paid off because when it finally made it on Vaanavil, the response from the media was huge.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I  got people calling to ask how they could help the boy in the movie and I  had to tell them that it was a fictional character,” says Subash, who  played the lead role. (In 2008, &lt;i&gt;Pensil&lt;/i&gt; was made into a Malay film and screened at cinemas, with Subash reprising his role as the lead character.)&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But one thing that no Indian movie can miss is the love story and one of my favourite love scenes is in &lt;i&gt;Undercover Rascals.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This  is where the hero enters into the line of fire with his Mitsubishi  Evolution IV to rescue the damsel in distress. Seeing the baddie go for  his gun, hero swings heroine to safety and in that split second, their  eyes meet and they fall in love. How dramatic!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Meanwhile, plots continue to simmer and boil, enveloping everything in an aroma of drama and suspense.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Only this time, the cooking is happening right in our own backyard. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As  for what’s in store for the future, trends show that the dream of  “making it big in India” remains popular. But there are those who prefer  to break away from the pack.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Currently, Gana is collaborating with partners from Bangladesh for &lt;i&gt;Foreigner&lt;/i&gt;, a movie chronicling the life of a migrant worker abroad.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Compare  the Malaysian population of 28 million, Bangladesh has 180 million. You  can do the math from here, I guess,” concludes Gana.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star Monday 24 October 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-8066769749796732594?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/8066769749796732594/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=8066769749796732594' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/8066769749796732594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/8066769749796732594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/10/malaysian-masala.html' title='Malaysian Masala'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-3421279647494949157</id><published>2011-08-23T01:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-23T01:48:15.513-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A chef called Susur</title><content type='html'>&lt;h1 id="story_title"&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;div id="story_content"&gt; 						&lt;br /&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Susur Lee is riding the wave of culinary stardom that he himself created through sheer effort and determination.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;  THE mention of Chef Susur Lee not only evokes the flavours of lychee  with foie gras mousse or roast lamb loin with Sichuan eggplant stew, it  also brings up the interesting subject of nameology, a coined word  meaning the science of names.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;You see, Susur is not this super  chef’s real name. It’s Steven, a name this 53-year-old readily admits  that he had never liked. It has something to do with the way it was  pronounced by his brethren back in Hong Kong, where he started his  career as an apprentice at the Peninsula Hotel at the age of 16.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“You know how they have a way of making English names sound Cantonese?” says Lee wryly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The decision to settle for Susur had come about when this Hong Kong native, who is now based in Toronto, was in his mid-teens.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I liked Susur for the sound. It was neither masculine nor feminine,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:414px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/8/23/lifeliving/f_pg07susur1.jpg" alt="" height="262" width="400" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Driven to succeed:&lt;/b&gt; Chef Susur Lee’s competitive spirit led to his rise from last place to tie for overall second place in the über competitive &lt;i&gt;Top Chef Masters&lt;/i&gt; cooking show last year.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Interestingly,  nameology is about vibrations, a wave phenomenon which is believed to  have an electromagnetic effect. Indian ancient seers believed that if  these vibrations connected well with one’s birth planet, it will make  the individual highly successful, making all the difference between  fortune and misfortune. For Lee, who currently owns five restaurants in  Toronto, Washington, New York and Singapore, there is no doubt that the  name “Susur” has seen to his phenomenal rise in the culinary world. Lee  was in Kuala Lumpur recently to give us a hint of what he’ll be  preparing for the Hennessy X.O.’s Appreciation Grows Gastronomy dinner  event that will be held in Malaysia at the end of October.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The youngest of six siblings and the son of a tea lady, Lee was heralded as one of the “Ten Chefs of the Millennium” by &lt;i&gt;Food And Wine&lt;/i&gt; magazine and was called an “improvisational artist” by &lt;i&gt;Gourmet&lt;/i&gt;  magazine in 2000. Shang, Lee’s New York restaurant, is a destination  for the city’s A-list society and Zentan, his restaurant in Washington,  has been graced by Michelle Obama. Nearer to local shores, there is  Chinois in Singapore, a partnership with the Tung Lok Group which owns  and manages over 40 restaurants in Singapore, Indonesia, China, Japan  and India.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of course Lee’s success does not simply rest on a name alone.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;His is a character that does not take well to defeat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kelly Choi, the host of &lt;i&gt;Top Chef Masters&lt;/i&gt;  which airs over Bravo TV mentioned Lee in her blog  (www.bravotv.com/bio/kelly-choi) when the chef made an appearance on the  show’s second season last year. Choi had observed how the jovial Lee  had suddenly turned “fiercely dark, almost tormented” when the results  announced that he had only received two and a half stars and was placed  last.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image right" style="width:214px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/8/23/lifeliving/f_pg07susur2.jpg" alt="" height="297" width="200" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;According  to Choi, Lee’s anger lasted minutes and she could feel the heat from  his rage emanating through his pores. Pride must have spurred Lee to go  all out during the elimination round of the show and he roared back from  the dead to clinch the second spot to move into the champion stage. The  winner was Marcus Samuelsson; Lee tied for second place with Rick  Moonen.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Later, Choi, who tasted the chef’s competition fare would  describe his menu of slow-roasted curry chicken roulade stuffed with  rich sausage and his creamy polenta and grits paired with sweet, chunky  tomato jam as “utter ambrosia”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Evidently, this brand of warrior spirit had been in him from day one.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“You  ask me what has driven me to do well from the beginning? Back in the  1970s, there were plenty of aspiring cooks from China who would be more  than eager to work in Hong Kong. So, if an apprentice was not up to  mark, he could be easily replaced,” says Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But ask him what has been his driving force and he mentions his mother.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She  worked until her hands were red and raw and she cried all the time,”  recalls Lee who describes this period in his life as a difficult one.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Twenty-two  restaurants and one culinary cookbook later, Lee can still recall his  mother giving him a drumstick from a steamed chicken in a bid to chase  his bothersome presence out of the kitchen. Back in the 1950s, when  chicken drumsticks had not yet been subjected to mass production,  getting such a choice piece was an indication that a child was much  loved.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My mother is my motivator and educator. She taught me how to stand up for myself,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lee  had, in fact, almost followed in his mother’s footsteps. His first post  in the food and beverage industry was as a bartender; he recalls  washing hundreds of glasses every day, the very same thing his mother  did. Something must have clicked in his mind then or maybe it was  because he had found a fun bunch of friends in the kitchen department.  Either way, he worked up the nerve to approach the manager to request  for a transfer.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width:244px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/8/23/lifeliving/f_pg07oysters.jpg" alt="" height="345" width="230" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Though  Lee does not serve canapes in his restaurants, he could not resist  adding the finishing touches to these Pacific oysters. They come with  julienned pickled cucumber and yuzu dressing.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I always  had an ‘establishment’ in the kitchen. When I was in the bar, the  kitchen would give me food and, in exchange, I’d give them drinks,”  chuckles Lee mischievously.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It was in the kitchen that he became  part of the brotherhood, a bunch of old-school Chinese chefs whose  colourful characters could only be matched by their “flowery”  vocabulary.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One name which Lee can still recall is a colleague  who goes by the moniker “Phau Tak Fai” (the equivalent of Speedy  Gonzales in Cantonese).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“He was one guy who could remain cool no matter how pressured the kitchen was,” recalls Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It  was in this tradition that Lee would hone his culinary skills and  emerge as one of the first restaurateurs to marry Chinese cooking with  French techniques when he opened Lotus, a 12-table diner in Toronto,  Canada, in 1987. The restaurant lasted a decade before Lee decamped to  Singapore to consult for the Tung Lok Group. He returned to Toronto in  2000.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But in all, Lee would credit serendipity and the spirit of  adventure for some of his winning recipes. He shares an anecdote of how  he managed to wheedle an authentic green curry recipe from some Thai  cooks.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When my son was just six months old (he is 21 now), my  wife and I decided to holiday in Thailand. Being very particular about  his food, I had packed his brown rice and seaweed in a box. So when we  went out to eat, I had to borrow the restaurant’s kitchen to prepare his  food. It was there that I met the cooks, a bunch of ladies who were  preparing green curry at that time. When they found out I was a chef,  they let me try their green curry and that was how I got this recipe.  Today, you will find this recipe in my book &lt;i&gt;Susur: A Culinary Life&lt;/i&gt;, co-written by Jacob Richler,” says Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  Lee, cooking is likened to a journey of lifelong learning. He  vacuum-packs ginger flowers when he is in Asia, carrying them home in  his personal luggage to his Toronto restaurants just so that he can put  them in his tamarind sauce. He constantly keeps himself on his toes with  tasting menus, inspired by his finds in the marketplace.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It is  all about understanding the process. We articulate our expressions into  our cooking. Chefs are a bit like rock stars. We love nothing more than  to perform and please people,” concludes Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Chef Susur Lee  will be cooking at the Hennessy X.O.’s Appreciation Grows Gastronomy  dinner from Oct 31 to Nov 6. For enquiries, call &lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt; 03-2178 0230 or go to &lt;a href="http://www.hennessyxo.com.my/" target="on_top"&gt;www.hennessyxo.com.my&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Published in The Star, Star 2, 23rd August 2011.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 					 						&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-3421279647494949157?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/3421279647494949157/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=3421279647494949157' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/3421279647494949157'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/3421279647494949157'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/08/chef-called-susur.html' title='A chef called Susur'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-423626558686608690</id><published>2011-06-27T19:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-27T19:40:21.348-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Home-grown cooks</title><content type='html'>WHAT spurs people to cook at home? &lt;p&gt;Cost is one factor. Eating out is not cheap – not where quality is concerned.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;A  plate of mixed rice with vegetables and meat in the city can cost up to  RM7. If you are feeding a family of three, then one meal alone can  easily come up to RM30 with drinks thrown in.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Then, there are parental concerns.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:414px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/6/28/lifeliving/f_6cafe.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="256" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;The  upper floor of Huck’s Cafe, a private kitchen started by Poh Huck Seng  in his double-storey corner house in Gasing Indah. As Poh limits the  number of diners to 20 per night, the waiting list is one-and-a-half  months long.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Two years ago, Susan Beh, 40, discovered that her son, Aidan, now six, had eczema.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We  found out that this was caused by a food allergy, and triggered by  oyster sauce, sesame oil and mushrooms, the very things which are often  found in commercially prepared food,” says Beh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As a full-time  mother, Beh is lucky that she can supervise Aidan’s meals personally,  something she could not do during the first two years of his life when  she was working and cooked only on weekends.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Beh says it is love for her family that motivates her.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width:214px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/6/28/lifeliving/f_6huck.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="286" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Poh Huck Seng&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When your loved ones request for a certain dish, it is hard to say, ‘no’. That was what sparked my interest.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Poh Huck Seng, a 47-year-old father-of-three, cooking at home was the last thing on his mind in his bachelor days.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But when his first child was born 19 years ago, he had a change of heart, simply because he wanted the best for his son.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The first thing I made was apple juice. At that time my son was only three months old.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Since  then, this doting dad has used his kitchen skills to impress his  children. Since it was Poh’s wife who did the daily cooking, this event  organiser thought that he would provide some novelty to their diets.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“They  learned how to count by watching me bake almond butter cookies. Each  child would have their own shape and they’d recognise which one was  theirs. They would gobble everything up before the cookies had time to  cool!”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Home cooking eventually paid off for Poh. When he started  posting everything he cooked on Facebook in an album called Huck’s Café,  it attracted his friends’ attention and soon, they began to request for  “sampling sessions”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It’s a popular trend in Europe where  people will go to an individual’s house for a taste of home-cooking. I  thought why not give it a try so I started taking reservations,” he  says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Today, Poh has taken to cooking as a full-time venture,  opening his double-storey corner house in Gasing Indah in Petaling Jaya,  Selangor, to diners who will either give him a menu to follow or  surrender themselves to the surprises he comes up with.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As Poh  only limits the nightly capacity to 20, the waiting list is  one-and-a-half months long. For reservations, check out Huck’s Café on  Facebook.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star 28, June 2011.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-423626558686608690?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/423626558686608690/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=423626558686608690' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/423626558686608690'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/423626558686608690'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/06/home-grown-cooks.html' title='Home-grown cooks'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-7912158494630524771</id><published>2011-06-27T19:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-27T19:39:10.139-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cook for comfort</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;If you care about what you’re eating, preparing your own food is safer than eating out all the time.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;ELAINE  Ho is not telling anyone not to eat out. Nor is she turning her nose up  at those who do. What she’s saying is: Cooking at home can be a good  thing.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ho, 28, lived and worked in Australia for 10 years before  returning to Malaysia in 2009 when she got married. That was when she  discovered that most of her friends and family members resorted to  having all their meals outside. Ho, who has a degree in Food Science and  Technology from Curtin University, Western Australia, found this  alarming.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Food may be cheap here but there is the question of  what’s inside. The oil may have been reused many times and there is the  hygiene issue, especially with hawker food.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width:244px"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2011/6/28/lifeliving/f_6elaine.jpg" alt="" width="230" height="345" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Eating well: Elaine Ho strongly advocates home cooking. &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;This  planted the seed of an idea for her website www.chopstickdiner.com,  which she works on full-time. She filled it with simple recipes and food  tips, like how to stop vegetables from wilting, the correct way to wash  mushrooms, and how to cut meat and store fresh fish. It has everything  that a home cook would find handy, and on good days, the website sees up  to 600 visitors.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ho’s recipes may be too simple for advanced  gourmet cooks, but they are intended more for the younger crowd, perhaps  those who are living on their own for the first time.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Cooking  at home has its own appeal. Thanks to personalities like Nigella Lawson,  people are beginning to embrace cooking at home. They see it as a  ticket to popularity where the home of a good cook is always a favourite  place for a gathering with friends.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But is Ho realistic? Not  every young adult can afford his own apartment. When all the space one  has is a room and the landlady says that the kitchen is out of bounds,  then what?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Find another place. Obviously, she does not have your  best interests at heart. A reasonable person will realise that in order  to put in your best at work, you will need proper nutrition,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;All that fuss over a meal, says Ho, will definitely pay off in the end.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When  you take charge of your own meals, the quality is there. Let’s say you  fry your own noodles. You can throw in lots of vegetables and meat,  adjust the salt level and hold back on the oil. Noodles cooked in a shop  will either be too oily, salty or will not contain enough meat or  vegetables.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nutrition is another crucial issue. A burger bought from a stall will contain too much fat. A plate of &lt;i&gt;chee cheong fun&lt;/i&gt; is made up entirely of starch and sugar. If you include fish balls, there may be a little protein.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In the long term, a diet high in fat, carbohydrates and sugar is not going to bring good news.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I  am not saying, ‘Don’t eat out’. If you’re Malaysian that’s almost  impossible because there are so many good food places here. What I am  advocating is that eating out should be a treat, not something that is  done for every meal.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ho has heard enough groans though – the two most common complaints are: no time, and too much hassle with the cleaning up later.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is where Ho makes her entrance as the food scientist.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  first thing she asks is for the lazy cook to think green with spinach,  green apples, kiwifruit, green pears, celery, cucumbers and broccoli.  They are rich in nutrients that can support retinal health, and help  lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels. Green fruits and vegetables  also contain chlorophyll, which has been proven to be effective against  cancer.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The next thing is to wave the flag for things like  tomatoes, watermelon, strawberries, raspberries, red apples, red onions  and red grapes. They contain powerful antioxidants that protect cells  from damage.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So, can eating out offer the same deal?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The thing here is to think of the end result, not the hassles,” says Ho.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Next is to set aside the notion of cooking as a chore.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Think  of quick meals. A baguette stuffed with minced chicken, a slice of  fried egg and Chinese parsley is an example of a quick and easy meal.  Egg sandwiches sprinkled with spring onions don’t take more than five  minutes.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for the lack of space or appliances, well, there is  always the rice cooker. Think of one-pot meals where carrots, beef and  rice can be cooked at the same time. There is also the option of  steaming fish and vegetables in the same pot while the rice cooks.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ho suggests looking at cooking as therapy.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The  goal is not to achieve full marks for whatever you have cooked.  Instead, look at it as a way to bond and communicate. At the end of the  day, the aim is to bring your family or friends to the dinner table  where you can eat and enjoy each other’s company.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h3 id="story_date"&gt;Published in The Star, Tuesday June 28, 2011&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-7912158494630524771?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/7912158494630524771/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=7912158494630524771' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7912158494630524771'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7912158494630524771'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2011/06/cook-for-comfort.html' title='Cook for comfort'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-6281985723334668443</id><published>2010-08-08T18:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-08T18:39:57.203-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Living the Fabulous Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="1000"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td width="22%" height="174"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style="padding-right: 15px;" align="right" valign="top" width="78%"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td colspan="2" valign="top"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/imagecache/v2_600x450/098s.jpg" alt="" title="" class="imagecache imagecache-v2_600x450 imagecache-default imagecache-v2_600x450_default" width="590" height="888" /&gt;         &lt;p&gt;BETWEEN riding a horse and driving a car, there are no guesses as to which Datuk Anna Lim, 40, prefers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Most  people can drive a car but not all can ride a horse! Though I will not  deny that a car is an essential mode of transport, I must admit that  driving a car is monotonous compared with riding a horse," says the  two-time beauty queen who was crowned Miss Malaysia in 1990 and then Mrs  Malaysia in 2004.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"With a car, as long as you have the basic  driving skills, you are set to handle almost any car. A horse however,  is different as you can never predict how it will behave every time you  sit on its back. For the rider, this means being in a constant state of  alertness and to me, that makes it challenging and satisfying."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As  a dressage rider who has committed herself to the sport for the past  four years, Anna speaks the fondest of Sorento, a 14-year-old chestnut  thoroughbred Gelding owned by the Selangor Equestrian Club.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She also rides on Jimmy, a 16-year-old Warm Blood from New Zealand that had made an appearance at the SEA Games in 2001.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/image2/052s.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Riding,  says Lim, is her way of beating stress and having gone as far as  England and New Zealand to hack, it is a sport that runs deep in her  blood as her cousin brother, Benny Woodworth, is a champion jockey while  another one of her cousins, Joe Lau, is a horse trainer in Macau.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"Iím planning to buy a horse with a view of training it for the race  tracks very soon but I'm still at the stage of talking to some  breeders,"says Anna.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite her preference for horse riding, it  has not stopped Anna and husband Datuk Jeffrey Lim, who is also the  president of the Rolls Royce Enthusiasts' Club, from being proud owners  of a fleet of luxury cars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To begin with, the Lims have no less  than seven Rolls Royces parked in various private garages which include  classic beauties such as the Corniche, Wraith and the Cloud.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The  couple's present favourite is a red Silver Spur, a 6.75l V8, which has a  beautiful beige interior with a luxurious wood paneling finish.  However, it is a golden Wraith which holds the fondest memories for Anna  as it had been the Lims' wedding car when they wed in 1995.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"It  was wonderful feeling to be sitting in a Rolls Royce at that time  because it meant that Jeffrey wanted the best for me," recalls Anna. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Little  has changed for this couple who now have three children. At the time of  this interview, it was Jeffrey who came to Anna's rescue after she  found that a nail had punctured a rear tyre of her Mercedes Sport CLK.  Gamely switching his BMW 5 series with her, Jeffrey gamely proceeded to  pump up the back tyre with a foot pump before proceeding to the nearest  repair facility while Anna continued with the question and answer  session.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just like horses, Anna reveals that luxury cars have  always been a predominant feature in her life. Both her grandfathers had  a collection of Cadillacs and Mercedes in the 1950s.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anna  herself would own a BMW when she turned 21 while still working as a  stewardess with MAS in 1986. After sustaining a fractured ankle during  an emergency exercise, Anna then took on a safer but more challenging  role as Miss Malaysia in 1990, after which she became a stockbroker,  which put her smack in the middle of the 1993 bull run and made her a  proud owner of a 2-door Mercedes Sports.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Later, she would go on to a 190E and subsequently, a chauffeur driven S-class.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ìI  have always been an advocate of the fabulous life in terms of living  well, eating well and looking well. I cannot stand the idea of poverty  as it depresses me,î admits Anna, who does not smoke.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a philosophy that Anna, who practises yoga and swims no less than 55 laps a week, imbues into her work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/image2/078s.jpg" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Her  latest projects includes the launching of her book called Magical  Moments which will take place this 10th of July at The Club Saujana with  Casa Vino and Trinidad Tobacco as her sponsors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An elegant  coffee table hard copy which highlights the luxury resorts in Malaysia,  it had taken Anna two years of hard travelling and research.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before  this, she has also authored two other books, Beauty and Beyond which  details her experiences as a beauty queen and Children-The Future of  Tomorrow, a book on parenting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In line with her role as a former  beauty queen, she is also the founder of Beauty and Fashion Studio with  Amber Chia and come this August 7th and 8th, the pair will be  presenting a grooming workshop in PJ Hilton. This star-studded event  will be graced by the presence of Datin Josephine Fonseka, who was Miss  Malaysia Universe 1970, and Miss Malaysia International 1979 Nancie  Foo.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. For more information, call 012-331`6257 or visit &lt;a href="http://www.beautyfashionstudio.info/" title="www.beautyfashionstudio.info"&gt;www.beautyfashionstudio.info&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Story and pictures by Grace Chen&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-6281985723334668443?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/6281985723334668443/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=6281985723334668443' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6281985723334668443'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6281985723334668443'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/08/between-riding-horse-and-driving-car.html' title='Living the Fabulous Life'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-9128019090176319553</id><published>2010-08-08T18:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-08T18:34:40.872-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Abishegam Formula</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-primary-image"&gt;     &lt;div class="field-items"&gt;             &lt;div class="field-item odd"&gt;                     &lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/imagecache/v2_600x450/012.JPG" alt="" title="" class="imagecache imagecache-v2_600x450 imagecache-default imagecache-v2_600x450_default" width="590" height="787" /&gt;        &lt;/div&gt;         &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;JUST what does it take to own a fleet of luxury cars? Andrew  Abishegam, the proud owner of a Jaguar XJ V6, a Ferrari F1 Modena Spider  and a fleet of Mercedes Benz motorcars which includes the S Class, SL,  CE and a nine-seater Mercedes Vito Grand Luxury and the managing  director of X2, which specialises in the management of international  corporate launches and special events, gives us his take.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The first crucial ingredient is the ability to turn a "no" into a "yes".&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"To me the question of 'no' does not even arise. I have banned the  words "cannot", "I don't know" and "impossible" from my vocabulary,"  says Abishegam, who founded X2 on Aug 8 in 1988.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is a simple principle and assures Abishegam, easily applicable as well. All one has to do is to ask nicely.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of course, it pays to cultivate the art of effective communication to put the message across clearly and effectively.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For this seasoned launch master, it all boils to creating a first good impression.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"How you look, how you dress, how you look people in their eyes, the  way you talk, your language, your accent and how you read the person in  front of you is all part of the communication process," says Abishegam.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Definitely, having knowledge on what you can or canít do is also supremely important.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This father of four says that he would never dream of asking for the  impossible or putting the service provider in a position where he would  have to incur expense.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another trait that one must have is the readiness to push everything  to the extreme and to the very end until almost to breaking point  because, according to Abishegam, that is the only way to achieve the  best.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"The one phrase that is prevalent in my life is, ëTo give the best,  to get the best and to be the bestí- nothing less, nothing more. As long  as you're not stealing or hurting and upsetting anyone, do whatever  pleases you. It's your life! You have one life. Don't waste it. Make  your life an experience, the best experience ever," he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Naturally, one must also have a perfectionist attitude.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/image2/040.JPG" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In Abishegam's case, he says that the only reason guests get to see a  beautifully orchestrated event is because it is planned, rehearsed and  executed exactly according to how he wants it to be.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One example was the simultaneous launch of the Proton Perdana V6 2.0  and the Proton Satria 1.8 GTi at the Bukit Jalil in-door stadium in  1998.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The logistics, he says, was one of the most complicated as it  involved 3,000 Proton employees which had to be choreographed, fed,  clothed and kept entertained for three days from nine to five.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another event was for a Ferrari Club dinner earlier this year which  entailed pushing (yes, you read me right) a Ferrari ENZO from the ground  floor to the ballroom of the Kuala Lumpur Convention Center of which  the path had to be carpeted every step of the way.  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"Nothing is left to chance. Absolutely nothing! I don't believe in  luck or even hope for the best. As Confucius said, 'Preparation +  Execution = Guaranteed Success'," says Abishegam.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The idea of celebrating life with a touch of fanfare is something that is not only confined to events organised by X2.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In one year, Abishegam bought his wife, Chris Liew, the creative  genius behind X2, a red Mercedes SL convertible, wrapping the whole car  in bows and ribbons before presenting it to her.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"When she saw it, the first thing she said was, "Can we afford it?"  That's Chris, always the practical minded one," laughs Abishegam.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It also helps to abide by a life philosophy.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Abishegam and Chris, both in their youthful 40s, it is the  fairy-tale life for them and as Liew admits it, the love for the  fabulous life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This means running the gamut of hands on childcare with the fraternal  twins, Alexa and Alia, both 10, Adam, 8 and Allegra, 5, and creating  out-of-this-world experiences for their clients.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Once, they chartered a private jet from Malaysia Airlines to bring  130 passengers all on first class service, including private air  hostesses, special meals, private check-in as a treat for a group of  international VIPs.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another time, it was a sail into the sunset among the 99 islands of  Langkawi on a private yacht, Lily Marleen, with a band and dancing on  board.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is also important to remember one's humble beginnings.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Abishegam, who recalled how he had to spend nights working in the  office while his friends partied, the first car he owned was a Proton  Saga 1.3 manual which he bought for RM26,000. Five years later, he sold  it at RM27,000, at a time when Protons were highly sought after.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lastly, one must have a strong desire to progress in life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;From a Proton Saga 1.3, Abishegam would jump to a Mercedes 300 CE  Sports Coupe with electric seats, electric steering, remote robotic  safety belt, sun roof, electric head rest.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;ìI was 29 when I bought it. Everybody was very surprised when I moved  from a Proton Saga to a Mercedes Sports. I enjoyed it so much because I  knew that every part of that car was earned by my own hard work," he  says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"This is one car I will keep in my collection forever."&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/image2/045.JPG" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Story and Pictures by Grace Chen. Published in CBT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;             &lt;h2 class="title"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-9128019090176319553?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/9128019090176319553/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=9128019090176319553' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/9128019090176319553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/9128019090176319553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/08/abishegam-formula.html' title='The Abishegam Formula'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-7015433016920980888</id><published>2010-08-08T18:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-08T18:32:18.854-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Carven the Couturier</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-primary-image"&gt;     &lt;div class="field-items"&gt;             &lt;div class="field-item odd"&gt;                     &lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/imagecache/v2_600x450/370_1.JPG" alt="" title="" class="imagecache imagecache-v2_600x450 imagecache-default imagecache-v2_600x450_default" width="590" height="392" /&gt;        &lt;/div&gt;         &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div class="field field-type-text field-field-primary-image-description"&gt;     &lt;div class="field-items"&gt;             &lt;div class="field-item odd"&gt;                     The BMW sedan motivated Ong to work hard. Model  Esther Siaw is seen here modelling one of Ong's creations.           &lt;/div&gt;         &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;MENTION Carven Ong and the image of soft, fluid gowns come to mind.&lt;br /&gt;As   the couturier of choice for beauty queens, blushing brides and   glamorous celebrities, it is no wonder that Ong was named Asian Top   Fashion Designer 2009 by Fashion Asia in Hangzhou, China.&lt;br /&gt;“Making a   dress is not unlike making a car. It is a very technical affair,” says   Ong, who does couture, pret-a-porte and runs an academy in Petaling   Street, Kuala Lumpur.&lt;br /&gt;Some of the fascinating aspects of tailoring,   reveals this fashion designer, is a formula that only requires the   measurement of the back and bust line.&lt;br /&gt;The accurate summation will  provide the tailor with dimensions for the neck, arm hole, shoulder,  waist and hip lines.&lt;br /&gt;Of  course this formula has seen a bit of  tweaking from Ong who converted  the original scale, which was formerly  in centimetres, to work with the  same accuracy in inches.&lt;br /&gt;He also  speaks of the seamless dress where not a stitch can be seen along the  length of an entire gown.&lt;br /&gt;This,  says Ong, is attributed to the method  of wrapping the fabric around  the mannequin, a modus that is only  reserved for the masters.&lt;br /&gt;However,  none of the above is even possible  if a student does not know the  character of his materials and it is a  long process of introduction  which can take no less than 1 1/2 years.&lt;br /&gt;Having  been in the line for  two decades, Ong reveals that his love for fashion  started from  childhood in the small town of Taiping where he would  watch his sisters  dress up.&lt;br /&gt;The youngest of six siblings, he fondly  describes his  sisters as the neighbourhood trendsetters. Coming from a  financially  challenged background was no obstacle as the girls tailored  their own  dresses.&lt;br /&gt;“This was during the '70s and '80s, an iconic time  where  fashion revolution was concerned. My sisters were tall and  beautiful,  so whatever they wore looked good. I became the ‘unofficial’  fashion  advisor and it was from them that I learned how to cut and sew,”  says  Ong.&lt;br /&gt;The early years, as he describes it, were hard.&lt;br /&gt;For  one,  Ong’s father, a lorry driver who drove one of those old Mercedes   10-wheelers with doorless wooden cabins and hard planks as seats, was   not exactly happy about his son’s choice of profession in the beginning.&lt;br /&gt;Two,  the story of Ong’s first sojourn to the city, was one that had been  fraught with one disaster after another.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/image2/353.JPG" alt="" width="590" height="888" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As  the story went, Ong was  only 17 when he took a bus from Taiping to  Kuala Lumpur as his family  did not have a car. It was 9pm when the then  naive small town boy  arrived in Pudu with only RM50 in his pocket. As  luck would have it, he  was threatened by a thug while on his way to  Kota Raya.&lt;br /&gt;“Can you  imagine? I had no choice but to bargain with the  thug and at last he  made off with RM5, which broke my heart,” says  Ong.&lt;br /&gt;That would not be  the end. When he arrived at Kota Raya another  bad hat stopped him and  this time, there was no mercy. Ong was left  without a dime.&lt;br /&gt;“The next  recourse was for me to take a cab to my  former boss’ place, who ran a  direct selling business in Taman Maju  Jaya. Imagine, my first meeting  with the boss and I had to ask him to  pay for my cab fare,” says Ong.&lt;br /&gt;But  find his footing he did and  after 1 1/2 years as a salesman, Ong  finally persuaded a sister to  sponsor his studies at an academy near  Super Kinta in Ipoh, Perak. This  was the time when the bosses of Pop  Soda were still operating a little  tailor’s shop in Yik Foong Complex.&lt;br /&gt;Of  this time, Ong would vividly  remember wearing carrot cut trousers, the  type where you could stuff  in two hens down each leg. His fashion acumen  soon caught the attention  of the academy owners and they offered him a  job as a part-time  lecturer. In all, Ong took only a year to complete  what normally would  have been a three-year-course.&lt;br /&gt;A man like Ong  certainly suits the  profile of a BMW driver and it is the 318i which has  been his faithful  companion for the last seven years. The Beemer, as  expected, also comes  with a story.&lt;br /&gt;“On my second time to Kuala Lumpur  to really start my  own business, I drove a second-hand Mazda 323, which  I bought from my  brother for RM11,000. I was constantly honked at on  the highway and at  that time I thought, ‘Never mind, you can honk and  overtake all you  like. The next time, I’ll be the one overtaking you’.  That was my  motivation for working hard,” says Ong.&lt;br /&gt;True enough, Ong  was able to  self finance his own Proton Iswara a year later. By this  time, his  academy in Jalan Panggong, Petaling Street, had 20 students  and was  only a modest 400 sq ft.&lt;br /&gt;The Iswara finally made way for a  Kia  Sportage after five years. Ong’s academy had then grown to 1,500 sq  ft  and his pret-a-porte line had just begun making headway in  departmental  stores.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It was only after I was convinced that I had  established myself did  I dare to think of buying a BMW. But let me tell  you, it was a  wonderful feeling when I got into the car for the very  first time. That  was when I knew that I had made it,” says Carven.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/image2/376.JPG" alt="" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Story and pictures by Grace Chen&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;            &lt;h2 class="title"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-7015433016920980888?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/7015433016920980888/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=7015433016920980888' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7015433016920980888'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7015433016920980888'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/08/carven-couturier.html' title='Carven the Couturier'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-8652048955748464052</id><published>2010-08-08T18:27:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-08T18:28:36.625-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Mum’s the word</title><content type='html'> &lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Three restaurateurs share their stories of how time  spent in the kitchen with their mothers not only taught them how to cook  for the family but also infused them with the passion to run their own  food outlets.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;p&gt;  SHE was merely five then but she remembers  the scene vividly. She was in the kitchen watching her mother make the  family’s favourite dish: braised duck flavoured with ginger. It was a  for special occasion which also called for the black beans and oyster  sauce gently simmered for hours over a charcoal fire.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And when Leong Lai Choo turned 11, her mother gave her the run of the kitchen.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My  mother had to be in Singapore for a week and I got to show off what I  learned. That was the first time I cooked for so many people,” says  Leong, 44, who runs The Nyonya One restaurant in Seri Petaling, Kuala  Lumpur.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Aside from honing her culinary skills, the kitchen was  the place for mother-daughter bonding. While she may have no difficulty  being physically affectionate with or saying “I love you” to her two  children, such outward displays of emotion were rarely forthcoming from  her mother Low Siew Yoong, now 74.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She came from a different era  where people believed that it was best to keep the feelings of  affection for one’s children in the heart instead of expressing them  outwardly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“However, because of the time I had with her, I know  deep down that her love for me is as high as a mountain,” says the  former beautician who traded her creams and potions for a &lt;i&gt;nasi lemak&lt;/i&gt; business in the &lt;i&gt;pasar malam&lt;/i&gt; with her husband five years ago before opening their 10-month-old restaurant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As  Leong grew older, the kitchen became their special nook where she would  listen to her mother as the latter dished out advice on taboo foods,  nutrition, boys and life, in that order.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She is undoubtedly the  boss of her kitchen at home where she is very fond of boiling soups and  cooking dishes that have been passed down from her mum.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Taking a  cue from her own childhood, she is teaching her 13-year-old daughter,  Brenda Anne, some kitchen basics, and this proud mum attests that her  daughter can make very good &lt;i&gt;bak kut teh.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;With The Nyonya  One, however, Leong is content to leave the running of the kitchen to  her husband Simon St Maria while she takes care of the service side.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But  that doesn’t mean she does not have a say in the menu. As it is, one of  the restaurant’s signature dishes, the basil, mint and spring onion  chicken (known as the &lt;i&gt;B.M.O Chicken&lt;/i&gt;), is made according to her mother’s recipe.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Their &lt;i&gt;nasi lemak&lt;/i&gt;, by the way, does not contain santan, thanks to Leong who insists on low-fat cooking in all her dishes wherever possible.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  May Miranda, 48, owner of May ‘n’ Mike’s in Petaling Gardens, the  kitchen was where her mother Stella, now 84, taught her the importance  of sharing.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The youngest of five siblings, May says she grew up at a time when the family was experiencing financial challenges.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  Mirandas could only afford to have meat on Sundays and even a simple  dish like Hokkien noodles was considered a treat they looked forward to  when their father got his monthly salary.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We didn’t have money but we grew up with love and it was from the kitchen that my mother taught us how to share.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“On  Sundays, for example, when we cooked mutton curry, she would set aside a  portion for my brothers who could not make it for lunch so that they  would be able to enjoy it later,” May recalls.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another lesson  that Stella would impart on May was one of generosity. As a child, May  often wondered how her mother could be so generous with a neighbour when  they barely had enough themselves.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One day, on seeing her mother  giving a bowl of chicken curry filled with the choicest parts, May  blurted out that she needn’t do that when all they got from the same  neighbour were bones and chicken neck.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My mother turned round  and told me that my neighbour was expecting and that we should pity her  because her own mother was not with her.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She also said if the  same thing were to happen to me, she hoped someone would treat me with  the same kindness. That is how my mother impressed upon me the lesson  that you should give only good things to people.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nevertheless,  it wasn’t her mother who got her on the road to starting a restaurant.  Instead, it was her late mother-in-law Lisa D’Cruz who shared with her  the recipes for what are now May’s signature dishes like prawn toran and  fish pottu.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At a time when the idea of being in the food  business had yet to take form, Lisa enlisted the help of May, who had  just married into the D’Cruz family, to help prepare the family meals.  These were interesting sessions as May not only became familiar with her  mother-in-law’s recipes but she also heard stories about the scrapes  her husband, the late Michael D’Cruz, got into as a child.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Today, May’s three children, all girls, are keen on following in her footsteps in the food business.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Her  eldest, Sharrolyn, 26, has her own place called The Ranch in Kota  Kemuning, Selangor, which she opened a year ago. Among the items on the  menu is Indian grilled chicken, a dish that was inspired by May.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  other two, Sherona, 22, and Shereen, 21, have big plans to promote  their mother’s business which, they say, has an annual turnover of RM1  million.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Unlike Leong and May, Rose Weiss, 42, who goes by her husband’s surname, never spent time in the kitchen with her mother.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We  were forbidden to step into the kitchen!” says Weiss, who has been  running Chez Rose (formerly known as Klimt’s) in Damansara Heights for  the past 25 years.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The reason was that mum, Hasmah Pakir Mohamad, 65, wanted her to concentrate on her studies.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We  owned a rubber estate and there were three maids in the house – one to  do the washing, another to clean and the third to cook. So, there was  very little point or need for us to go into the kitchen,” says Weiss who  is of Afghan and Thai descent and the eldest of four siblings.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So she studied, and by the time she got her degree in economics, mum had already groomed her for a diplomatic career.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There  was one snag, however. Weiss did not like the life at all and so she  became a management trainee at the Pan Pacific in Pangkor.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There,  mum was not around to keep her away from the kitchen, which she found  fascinating because she had been denied its entry as a child.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And was she in for an “enlightening” time.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“This  was the era where chefs were a really rough lot, the type who would not  hesitate to catch you by the scruff of your neck and throw you out of  the back door if they caught you smoking in the kitchen!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Nowadays you have people expressing their shock at how Chef Ramsay can cuss and swear in &lt;i&gt;Hell’s Kitchen,&lt;/i&gt; but that was exactly how the atmosphere was back then,” Weiss says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And,  not surprisingly, one German chef would declare that her slender and  petite frame would render her unsuitable for the heat and heavy work.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When  you are in an industrial kitchen, being a chef is more than just  stirring. At Chez Rose, for instance, I can have 15kg of lamb shank in a  pot and to handle that you need brawn,” says Weiss who heads seven  staff in her kitchen.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;However, her mother’s lesson on  perseverance, industry and the need for perfection would not be lost on  her. Now a mother of one, Weiss not only mans her own kitchen but  supplies frozen soups to other outlets as well.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another thing  which was not lost on her was her mother’s sense of vanity. As such,  Weiss ardently promotes low-fat food and eating plenty of vegetables at  Chez Rose, which serves pork-free continental cuisine.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To date,  Hasmah, who lives with Weiss, has yet to overcome her amazement at her  daughter’s ability to whip up good European fare, but she has accepted  that the kitchen is the place for Weiss after all. To show her support,  she often comes for her favourite dish, the vegetable strudel which  Weiss has created especially for her.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As a Mother’s Day treat, Leong, May and Weiss are sharing their favourite recipes with &lt;i&gt;Sunday Metro&lt;/i&gt; readers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/5/9/sundaymetro/m_03leong.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="334" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Healthy eating:&lt;/b&gt; Leong Lai Choo showing off her santanless &lt;i&gt;nasi lemak&lt;/i&gt; at The Nyonya One.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;B.M.O Chicken (courtesy of The Nyonya One)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; 3 chicken thighs&lt;br /&gt;Pinch of salt, black pepper and turmeric powder&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon vegetable oil&lt;br /&gt;5-6 cloves garlic&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon Szechuan red pepper seeds&lt;br /&gt;2 tablespoons hoi sin sauce&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon dark soya sauce&lt;br /&gt;2 tablespoons oyster sauce&lt;br /&gt;3 tablespoons sugar dissolved in ½ cup water&lt;br /&gt;Sprigs of fresh thai basil, mint and spring onions&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;  Chop chicken thighs into small pieces and season with salt, black  pepper and turmeric powder. Wait half an hour for marinade to seep in.  The smaller the pieces, the easier it is for the flavour to penetrate  the meat. To seal in the juices, half fry the chicken after marinating  and set aside.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For the sauce, put Szechuan red pepper seeds in  vegetable oil and fry over low fire till fragrant. Throw in smashed  garlic cloves, followed by hoi sin sauce, dark soya sauce and oyster  sauce. Stir briefly before pouring in sugar solution.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When sauce  thickens, put in chicken and allow to cook until gravy is almost dry.  Quickly throw in fresh thai basil, mint and spring onions and stir fry.  Recipe serves three.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/5/9/sundaymetro/m_03indianGrill.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="265" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Indian Grilled Chicken (courtesy of The Ranch)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; 1 whole chicken leg&lt;br /&gt;Pinch of salt and white pepper&lt;br /&gt;¾ tablespoon chilli powder&lt;br /&gt;¾ tablespoon powdered chicken stock&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon sesame oil&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon orange juice&lt;br /&gt;Butter for basting&lt;br /&gt;½ medium onion sliced&lt;br /&gt;4-5 curry leaves&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon ghee&lt;br /&gt;¾ tablespoon cumin seeds&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Debone  chicken leg and marinate with salt, white pepper, chilli powder,  powdered chicken stock, sesame oil and orange juice. Leave aside for an  hour before grilling. Baste with butter to keep meat moist.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  the topping, fry sliced onions and a few curry leaves in ghee and cumin  seeds until the onions turn soft and brown. Arrange on top of meat.  Serve with steamed vegetables, fries or baked potato.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 194px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/5/9/sundaymetro/m_03vegeStrudel.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="290" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Vegetable Strudel (courtesy of Chez Rose)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; A mixture of broccoli stalks,&lt;br /&gt;julienne of carrots, button mushrooms and capsicums&lt;br /&gt;2 tablespoons olive oil&lt;br /&gt;Pinch of salt and pepper&lt;br /&gt;1 cup vegetable stock&lt;br /&gt;1 sheet filo pastry&lt;br /&gt;2-3 cloves garlic&lt;br /&gt;1 teaspoon chopped onion&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon chopped tomatoes&lt;br /&gt;1 teaspoon chopped basil&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Pre-blanch  broccoli stalks, julienne of carrots, button mushrooms and capsicums.  Sauté in olive oil, adding salt and pepper to taste. Then reduce in  vegetable stock until vegetables become soft. Wrap vegetables in filo  pastry, put in the oven and bake.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For the sauce, sauté garlic and  onion in olive oil, add in chopped tomatoes and basil. Season with salt  and pepper. Reduce in vegetable stock, thicken with cream and pour  around baked vegetable strudel.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To finish, sprinkle chopped Italian parsley on top.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Sunday Metro, May 9 2010.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 						&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 						&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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When two customers showed up on the very  day that the place was closing down and the kitchen cleared, the owner  took the trouble to run to a nearby shop to fulfil his customers’  request for ice-cream and insisted that it be on the house as a thank  you gesture for their support.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 414px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/5/17/lifeliving/f_pg14allen.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="279" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Service  above self: Allen Teh (far right in grey T-shirt) during a teambuilding  programme that stresses the importance of communication via activities  like war games. Customers don’t care about your problems; they just want  service, he says.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Then there is another about a Starbucks employee who sat with a customer after reading her latest status of glum on Facebook.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ask  him what customer service is and Allen Teh of Center for Customer Care  (CCC), which conducts training workshops for organisations that aim to  achieve maximum business profitability through service excellence, comes  in with the science.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Emotional quotient&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The root  word, according to Teh, 47, who has been coaching others in the art of  fulfilling customer expectations since 2003, is emotional quotient (EQ).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In  the service line, EQ is the understanding that attention, respect and  the service provider’s time are what customers want at anytime,” he  says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Teh’s advice is a reminder that anyone who has signed up  for a career in the hospitality industry will have to put service before  self.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One example given by this self-styled service guru who is  known for his mystery shopper masquerades is the character of Stevens, a  butler, in Kazuo Ishiguro’s &lt;i&gt;Remains Of The Day&lt;/i&gt;. In one chapter,  Stevens continues to serve at his employer’s banquet despite the  knowledge that his 72-year-old father has just suffered a severe stroke.  By the time the banquet ended, Stevens father had passed away.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While  there will be very few who can emulate Stevens’ example in real life,  Ravie Naidu, 46, who started as a waiter in the hotel industry in 1982  and is now general manager of D’Tandoor that operates a chain of  restaurants in Malaysia, is one example who comes close. He remembers  his posting as the night manager in Puteri Pan Pacific in Johor Baru  during the 1990s.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“At that time, my shift was from 11pm to 7am.  Imagine! I had just got married and when I got back from work, my wife  would have already left for work. When I was about to go to work, she  would be sleeping. It lasted a year before I decided that there had to  be some work and life balance as I was starting a family,” says Ravie,  now a father of three.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/5/17/lifeliving/f_pg14ravie.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="366" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;It’s  not about you: Ravie Naidu of D’Tandoor says service providers who  don’t believe they should give in to the customers are in the wrong line  of work.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Long hours, says Ravie, is something that  those in the hospitality industry will have to endure and he truthfully  admits that without the support of his wife, Para, 42, he would have  kissed his career goodbye a long time ago.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Without question, for a  job that extensively exposes one to the human element, there are days  when one will have to handle the drama and idiosyncrasies that come with  it. In a field where brickbats are more abundant than bouquets and  rants more than raves, there are times when things can go very wrong and  the service provider gets an earful even when he is not to be blamed.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Foong,  53, remembers one wedding when the mother-in-law had a stroke and  fainted at the main table. Foong had to quietly engineer the transfer of  the poor woman to hospital via the hotel’s back door so as not to upset  the wedding guests.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In a separate incident, a power cut caused a  ballroom of wedding guests to dine in candle light but due to the heat,  the guests left before the ceremony got into full swing and the wedding  ended in disaster.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ravie recalls one incident when he found what  looked like a bomb next to the ballroom of a hotel that he was then  working for. After evacuating the hotel and calling in the bomb squad,  he found out that the device was a dud and someone had played a hoax.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Summing  it up, Foong, who does not hide the fact that his cholesterol levels  have gone haywire due to the stresses of his job, says that at such  times, there is nothing to do but be patient in which case, Ravie agrees  that it is one virtue which a service staff must have in limitless  abundance.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Difficult customers&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The keyword here,  according to Teh, is “emotion management”. In stressing the EQ point,  Teh says the customer service staff should remember that they are like  actors and actresses and their job is to please their audience which is  the customer, no matter how they feel at that time.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having a  giving nature that is completely free of egoistic tendencies also goes a  long way as service providers must realise that customers will have the  tendency to be selfish.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“They don’t care what kind of problems  you have. They just want to get the kind of treatment and service they  have paid for ... that’s it,” states Teh frankly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for giving  the fussy customer the boot, Ravie simply has this to say: “A waiter who  is going to ignore a fussy diner will inadvertently lose him to the  competitor.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/5/17/lifeliving/f_pg14sydney.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="412" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;A smile to go: Starbucks marcom director Sydney Quays says the job requires cheerful types who are friendly with customers.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is not to say that service providers are “yes men”, because there are times when the customer cannot be king.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Car  racing champion Admi Sharul, 39, who is also a safety driving  instructor admits that though politeness and tact is a de rigueur  standard in his courses, he once had to order a driver out of a car  after he repeatedly ignored safety instructions.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I was not afraid of the repercussions because he was driving recklessly,” says Admi.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  this father of two, recklessness, even within the confines of the  Sepang race track, is not a matter to be taken lightly, having survived a  car crash in 1994 in which he suffered neck injuries as a passenger.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another  interesting observation in Teluk Batik, Perak, also reveals that not  all customers can be placated by niceties. In a tense showdown between a  banana boat operator and an irate customer, one of the operators’ team  mates, in recognising the starting signs of a heated argument that was  on the verge of becoming physical, promptly “attacked” his own colleague  and shouted at his own man for being a trouble maker. The “attacker”  then swiftly removed banana, boat and his entire team out of sight,  putting a full stop to further trouble, an example of reverse psychology  at work.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Later, when the situation had quietened down, the  banana boat operator revealed that if the argument had gone on, it would  be disastrous as he has suspicions that the customer had ulterior  motives.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“If the customer had laid hands on me, the other beach  boys would have gotten involved and that would be bad for business.  Yeah, I’m a bit sore that I have lost revenue for the day but it’s  better for all concerned,” says the operator who spoke on condition of  anonymity.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At the end of the day, says Foong, it is crucial to  preserve dignity. In his case, he had no choice but to call off a  wedding just 10 minutes before the registration ceremony after the groom  confessed to him that he was married before.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I just couldn’t  let the marriage go on until I was sure that the groom had the all-clear  from the proper authorities. This is my reputation we are talking about  because if anything happens in the future, I would be called up!” says  Foong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Right response&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Teh does not think that  mindsets will change. “Customers are more concerned about their bill of  rights and not their code of conduct. In the end, we can’t change the  customers. Service providers will just have to change the way they  behave and react in response to different types of customers,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of  course, everyone is well aware that customers are equated to sales and  in today’s competitive scene, keeping a customer happy is still top  priority.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is why Ravie stresses on the importance of  intelligence and the innate nature to please on the service provider’s  part. Those who harbour thoughts that they should not have to give in to  the customer are obviously in the wrong line of work.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Ultimately,  what will make a customer return is the comfort he gets from a service  provider. Another thing that can take a service provider very far is  when your take the effort to surprise and delight the customer. A  complimentary drink or a platter of fruits are gestures which will make  him feel valued,” says Ravie.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“What we also want is a smart  service provider who can read a customer’s mind. Let’s say if you notice  that a customer has been looking at the menu for a long time, then you  know it’s time to make suggestions. What we are also looking into is a  manager who is able to lay down a standard operational procedure to  ensure that there is communication between the kitchen and the service  team. This rids the problem of waiters who do not know what an  establishment has or does not have on the menu which can irritate the  customer to no end.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;That is why, according to Sydney Quays, 41,  director of marketing communication at Starbucks, it is important to  choose the right people for the job – cheerful types who will not  hesitate to greet every customer as soon as they walk in and who are not  shy to engage in small talk.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In addition to personality, Quays  also reveals that training is another essential aspect to maintaining  service standards and all 1,500 employees working in this coffee chain  have to go through weekly training sessions in product knowledge and  service procedures. Classes are limited to no more than 14 people per  session and are conducted in the U-shape formation for better  attentiveness.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The subject of training service providers on the  art of treating customers right has evidently become serious business as  more organisations recognise its importance.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Telco giant Maxis,  for example, has a two-floor, 1,500sqm, RM5.5mil learning facility in  Plaza Sentral in Kuala Lumpur. In 2008, the Maxis Academy clocked a  total of 187,000 training hours and close to RM10.5mil in training costs  (excluding running costs).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Even Teh’s outfit, which includes war  games and drumming circles into its training programmes to encourage  better team rapport, is not doing too badly having recorded a revenue of  RM200,000 in the last nine months from his corporate clients.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In  whatever field, there is always an element of customer service. When  you look at it as a whole, each and every one of us is deemed as service  providers. This is because, no matter what line one is in, we will  inadvertently deal with customers albeit they are termed differently. A  famous movie star, for example, will have her fans. A ruler will have  his subjects. Employees will have their employers,” says Teh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So  ultimately, everyone will inadvertently have someone to please and this  is where the importance of understanding the needs of a customer will  work to the benefit of all, concludes Teh.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Star Two, May 17 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					 					 							&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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But few are aware that this choreographer, dancer, actress and  model is also a successful restaurateur.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;p&gt;IT is late morning  and some terrapins have climbed onto a rock in the middle of a pond to  bask in the sun. They are in the lush, green paradise of Tamarind  Springs, a restaurant in Taman Tunku Abdul Rahman, Ampang, where fish  wriggle in streams nearby and monkeys are free to jump among the trees.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Sometimes  I feel like I’m running an animal hotel,” remarks Maple Loo, emerging  like a goddess from the cool, softly lit labyrinths of the restaurant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 332px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/8/8/sundaymetro/ms_7loo.jpg" alt="" width="318" height="326" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Multi-tasker:  Maple Loo may be busy with her restaurant business but she is still  passionate about the performing arts, especially dance.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;It  is clear that she loves animals. The terrapins and fishes had been  gifts from her guests and were released in the natural settings of the  three-acre restaurant garden.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“A rustic oasis”, “an alluring and  refreshing escape from the city” – these are some of the phrases used to  describe Tamarind Springs, a restaurant that serves traditional Khmer,  Laotian and Vietnamese cuisine.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having entered the food and  beverage scene seven years ago at the encouragement of her Italian  husband, Federico Asaro, 42, Loo has evidently used her experience in  the performing arts to inject a sense of dramatic charisma into the  restaurant’s design.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The result is a place where one does not  only eat but also experiences a heightening of the senses, soothed by  the glow of flickering oil lamps and the sound of the gurgling fountain  in the background. Understandably, the restaurant and its grounds have  become the perfect setting for weddings and romantic twosomes.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Loo  describes the concept as a destination restaurant where diners “would  take the trouble to travel to the location for a meal”. “When we first  started, the concept was still experimental but that was what made it so  interesting because people had to look for us.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She admits, however, that the beginning was hard. “We had to struggle but we believed in what we were doing and persevered.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We  did everything we could think of to market Tamarind Springs. One of the  most powerful PR tools, I believe, is word-of-mouth and, true enough,  after a while it took off.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To date, Loo and Asaro have five  restaurants under their name. Three of them, Tamarind Springs, Ii Tempio  (an Italian restaurant), and Mandi-Mandi (a Thai-Malay outlet) are  located within the same grounds in Taman Tunku Abdul Rahman. The other  two are Tamarind Hill and Neo, both located in Jalan Sultan Ismail  opposite Equatorial Hotel. The couple also own Japamala Resort, a  14-villa boutique resort in Tioman, and are in the midst of opening  Villa Samadhi, a 21-room urban retreat in Jalan Madge off Jalan U Thant,  Kuala Lumpur. “All our projects are inspired by Mother Nature. We use  second-hand timber and all our properties are built around the natural  landscape where we use the beauty of nature to create the ambience. The  idea is to make our city restaurants feel like an escape. As it is, our  company name, Samadhi, means ‘state of mind’ in Sanskrit,” Loo explains.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When  Loo is not playing lady boss, she in-dulges in her favourite obsession,  pole dancing. She is the owner of Bobbi’s Pole Studio, which is housed  in a corner bungalow beside Sucasa Hotel right behind Ampwalk Mall.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Speaking  of her foray into the entertainment industry, Loo says she started at  the age of 19 with the Kit Kat Club and learned the theatrical elements  of her art. From there, she went on to pursue a career in entertainment.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  self-trained dancer who also has an MBA from Edith Cowan University  says her success has been about grasping opportunities as they came and  making the best of them. “You have to multi task and be superb when it  comes to time management. In my case, I make it a point to finish what I  have to do that day because I know the next day will bring new tasks  and new challenges.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Even though the restaurant business takes up a lot of her time these days, Loo is still very serious about dance.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Dance is an art that should be taken seriously, she professes. And her passion for it shows. In one episode of &lt;i&gt;Showdown 2010&lt;/i&gt;, she did what other judges have never done: she gave Wakaka, the eventual champion, a standing ovation.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Recalling that moment, Loo confesses that she was just blown away by their creativity.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Dancers  are made of passion, not technique. It is about performance skills,  energy, stage presence and impact; magic that sometimes doesn’t come  from merely applying dance techniques,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for  perceptions about dancing being a short-lived career, Loo is quick to  point to herself as an example. “I am almost 40 and I am still pole  dancing. Believe me, age is just an excuse, never a barrier!”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Where food is concerned, Loo’s philosophy is to live to eat, not eat to live. She likes home-cooked food like &lt;i&gt;penne&lt;/i&gt;  with tuna and tomatoes. When eating out, she prefers to go for  Japanese, although for her, “actually nothing beats hawker food.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She has asked Fat Zuli Sukran, executive chef of Il Tempio, to share a recipe with &lt;i&gt;Sunday Metro&lt;/i&gt;.  Chef Zul, as he is popularly known, is of Sumatran descent and has over  15 years of experience working for award-winning restaurants in Kuala  Lumpur.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;For reservations and enquiries, visit &lt;a href="http://www.tamarindrestaurants.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.tamarindrestaurants.com&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://mapleloo.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;mapleloo.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/8/8/sundaymetro/ms_7linguine.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="314" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;h3&gt;Lobster Linguine&lt;/h3&gt; &lt;p&gt;THOUGH  Italian by name, the ingredients are inspired by Chef Zul’s childhood  days in Kuala Selangor wh ere there was an abundance of life in the  rivers. When choosing a river lobster (udang galah), he recommends  picking the ones with the brightest blue shells and to avoid those with  blackish signs on the underside of the flesh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;1 river lobster (about 350g)&lt;br /&gt;90g linguini (dry)&lt;br /&gt;1 tablespoon chopped onions&lt;br /&gt;1 teaspoon chopped garlic&lt;br /&gt;1 teaspoon Italian parsley&lt;br /&gt;100ml tomato sauce&lt;br /&gt;50ml olive oil&lt;br /&gt;50ml prawn stock*&lt;br /&gt;Salt and pepper for seasoning&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Split  river lobster in the middle taking care not to break it in two. Sauté  onions and garlic in olive oil. Throw in river lobster, prawn stock and  Italian parsley. Season with salt and pepper. When cooked, remove river  lobster and set aside. Boil linguini for 15 minutes. Strain linguini and  toss in sauce for two minutes to let flavours seep in. Arrange on plate  and top with river lobster. Garnish with tomato cubes and spring  onions.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;*To make prawn stock:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1kg prawn&lt;br /&gt;1kg baby flower crabs&lt;br /&gt;2 sticks celery stalks&lt;br /&gt;1 carrot&lt;br /&gt;2 onions&lt;br /&gt;5 ripe tomatoes&lt;br /&gt;10 litres vegetable stock&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Bake  prawn and crab shells until brown. In a pot, sauté vegetables (all  roughly chopped) until fragrant and add in shells. Pour in 10 litres of  vegetable stock (this can be made with any vegetable. Just boil an  assortment in water for ½ hour and strain). Boil for eight hours over  medium fire. The result should yield about 2 litres. 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The term descibes women who view  make-up as a means of self expression. Thanks to its impressive range,  the French maquillage house is a veritable playhouse for the drama  queen. &lt;p&gt;The first Make Up For Ever boutique opened on rue la  Boetie in Paris in 1984. But its real genesis can be traced back to the  early 1960s when Danny Sanz, a Parisian painter, sculptor and artist  decided to dabble in the chemistry of maquillage in her own kitchen. Her  aim was to create a budge-proof make-up that could withstand the  onslaught of perspiration.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In retelling the story of Make Up For  Ever, Jennifer Nelson, the brand’s PR, reveals that Sanz, who is now in  her 70s, started out as an artist in a French theatre. One day, a  director had approached her to paint the actors’ bodies in a play to add  a touch of surrealism. The ensuing result of seeing her work “come  alive” inspired her to embark on a career as a make-up artist. While it  was not immediately realised then, the concept probably made Sanz one of  the world’s very first practitioners of body art.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/8/5/lifeliving/f_6alicia.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="331" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;A wonderful partnership: Alicia Chong and Theresa Ong both share the same passion for Make Up For Ever.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;She  strived to achieve a formulation that was not only waterproof but  colours that would come true on the very first application. It makes  perfect sense why the brand started out as the preferred choice of  international make-up artists and performers before popping its head in  the retail sector.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The secret of Make Up For Ever’s success stems  from Sanz’s deep understanding of the use of cosmetics in the showbiz  industry. Its academy started in 2002 in Paris, and to date, there are  10 Make Up For Ever Academies worldwide. Today, Sanz still remains the  brand’s artistic director.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In its academy in Paris, make-up  courses are given in French, Italian, Portugese, Spanish and English,  and students are sent for internships to work on movie sets and fashion  shows. For a realistic professional experience, photographers and  established make-up artists fill the guest speaker lists during  conferences.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I was told that students would enquire if the  academy that they were signing up with was using Make Up For Ever. If  the answer was ‘no’, they’d go somewhere else,” says Theresa Ong of Hue  Haven, the brand’s Malaysian principal company.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width: 194px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/8/5/lifeliving/f_6showgirl.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="270" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;For the showgirl in you: Diamond dust and shimmery red striped faux eyelashes.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having  achieved its original intention of steadfastness and colour honesty,  the progression from the pro circle to the ordinary but discerning woman  came naturally.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When you look at what it was originally  intended for, there are numerous possibilities for ordinary women who  want to look good in our humid weather be it at the gym or while taking a  dip in the pool,” adds Ong, who teamed up with Singapore principal  Alicia Chong in 2008 to establish the Malaysian office.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But, you  wonder who would use the matte black shade or the ultra transparent  iridescent ocean blue gloss in the lip colour range.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The thing about make-up is, you never know what goes on in a ‘beautinista’s’ mind,” she explains.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Make Up For Ever offers close to 1,400 products in its catalogue, including 125 shades of eyeshadow and 95 lip shades.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lip  glosses come in pearl, chrome and shimmer form, not to mention the  super and extreme shines. There is also a “magical” formula in this  category which allows matte lipsticks to have a vinyl effect, living up  to its “glossy full” promise. If matte is the texture of the day, there  is a lip matifying cream for the lips.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The most dramatic elements lie with the eye and artistic range.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;From  ultra shimmery eye shadows to the metal and diamond powders, the brand  has a brilliant collection of mattes, satins and iridescents. For  falsies alone, there are 60 different patterns for lashes ranging from  single implants to nudes, for every day use to dramatic appearances.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/8/5/lifeliving/f_6aqua.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="229" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Aqua-Water proof cream eye colours to withstand the onslaught of sweat and water.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The  professional artist will find things like volume and length primers,  and waterproof eyebrow kits in our catalogue. These are exactly the type  of things you need in a make-up range,” says Chong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of note are  the waterproof cream eye shadows from the Aqua range, specifically  designed to withstand water submersions. The Aqua range, used by water  ballerinas, has a sizeable range that encompasses waterproof eye shadows  and eyeliner pencils. To safeguard the finished result, there’s a  liquid waterproof eye seal.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The artistic and special effects  range also carries accessories like cotton string underwear for body  painting, glitter and strass-little bling bling to be placed on the  face. In addition to the colour creams and powders for clown make-up and  body art, Make Up For Ever also has special effects items like  artificial blood and liquid latex for extreme theatrical makeovers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In  1999, LVMH, the luxury brand leader which also handling other make-up  brands like Dior, Kenzo, Guerlain and Givenchy, took Make Up For Ever  under its wings. In the subsequent years however, there was a decision  to drop Make Up For Ever from its line up as it was not such a well  known name then and hard to market.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Enter Chong, then, a new  mother battling the throes of post-natal depression who decided to turn  to Robinsons (department store) in Singapore for a little retail  therapy. The counter staff of Make Up Forever offered her the hand of  friendship.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One day, they told me that they were being retrenched. I felt I needed to do something to help them,” recalls Chong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Her  past experience as the division manager of Luxasia, which handled  international prestige brands like Ferragamo, Bvlgari and Jean Paul  Gaultier, came in handy. She approached LVMH and offered her business  plan. Since the company was about to relinquish Make Up For Ever, there  was no harm in giving Chong’s idea a go.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She was given the task  to rebuild the brand in Singapore and Malaysia. Since 2002, the brand  has gained a firm foothold in the island republic. Its headquarters is  currently housed in Stamford House, a beautiful colonial building on  Bras Basah Road in Singapore and it also has a make-up academy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;High definition make up&lt;/span&gt;                   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;THE latest from Make Up For Ever is its HD line, launched  in 2008 with foundation, powder and primer. A concealer, blush and a  radiance-cum-hydration elixir joined this line-up two years later.  Described as an extensive range, the foundation alone for the HD line  sports 25 shades to suit the skin tones of Caucasians, Asians, Blacks  and mixed races.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;HD (which stands for high definition) is  designed for the cinema industry and promises a faultless complexion  under the lenses of HD cameras which optimises images up to six times of  the standard camera. It is a formula which promises a natural look even  under very close scrutiny, thanks to the advent of micro-sized  ingredients.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 414px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/8/5/lifeliving/f_6moulin.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="247" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;The Moulin Rouge range for Fall 2010.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  formula is a combination of three powders, namely sericite, which  reflects light and produces a satin finish; lauroyl lysine, a lamellar  structured powder for a comfortable glide and blend; and  microcrystalline cellulose, a matifying powder for a smooth touch.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For  the fall trend of 2010, Make Up For Ever forms a union with Moulin  Rouge, the famous French cabaret on Boulevard de Clichy. In mirroring  the seductive can can dancers, it hails the coming of scarlet lips, faux  eyelashes bordered with a glittery line of red and strass of Swarovski  crystal in white, red and black for the flirty sideways look.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  Rouge easy-to-wear collection is reminiscent of the glamorous show girl  who is not afraid to show her sexy, feminine self. The collection was  unveiled recently at the Singapore Turf Club with live performances by  can can dancers and free make overs for guests.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;i&gt;Make  Up For Ever has a presence in 50 countries. It is available at Suria  KLCC and Parkson at 1-Utama, Petaling Jaya. For details, log on to &lt;a href="http://makeupforever.com/" target="_blank"&gt;makeupforever.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Published in The Star, Star Two, Thursday August 5 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-6029769034705212299?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/6029769034705212299/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=6029769034705212299' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6029769034705212299'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6029769034705212299'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/08/make-up-for-self-expression.html' title='Make up for self-expression'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-6789818429889689932</id><published>2010-07-15T21:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-15T21:16:55.418-07:00</updated><title type='text'>It's Tea Time</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;The traditional tea time treats that used to be  available mainly at market and roadside stalls and pasar malam are now  going big time commercially.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;p&gt;THINK crisp hot fried bananas,  savoury yam cakes, &lt;i&gt;apom&lt;/i&gt; swimming in coconut milk,  melt-in-your-mouth &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; and you can understand why Malaysians  look forward to tea time.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Never mind if you don’t have time to  make them yourself. There’s plenty of these yummy treats to tempt your  palate (and ruin your diet) on sale in every nook and corner. The  question of where to go really depends on whether you are looking for a  relaxed sitdown with a &lt;i&gt;teh tarik&lt;/i&gt; or a quick takeaway.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thanks  to commercialism, there is never a problem with choice. However,  authenticity is a real bone of contention and nothing can be more  irksome than a &lt;i&gt;ketayap&lt;/i&gt; with a meagre coconut filling or a &lt;i&gt;kuih  talam&lt;/i&gt; that has been artificially flavoured.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/7/4/sundaymetro/ms_3makjah.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="420" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Mum’s the  expert: Wan (left) learnt to make melt-in-the-mouth kuih from his mother  Mak Jah&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;So how are the best &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; supposed to  taste? If you have sampled the &lt;i&gt;kuih talam&lt;/i&gt; at the Mak Jah Café at  Jalan Kolam Air, Ampang, you will want no other after that – the white  tops of the &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; here are practically sagging from the weight of  rich coconut cream.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Better known as Mak Jah, Halijah Karim, now  65, started the business at the end of a row of MPAJ stalls opposite an  animal shelter some 20 years ago.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On closer inspection of her &lt;i&gt;seri  muka&lt;/i&gt;, you will also see a translucent layer between the glutinous  rice and the green top. This, explains Wan Mahalel Wan Daud, 38, Mak  Jah’s son, is due to the caramelising effect, a testament to the fact  that they have not stinged on the amount of eggs and sugar. As a result,  the &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; all have a luxurious melt-in-your-mouth feel.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“What  I have learned from my mother is that you have to be a perfectionist  when it comes to making &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt;. My mother believes that a &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt;  should be rich in coconut milk and eggs. As it is, she uses no less  than eight eggs for every tray of &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt;,” says Wan.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Though  Mak Jah is retired now, this grand dame is still head of quality control  and is known to test every tray to make sure that all are in accordance  with her stipulations. Those that don’t meet her QC standards will not  be seen at her stall.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The issue of being “generous” is a  sensitive one. The ones who are guilty of meagre &lt;i&gt;ketayap&lt;/i&gt; fillings  and airy curry puffs will give the standard excuse of inflation and  compromises in profit. But old-timers like Sun Yoke Lan, 55, have  different answers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/7/4/sundaymetro/ms_3pulut.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="248" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Going places:  Malaysian kuih have the potential to be exported.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One  way to ensure return customers is to make their stomachs remember you,”  says Sun who has been running her &lt;i&gt;nyonya kuih&lt;/i&gt; stall in front of  the Yit Seang coffee shop at Jalan Thambypillai in Brickfields for the  past 30 years.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Sun’s strategy is simple. She gives away big  portions, be it her trademark steamed pumpkin rice cake or her large  deep fried prawn &lt;i&gt;cucur&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Both Halijah and Sun will attest  that their &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; business strategy has been tested and tried by  time. As it is, Halijah’s &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; is also sold at the Daily Express  in KLCC and the Warung in Mid Valley Megamall.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;After having kept a  roadside enterprise alive for three decades, the question of expansion  is bound to pop up for these traditional tea time vendors. In most  cases, it will involve relocation, which many believe will sound the  death knell for their livelihoods instead.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thus, most are staying  faithful to their original spot, one case being the Mr Chiam Pisang  Goreng stall at Jalan Tun Sambanthan 4, Brickfields.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another is  the &lt;i&gt;vadai&lt;/i&gt; and curry puff mobile van situated between Jalan Telawi  6 and 7 in Bangsar, which is operated by Kanagaratnam Vengadasamy, who  is in his 70s, and his wife Visalatchi Thanugodi, who is in her 60s.  They have been there for the last 15 years and the simple reason for  their decision to stay put is that everyone knows them.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is a  similar story with the Chiams. After 27 years, numerous mentions in  foodie blogs and appearances in food programmes on TV, the most recent  one being &lt;i&gt;1 Day Five Meals&lt;/i&gt; which airs over Astro Wah Lai Toi and  is hosted by Angel Wong Chui Ling; the father and son team are content  with their roadside spot. Never mind that there is no space for the duo  to prepare their bananas and sesame balls for frying. The Chiams have  opened a preparation room above the shophouse. A buzz from an intercom  at the stall will see a basket of &lt;i&gt;nien kao&lt;/i&gt; sandwiched between  slices of tapioca or freshly rolled sesame balls being lowered in a  plastic basket to an eager recipient below.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But modernisation has  a way of changing mindsets and now that the current generation prefers  the air-conditioned comforts of the supermarkets, it may be time to  rethink the issue of location.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The Lim brothers of Homi Chicken  Curry Puffs are an example. Having established a name for themselves at  the Hock Seng Two coffee shop for almost 20 years in SS2/66, Petaling  Jaya, they made a move to apply for a spot at The Gardens Mid Valley  four years ago.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;With a monthly rental rate of RM8,000, one  wonders what gave the Lim brothers the courage to make the jump with  nothing but curry puffs as their star product.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lim Meng Kong, 54,  the eldest of the three Lim brothers, reveals that they have had to set  up a shop lot factory in Jalan Kuchai Lama, which now produces about  3,000 raw curry puffs daily.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The decision to expand was like  taking the big plunge. There was no business strategy. What we did  instead was to take the opportunity as the situation presented itself.  It began when my brother, Meng Lee, saw an existing curry puff chain  prosper. He thought he could do something better and that was how we  came to be here.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Like the Lim brothers, Lady Luck also had a  role to play with Wong How Yong, 54, a &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; supplier who started  from a roadside stall at the PJ Old Town market 20 years ago.  Eventually, she moved to a stall inside and one day, eight years ago, a  Caucasian approached her and asked if she would like to supply Giant,  the hypermarket. That opportunity gave her the courage to venture into  the catering scene in addition to supplying local &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; to the  hotels’ buffet lines.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It just happened out of the blue and at  that time I was still making &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; from my home kitchen,” recalls  this former housewife.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Her chief worry then was how she would be  able to supply the volume required, but she soon found the solution.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Of course, comfort, convenience and hygiene will come with a price  and as Homi reveals, a slight change in pricing was necessary to cover  costs. Puffs sold in The Gardens are between RM2.00 and RM2.50 each  compared to the ones in their SS2 HQ, which are only RM1.40 each. Still,  when one compares the posh contemporary settings of The Gardens to the  hot stuffy surroundings of a roadside operation, what is an extra 60  sen?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And thanks to the constant demand for the different  varieties of &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt;, the makers have had to lean on each other. “It  has become very normal for them to sell each other’s products because  one factory just cannot handle the making of so many varieties,” says  Wong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This has led to another emerging trend such as that of Deli  Delight. A &lt;i&gt;nyonya kuih&lt;/i&gt; kiosk in Mid Valley’s basement right in  front of Eu Yan Sang, it is run by Theresa Yoong, 60, who has been a  familiar face here for the past eight years. Yoong runs a consignment  style operation with other &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; and biscuit suppliers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;How  far can one go in the &lt;i&gt;kuih &lt;/i&gt;business? Nancy Lu, 52, of Lulu  Nyonya Kueh believes it can even be exported. She is already looking  into this aspect, with help from her brother Tony Lu, 48, whom she  describes as “the one with the ideas”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Since the business started  in 2000, Lulu Nyonya Cakes has opened five outlets all running on the  kiosk format in Sungai Wang Plaza, Mid Valley, Amcorp Mall, Great  Eastern Mall and Jaya Jusco Taman Maluri. And they are also supplying &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt;  to hotels for the buffet lines.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In the future, says Lu, there  are plans to take the &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; business into the gift market, which  requires compact and attractive packaging for travellers to take home as  presents for friends and family. In line with this, there are plans to  work on freezing the &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt;, Sara Lee-style, for export. The  R&amp;amp;D remains to be done, however.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At such a rate, it will not  be long before the &lt;i&gt;kuih lap&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; becomes as international as  the cheesecake. Already, as Lu reveals, there have been enquiries from  as far away as Abu Dhabi.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1 id="story_title"&gt;A new touch to the traditional&lt;/h1&gt;                   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;IT is hard to imagine the popular &lt;i&gt;ketayap&lt;/i&gt; as  anything else but green in colour, flavoured with pandan and stuffed  with a sweet filling of grated coconut and &lt;i&gt;gula melaka&lt;/i&gt;. At  Ibunda, a Malay fine diner on Jalan Bukit Bintang, Kuala Lumpur, patrons  may well see some surprising changes, however.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Here is where  you’ll find &lt;i&gt;ketayap&lt;/i&gt; with Philadelphia cheese fillings or love  letters dipped with roselle salsa all served in dainty portions.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Malay  desserts are traditionally very heavy and with the addition of coconut  milk and glutinous rice, it can be very overwhelming after a starter and  a main course. So, we decided on a serving that would not exceed 600g,”  says Mohd Sofi, 35, the &lt;i&gt;sous&lt;/i&gt; chef and spokesperson of Ibunda.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 244px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/7/4/sundaymetro/ms_3banana.jpg" alt="" width="230" height="304" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Glamorous twist:  The banana pengat coated in sugar&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;The inspiration is  still Malay in origin, he insists, taking Ibunda’s signature dessert,  the Nangka Gulung, as a case in point. It was created after the chef and  restaurant owner, Zabidi Ibrahim, saw a &lt;i&gt;cempedak&lt;/i&gt; fritters stall.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;“The whole idea is to be different, to push the boundaries on what  is considered the norm in Malay tea time treats. In the end, it is all  about culinary creativity,” says Sofi.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-6789818429889689932?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/6789818429889689932/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=6789818429889689932' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6789818429889689932'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/6789818429889689932'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/07/its-tea-time.html' title='It&apos;s Tea Time'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-8256169343389227645</id><published>2010-07-15T21:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-15T21:13:10.556-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dishing it out with a smile</title><content type='html'> &lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Nothing makes a dining experience more memorable than  great service with a smile. Beauty queen Debbie Goh has it down pat at  her new Indonesian restaurant.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;SERVICE with a smile, no  matter how irate the customer. With this motto in mind, beauty queen and  restaurateur Debbie Goh has maintained the reputation of providing good  service at her Indonesian food outlet.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The star of &lt;i&gt;Age of  Glory&lt;/i&gt;, which became the highest rated Chinese drama in 2008, is the  new lady boss of a three-month-old Indonesian franchise. Sharing a  recent encounter with a customer that had her on her toes all night, she  says: “A distinguished-looking gentleman came in with a party of  friends. From his manner, I could tell that he was a seasoned diner so I  quickly signalled to the staff to be extra vigilant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/6/13/sundaymetro/m_03debbie.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="370" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Debbie Goh  offering her favourite dish, the Yellow Rice Combo, which comes with a  mild beef rendang and crispy fried chicken.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When the  food arrived, he found fault with every single dish ordered and even  after we replaced it with something else, he was still not satisfied.”&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;The former Miss Malaysia Chinese International 1998 and a Hong Kong  TVB artiste was at her wits’ end and decided that dessert would be on  the house.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When it was time for the diner to leave, Goh  personally saw him to the door and apologised profusely, certain that  she would never see him again.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Boy, was I surprised to see him  again! Later, I found out that he had been impressed by the service and  that was when I patted myself at the back for having exercised  patience,” says Goh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As the owner of IR1968, she says that her  patience is stretched every day but maturity has helped her keep a tight  reign on her temper.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The onus is on the restaurateur to be  tactful and diplomatic. It is your job to find out your diners’ likes  and dislikes and then use the knowledge to make sure they have a  pleasant dining experience so that they will be back,” says Goh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In  deciding to embark on a career in food and beverage with IR1968, which  stands for Indonesian Restaurant 1968, Goh &lt;i&gt;(pic right)&lt;/i&gt; reveals  that it was her business partner Hudson Chang, a 37-year-old Hong Kong  native whom she had met while hosting a culinary programme with TVB, who  convinced her to become a restaurateur.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image  center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/6/13/sundaymetro/m_03cosy.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="348" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Cosy: Soft red  lights and blue porcelain for the table setting mirror Debbie’s artistic  touches.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“IR1968 is a franchise and they were the  first to offer Indonesian cuisine in Hong Kong in 1968. I was very taken  by the concept and thought that it would be a good idea to bring it to  Malaysia.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;‘Coincidentally, I was also looking into other business  opportunities apart from acting, so everything fell into place,” says  the Ngee Ann Polytechnic graduate who believes in being hands on in her  restaurant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One sure-fire way to lose money in business is to be  constantly absent,” says Goh who has appointed her 21-year-old niece,  Yvonne Chiew, to man the cash register because she is the only person  Goh trusts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She also sees the restaurant as a place to entertain  and network, and as such, has taken great pains to make the 120-seater  outlet into a cosy enclave with red Chinese lamps, multi-coloured  cushions, authentic whitewashed wooden tables and blue porcelain.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Among  the restaurant’s signature dishes is the &lt;i&gt;Yellow Rice Combo&lt;/i&gt;  (RM25), which comes with a very mild version of beef rendang and a piece  of crisp fried chicken drummet. This hearty dish is best paired with  the &lt;i&gt;Assam Fish&lt;/i&gt; (RM38), a spicy and sour concoction laden with  brinjal and capsicum.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The specialty of the house is none other  than the tender and aromatic &lt;i&gt;Braised Ox Tongue&lt;/i&gt; (RM32), which  takes five hours to prepare. For those who fancy something light, there  are the &lt;i&gt;Shrimp and Corn Patties&lt;/i&gt; (RM15) and the &lt;i&gt;Gado Gado&lt;/i&gt;,  an Indonesian salad made up of bean curd, bean sprouts, cabbage,  cucumber, lettuce, potatoes, boiled eggs, prawn crackers and thick  peanut sauce.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The restaurant, which is just behind Hock Choon  supermarket in Jalan Ampang, also does private catering for a minimum of  10 pax and home deliveries around the Ampang area. IR1968 is located at  241-B, Lorong Nibong, Off Jalan Ampang, 50450, Kuala Lumpur. For  reservations, call 017-7883 2160.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Semur Lidah&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;1  whole ox tongue&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;For the sauce&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;3 large tomatoes&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;3  big onions&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;3 whole garlic bulbs, peeled and separated into  cloves&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;400g aniseed&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;4 nutmegs&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;100ml of kicap manis&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 364px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/6/13/sundaymetro/m_03semurLidah.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="233" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Boil ox tongue for five  hours. Meanwhile, blend all the ingredients for the sauce with a little  water. Heat the mixture in a pan and let it simmer until it thickens. Do  not add water. Once ox tongue is ready, slice and sauté in butter. 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Unlike the sterile atmosphere of a hypermarket, the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt;  gives one a sense of freedom with its open-air concept. Another magnetic  attraction is that it throbs with life, thanks to the colourful  personalities of the vendors and their wide choice of fresh produce,  including &lt;i&gt;petai&lt;/i&gt; just plucked from the tree and exotic jungle  vegetables.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04bananas.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="298" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Going bananas:  Bananas in the hundreds of bunches are found in abundance at Selayang.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Shopping aside, this is where you’d find hefty fishmongers  and Wellington-booted greengrocers with superstar smiles – the types who  will not hesitate to claim every passer-by, old or young, to be their  “sweetheart” or “darling”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is very hard not to fall in love  with this noisy, gregarious lot! You know, those easy-going types who  will not think twice about hollering to another trader who is six stalls  away if he’s got any lemongrass to spare for a “pretty auntie” who just  must have some for her &lt;i&gt;nasi ulam&lt;/i&gt;?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Not one to practise  favouritism, everyone is either a &lt;i&gt;liang lui&lt;/i&gt; or a &lt;i&gt;leng chai&lt;/i&gt;.  The surroundings may not be posh but it is easy to see why the &lt;i&gt;pasar  tani&lt;/i&gt; has become so popular in our culture.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04keropoklekor.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="208" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Engaging smile:  Jamaludin Ismail started selling keropok lekor under a tree. Today, he  has two shops in the Selayang wholesale farmers’ market&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  Malaysian &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; probably made its way into the local scene  sometime in the early 70s. The whole idea of creating a temporary spot  for the farmer to trade was to address the issue of the middleman. Back  then, it was not uncommon to hear stories of some unscrupulous middlemen  who would pay the poor village farmer a mere RM10 for a basket of  durians, which were later sold in the city for RM10 per kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This  effort to bring the farmers in direct contact with the consumer was  initiated by Fama (Federal Agricultural Marketing Authority) which was  formed in 1965. The main objective was to help the farmers, fishermen  and livestock breeders eliminate the problem of the middleman.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Locations  were selected based on market research carried out by Fama and consumer  traffic; and the willingness of the district authorities to cooperate  and the number of entrepreneurs who would find the area viable for trade  were some of the prerequisites taken into consideration.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04chestnuts.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="292" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Training ground:  The best salesmen can be found in a pasar tani, says Azizi, who is  roasting chestnuts with his boss, Rezuan Baba.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;In terms  of commerce, the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; would be a separate market from the  wet, morning and night markets and were under the jurisdiction of Fama  who would arrange for the basic facilities such as umbrellas and stall  space for rent in each of these designated areas. Close to half a decade  later, the humble &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; took off, and the wholesale  farmers’ market in Selayang was one of the first to start.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Located  by the side of the old wing of the Selayang wholesale market, with its  existence traced back to 1987, it is perhaps the oldest &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt;  in Selangor, according to Kamar Kilau, 60, who is a regular shopper  here.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In those days there were only 34 lots and rent was only  RM13 per lot,” reveals Kamar.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 334px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04razlan.jpg" alt="" width="320" height="241" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Fama support:  Razlan Ismail, a keropok lekor vendor, standing in front of his  colourful lorry. Painting of the vehicle was sponsored by Fama.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Today, the number of lots has doubled and, according to Shamsuddin  Zainal, 30, who helps run the Fama produce stall here, rental rates have  gone up to RM500 per unit.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While the business hours of the &lt;i&gt;pasar  tani&lt;/i&gt; were originally confined to the morning, the one in Selayang  has extended operation hours to seven days from 7am to 6pm. Some stalls  like Jamilah Hashim’s coconut stall, which sells fresh &lt;i&gt;santan&lt;/i&gt; and  &lt;i&gt;kerisek&lt;/i&gt;, runs on a 24-hour basis.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Jamilah, 31, a mother  of four, reveals that she had started in Selayang with a small stall  under a tree selling cakes, crackers, pickles and steamed peanuts in  1999. She changed to selling coconut milk in 2000 when Fama offered her a  stall after a former tenant lapsed in rental payments.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04jamilah.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="271" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Enterprising:  Jamilah with her sisters, Rahimah (in red) and Rohizan (in black), who  are showing off the cendol and bakso noodles that are a hit with  Selayang folk.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;On estimate, no less than 1,000 coconuts  go under the grating machine at Jamilah’s santan shop in one day.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In  Jamilah’s case, the spirit of entrepreneurship runs in the family as  her husband, Saiful Azam, 37, also has a poultry stall in the area.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Her  elder sisters, Rahimah, who runs a &lt;i&gt;nasi campur&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;roti canai&lt;/i&gt;  concern, and Rohizan, who, in addition to a watermelon stall, also  sells &lt;i&gt;bakso&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;lontong&lt;/i&gt;, also have shops in the Selayang  wholesale farmers’ market area.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width: 214px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_05gearbox.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="266" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Bite me: Sup  gearbox, one of the many hundred types of food available at the Shah  Alam Pasar Tani.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is not unusual to find one boss  managing a few stalls and &lt;i&gt;keropok&lt;/i&gt; seller, Jamaludin Ismail, 48,  is one of them. A keen biker who also has a health spa in Rawang,  Jamaludin now has two shops to distribute his &lt;i&gt;keropok lekor&lt;/i&gt; which  comes from a factory in Rusila, Terengganu. Jamaludin, who started  selling his &lt;i&gt;keropok lekor&lt;/i&gt; from under a tree in 1996, says that he  sells between 20 and 30 big bags a day.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The most popular &lt;i&gt;pasar  tani&lt;/i&gt; is none other than the one at the Shah Alam Stadium on Sundays  from 7am to noon. What makes this market such a draw is that it is just  next to the Bazaar Arena which operates in conjunction with the  farmers’ market.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Catergorised as a &lt;i&gt;pasar tani mega&lt;/i&gt; (mega  farmers’ market) by Fama, this is a shopper’s heaven with over 800  stalls selling everything from fresh produce, meat and fish to bundle  clothing, facial products and handicraft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image  right" style="width: 214px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04razali.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="266" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Showtime: Razali  Jaafar got his 15 minutes of fame when he was featured in TV shows like  Jalan Jalan Cari Makan.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;One bargain hunter, Norashikin  Sidek, 37, who is a regular, says that one of her favourite draws is  the beef bone soup (&lt;i&gt;sup gearbox&lt;/i&gt;) from Wak Jas and the array of  fashion clothing from the bundle stalls. Where prices are concerned,  hypermarkets can be cheaper, she admits, but the advantage of being able  to bargain here is an added plus.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Competition is certainly keen  and Azizi Alif Khalid, 26, a business management diploma student from  UiTM who sells roasted chestnuts, says that working in a &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt;  is a test in PR, work discipline and marketing skills.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The best  salesmen are found in a &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt;. You learn very quickly that  charm and the ability to say the right things will win you customers,”  say Azizi, who sells about 80kg of chestnuts every Sunday in Shah Alam.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Without the advantage of window dressing, one also learns to rely on  creativity, and for salon owner Norhasni Muhammad, 42, that involves  providing on-the-spot facials at her stall where she sells her beauty  soap bars.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is not to mean that Fama has taken a back seat  with the promotional efforts. The agency will sponsor the painting of a  vendor’s lorry, as in the case of Razlan Ismail, who had his done  recently.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The 25-year-old &lt;i&gt;keropok lekor&lt;/i&gt; seller who hails  from Klang, Selangor, has been in the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; circuit for 10  years.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/4/25/sundaymetro/m_04hasni.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="300" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Facial on the  go: A marketing tactic used by Nor Hasni to promote her beauty soap bars&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ingenuity also helps to sell a product, as Jeffri Mohd, 26,  found out when he changed the original cylindrical shape of the ice  cream potong he sells to square shapes. This Kelantanese who has only  been in the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; circuit for a year is under the employ of  Zaman Ice Cream which has two sales outlets at the Shah Alam market.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Incidentally, the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; has also turned out to be a  place where one can find fame. Razali Jaafar, 39, a former broadcasting  man who gave up his job to open up his own enterprise called Uncle  Jilli’s Jacket Potatoes two years ago, has attracted media interest. So  far, he has appeared in &lt;i&gt;Jalan Jalan Cari Makan&lt;/i&gt;, in a slot hosted  by Maria Tunku Sabri, and in Sheila Rusly’s &lt;i&gt;Ketuk Ketuk Ramadan&lt;/i&gt;,  which were both aired over TV3.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Laden with &lt;i&gt;petai&lt;/i&gt; and other  jungle vegetables, Abdul Rahim Muhammad’s stall in Shah Alam is what  the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; business is all about – selling the freshest  produce, whether they are harvested straight from nature or from the  farmers’ plot, directly to the customer.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Rahim, who has been in  the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; trade for the past 25 years, says he is  chairman-cum-treasurer of the Persatuan Peniaga Penjaja Negeri Selangor  (Selangor Petty Traders Association), which aims to help the small  entrepreneur. The motto of the PPNS is “Dari Gerai Ke Global (from stall  to the world)”, he says. But it looks like their fight is still on the  local ground for now.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One of the things that PPNS continuously  strives for is the protection of the &lt;i&gt;pasar tani&lt;/i&gt; traders from  unscrupulous individuals who, after obtaining licences from the council,  will try to sell the lots at a high price to newcomers, Rahim says,  adding that at one point, PPNS even went as far as reporting the  culprits to the Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission. 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Though this retired  headmaster has not divulged the details of his life during that period,  it is a well known fact that folks from the “banana currency” era had to  grow their own food to survive.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;These days, what used to be  known simply as plots for growing your own greens has taken on a fancy  name: “edible garden”. But to Arif’s generation, the ability to grow  one’s own food was a way of ensuring survival.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width: 234px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/14/sundaymetro/ms_p6Rahmat.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="332" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Haji Mohd Arif  Rahmat needs only a pot with a bit of soil and he’s ready to plant.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having grown up in an era which put a premium on thrift, Arif  likes to share the fact that he has never had to buy a single leaf of  ulam nor any of the local fruits like durian, langsat, mangosteen or  cempedak.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As he puts it plainly, “I have always believed that to  be truly productive, you must be able to grow your own food.” But thanks  to modern abundance, it is no longer necessary for us to resort to  growing food for the family. However, there is a legion of avid  gardeners out there who will think nothing of sinking their hands into  mulch, coaxing the soil to produce a harvest that they could confidently  tuck into.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is also common for growers of edible plants to  share their passion as well as the fruit of their labours with their  relatives and friends. When she has visitors, Eunice Quah, a freelance  designer in her 30s, usually takes them to her herb garden to introduce  them to her collection of plants. “Here, smell this. It’s lemon balm,”  she would say. Or “You’ve got to taste this.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is stevia,  which is sweeter than sugar.” And it is!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most times, growers of  edible plants also rank quite highly in their friends’ and family’s  popularity list.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Before Arif moved from Kedah to Kuala Lumpur to  be closer to his three children, he had a 1.69ha orchard that was a  favourite among his grandchildren and their parents especially during  the fruit season. They would help themselves to the durians,  mangosteens, cempedak and langsat in the orchard.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width: 234px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/14/sundaymetro/ms_p6Ong.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="326" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Tall order: Ong  with her 1.829m-high kailan. It was grown from a cutting given to her by  another gardener friend.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Six months after settling  into his ground floor apartment in Wangsa Maju, Arif’s place is now  bursting with greenery from the host of potted plants he has planted.  They include limes, mint, turmeric, ginger, curry leaves, lemongrass,  kesum (laksa leaves), sweet potato, cekur (sand ginger), kuchai (Chinese  chives), coriander, screwpine and tulasi. His little garden is now a  popular spot for his daughter-in-law, Yasmin Medeonus, 48, who is a  great cook.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“All you need is a pot with a bit of soil and you’re  ready to go,” he says. Quah agrees, as she is also growing her sage,  rosemary, sweet basil, thyme, marjoram, mint and other herbs in pots and  planter’s boxes in her Taman Tun Ismail home.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ong Suan Huah, 65,  who lectures on green architecture in UiTM, has been planting long  beans, convolvulus, spinach, brinjal, bunga kantan and basil on the  backyard plot of her Section 17 home in Petaling Jaya for some years now  yet she still feels amazed by the sight of her growing plants. “It’s an  awesome feeling when you see your own brinjals hanging from the vines.  You feel like such a genius even though you know that it is all nature  at work. I guess this is because you know that you have nurtured your  plant from seed to bush.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ong started growing vegetables when her  grandson, Anton Siew, now six, was born. Her main reason, she says, was  that she did not want her grandson to ingest the harmful chemicals that  came with the bought varieties.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She began with Chinese kale  (kailan) grown from a cutting given to her by her husband’s relative in  Ipoh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“After the success with the kailan I went a bit mad and  started to try my hand at mustard greens, French beans and mustard  celery. But I was not successful with this lot.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Still, it is  thanks to Ong’s effort that Anton and his younger sister, Trinity, five,  love to eat vegetables, which is not often the case with most tots.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;“This is because home-grown vegetables are nothing like the ones  bought from the market. Like my kailan, there is no bitter aftertaste.  There was also a time when we had long beans and we chopped them up for  omelettes. They were crunchier and sweeter than any of those I had ever  bought,” says Ong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width: 234px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/14/sundaymetro/ms_p6Partini.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="293" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Keen gardener:  Partini prefers to potter in the garden rather than watch TV in her  spare time.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Dispelling the idea that she has “green  thumbs”, she says she wasn’t successful at gardening before. To explain,  she goes back 15 years to the time when she went on a field trip to  Cameron Highlands with her colleagues. There, they visited a nursery and  she emerged from it with her arms full of potted plants. They  eventually died from want of attention, she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;These days,  though, she will spend entire weekends tending her plants.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The  moral of the story is, only when you are passionate about your plants  will they grow,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Initiative, agrees Partini Safrudin,  35, the Indonesian housekeeper of Alex Wong, a recording artiste and  Elvis impersonator, is the important factor. Though her employer’s  double-storey bungalow in Ara Damansara has only a small patch of land  for gardening, she has managed to plant rows of screwpines, a papaya  tree and daun salam (Indonesian bay leaf).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In my case, it’s for  want of something to do. I don’t like taking naps or watching soap  operas all day. So I plant things, which in turn rewards me with a sense  of satisfaction and helps me to relieve stress,” she says.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1 id="story_title"&gt;Herbs to the fore&lt;/h1&gt;                   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt;  &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/14/sundaymetro/ms_p6Eunice.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="298" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Passion for  herbs: Eunice Quah with her collection of herbs. She is surrounded by  thyme, rosemary, marjoram, basil, mint, sage, parsley and coriander.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;FOR those who are interested in beginning a herb garden,  enthusiasts like Eunice Ouah, Ong Suan Huah and Haji Mohd Arif have a  few suggestions on the types of plants to try.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Dill  flower: Dill is especially suited to containers and will produce wispy  leaves growing on a single stem to about 75cm high. It can be harvested  about eight weeks after sowing. At this stage the plant will begin to  produce flowers, causing the leaf production to stop. Keep the plants on  a sunny windowsill but out of direct sunlight.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Lemon  balm: The lovely lemony scent of this herb makes an excellent iced tea  with honey. It is easy to grow and thrives well in loose, fairly fertile  soil with little watering.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 394px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/14/sundaymetro/ms_p6herbs.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="542" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Rosemary: The  three fundamentals for successfully growing rosemary are sun, good  drainage and good air circulation. Rosemary is usually propagated by  cuttings as seeds can be difficult to germinate and often don’t grow  true to their parent. For a good start, gardeners have recommended  periodic spraying of liquid fertiliser on the leaves.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&gt;&lt;/b&gt;  Sage: Grown from cuttings, the best place for planting sage is in full  sun. It should be put in well draining soil as it does not like its  roots to remain wet. As it originates from hot, dry climates it will  grow best in local conditions.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Stevia: Non-toxic,  insect repelling and sweeter than sugar, stevia plants do best in a  rich, loamy soil. Since the feeder roots tend to be quite near the  surface, it is a good idea to add compost for extra nutrients if the  soil in your area is sandy. The roots can also be adversely affected by  excessive levels of moisture, so take care not to overwater. Choose  fertilisers with a low nitrogen content.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1 id="story_title"&gt;Starting out&lt;/h1&gt;                   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;IF you are planning to start your own vegetable or herb  garden, start by saving the seeds and stalks from everyday staples like  chillies, bitter gourds, basil or &lt;i&gt;daun kesum&lt;/i&gt;. Soak the seeds  overnight in water to speed up germination. If you’re using stalks,  place them in a jam jar filled with 1cm water and let them sit for a few  days until a substantial length of roots can be seen.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Soil  should be loose, well drained and fine textured. To ensure that your  pots do not become waterlogged, place a layer of gravel or charcoal at  the bottom before sowing the seeds. To revitalise used soil, heap it in a  corner or place it in a large container if you live in an apartment.  Instead of throwing away dried leaves that have fallen off your plants,  toss them into the soil heap and leave to mulch. You can also add in  peeled skins of fruit, vegetables or the pulp from blended juices.  Another type of soil which some gardeners prefer is worm compost which  is said to require very little management.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Here are some home  recipes for fertilisers. One is to tie up a bag of dried leaves, wetting  them with a bit of water beforehand. Seal the bag tightly and let the  contents disintegrate naturally before placing them on your plants. If  you can get goat’s faeces, this is good manure for the plants.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Otherwise,  there is the packed and sterilised variety of blood and bone meals  which will have all the nutrients that a plant will need. Some gardeners  also recommend rice husks and the husks of yellow peas which is  purported to give excellent results.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The secret to every  successful gardener lies in their willingness to experiment. This is  especially so with Mediterranean herbs like rosemary, sage and thyme.  The best way to start off with this lot is to buy ready-grown plants  from the nursery. Otherwise, stick to easy-to-grow plants like &lt;i&gt;daun  kesum&lt;/i&gt;, basil, &lt;i&gt;kailan&lt;/i&gt; or spinach which can be easily  propagated from stems.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;You can opt for chlorine-free water for  your plants by collecting rain water. Watch out for dry spells,  especially in fully concreted areas, which can make your plants wither.  Device methods of shading with umbrellas when necessary.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;If your  garden is on landed property, you may eventually have a problem with  pests. One gardener, who has experienced an attack of snails that  destroyed her chilli and spinach plants, suggests sprinkling salt around  the perimeter of the plants. Otherwise, arm yourself with a torchlight  to remove the snails from your plot at night. The kids will find this  fun!&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Published in The Star March 14, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-7962645265203703385?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/7962645265203703385/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=7962645265203703385' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7962645265203703385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7962645265203703385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/04/food-from-garden.html' title='Food from the garden'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-5497113102565815201</id><published>2010-04-10T20:23:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-10T20:24:26.463-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Miniature venture</title><content type='html'> &lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;b&gt;A husband-and-wife team get down to the nitty-gritty  of decal making.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;a href="mailto:startwo@thestar.com.my"&gt;startwo@thestar.com.my&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;HERE’S a sticky situation if ever there was one: Imagine a water  slide decal no thicker than a strand of hair ending up in a tangle.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To  Vernon Law, a decal producer and model maker, the best recourse is to  throw the darned piece away. Sticking the decals to a model is already  quite a job, taking a trained hand no less than one-and-a-half hours. In  some instances, when the 46-year-old has worked on one micro scale  decal too many, it is not uncommon for him to end up cross-eyed.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;His  wife and business partner, Zaidah Omar, 42, and the more patient of the  two, prefers a salvation strategy which involves dunking the troubled  plastic strand into a bowl of water to let the soaking action loosen the  problem. This is then followed by long minutes of gently prying the  mess apart with a pair of non-magnetic tweezers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/26/lifeliving/f_17sukhoi.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="372" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Matching: Law  holding the decals for the Sukhoi SU-30 MKM.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Zaidah is  no doubt an asset to Law as her steady hand, perfect vision and infinite  patience makes her a natural for the task of sticking the decals on  aircraft models. It is also easy to understand why Zaidah is reluctant  to waste a decal unless it has been torn beyond repair.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The  business of making decals, which this husband-and-wife team started in  2001 from a shop lot in Bandar Baru Ampang, Selangor, can take no less  than six months to a year to complete, for a single collection. Having  chosen to specialise in decals for the Royal Malaysian Air Force, the  most extensive part of Law’s work is in research.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;An example of  the attention to detail is the decal set for the A-4 PTM Skyhawk used by  the 6th and 9th Squadron of RMAF which comes with a fact sheet  revealing the year the contract was awarded to Grumman Aerospace to  refurbish the A-4s and the specification of work done. A recommendation  of the modelling kit is also included with a colour chart guide for the  different years of delivery plus modification notes on any additional  antennas, avionics humps and weapon pylons made to the attack craft over  the years. The images are then scanned into a computer and the printing  is sent to the United States and Italy for quality control reasons. It  isn’t that Law has no confidence with local printers but when they saw  the micro scale specifications, the first thing they asked was if he was  nuts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What they didn’t realise was Law needed them to match the  scale of his models ranging from 1:32 to 1:100.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/26/lifeliving/f_17zaidah.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="332" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Patience is a  virtue: Zaidah sticking on the decals to an aircraft model.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;In recalling how he got into this fix, Law, a former draughtsman and  father of one, had in 1998 taken the plunge to pursue his childhood  passion by joining Miniature Hobby, a famous model shop in Kuala  Lumpur’s Mid Valley Megamall. Three years later, he struck out on his  own and, by the end of 2003, he was ready to export his decals to  Europe, the United States and Britain where there is keen interest among  hobbyists for RMAF aircraft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One of the most fascinating  aspects of the military aircraft is in the markings and manufacturers’  specifications. One example is the Sukhoi SU-30 which is used by the  Malaysian and Indian air forces for aerial combat and ground attack. In  Malaysia, where they are known as ‘Flankers’, the sensors are located at  the chin. The Indian version will see an extra pair of canards at the  front part of the fuselage,” says Law.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In tandem with producing  his own decals, Law is also heavily involved in model making from  ready-made kits; his finished products of model MiGs, Sukhois and the  like have gone as far as Singapore, Hong Kong and Britain where they are  presented as souvenirs to senior officers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image  center" style="width: 394px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/26/lifeliving/f_17modelPlanes.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="277" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Precious: Law  and Zaidah admiring their collection of World War II fighter plane  models.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Law is also a regular at the Langkawi  International Maritime and Aerospace (Lima) exhibition and Defence  Ministry (Mindef) events.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Being in the industry, what they are  looking for is accuracy, where the displays, from the colour to the  markings, have to be exact replicated scales of the actual aircraft.  Again, this takes a lot of research time to make sure that nothing, from  the serial numbers to the signs indicating the location of the fuel  pumps and warning signs, are amiss,” says Law, who has a library full of  references.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One of his favourite referrals is a local monthly  defence magazine called &lt;i&gt;Tempur&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just like his decals, Law  spares no effort to ensure the same attention to detail in his models.  Drawing attention to the cockpit of a Sukhoi, for example, he shows that  every detail, right from the safety belts in the pilot’s seat to the  instrumentation panel, is done to resemble the actual aircraft that is  currently in operation.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 394px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/26/lifeliving/f_17mig29n.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="341" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Before and  after: The MiG 29N on the left is the original colour on delivery. The  one on the right, painted grey, is the colour the RMAF opted for all its  aircraft.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In the model kits, most of the cockpits are  still in analog format so what I do is to ensure that it is modified to  resemble the latest digital features as found in current aircraft,”  says Law.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To set the standard for the quality of his finished  models, Law makes regular trips to museums around the world to check out  the competition. He and Zaidah recently returned from a whirlwind tour  of England where they visited war museums in Collindale, London and  Duxford, to have a firsthand look at the British-made Hurricanes,  Spitfires, Lightnings and Hawks.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Look, there is no need to go as  far. Just check out the Singapore Air Force Museum where every display  is so highly polished, you can see your own reflection,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Law  has gained many regular and loyal customers throughout the years and,  according to Zaidah, one way he “entertains” them is by sharing his  knowledge.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 394px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/3/26/lifeliving/f_17hercules.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="286" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Nifty: A C130  Hercules, aka ‘Charlie’, in Law’s collection.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Did you  know that the CASA CN235, which is used for VIP and light military  transport, was a barter made with Indonesia in exchange for Proton cars?  Did you know that some pilots have broken their necks due to the  extreme G force during dives or climbs in air manoeuvres? As for the  MiGs, I’ll be sorry to see them being phased out as any pilot who has  clocked in 1,000 hours in these fighter aircraft is really good,” offers  Law.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In retrospect, though Law’s role is confined to making the  miniatures of the actual aircraft owned by the RMAF, he does not forget  the real reason for their existence – to be part of the country’s  defence system.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In a way, I see myself playing a small part in  inspiring patriotism among the younger generation by encouraging them to  join the RMAF. I know of one modeller who joined the air force and he  is now a captain flying an F18D Hornet,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Vernon Law  can be contacted at 012-661 3698 or &lt;a href="mailto:thianngee1968@yahoo.com"&gt;thianngee1968@yahoo.com&lt;/a&gt;. 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Then,  I’d have a good excuse not to represent my country,” said Lee, 24.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There you have it. The real truth from the crown owner of Miss  Chinese Cosmos International 2004.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It may sound odd to think that a winner could have such negative  thoughts. After all, don’t all the self help gurus preach the power of  positive thinking and the effect it has on the ultimate outcome?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Of course, I wanted to win. Deep down in my heart there was this  faint glimmer of hope but at that time, I dare not dream of the  impossible,” said Lee, who eventually won over the judges’ hearts with  her implacable charm.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Winning the Miss Chinese Cosmos International title was no mean feat  for Lee who revealed that the contestants had to go for soldier training  and rafting.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Many girls, she said, dropped out because they could not take the  harsh training.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One contestant had to be airlifted to hospital as she could not  breathe due to the thin air in Luku Lake, Yunnan, where the altitude is  higher,” said Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lee, who was 19 at that time, surmised that her perseverance was  largely due to her athletic background.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She was a striker and centre in her school’s handball team and as a  school runner, she has 120 gold medals to her name. Being fit had been a  plus point for this former student of SMJK Segambut Jaya, not to  mention a winner’s natural desire to triumph above all odds.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It may seem to many that beauty queens are goddesses and true when  they are on stage, they do have that aura. However, being a beauty queen  requires stamina and strength. You have to be poised and confident at  all times and I will tell you, it was not something that came naturally  to me,” said Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is presumed that beauty queens are born and not made. Looking at  Lee’s delicate features and slim 169cm frame, it is easy to believe that  this Kuala Lumpur-born Sagittarian already has her name in the stars  from the very beginning but what lies underneath her innocent baby-faced  features is an ambitious and determined businesswoman.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;At an age when other girls were busy pursuing their tertiary  education, Lee had to work as she needed to support her family.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I worked three part-time jobs, one of which included working night  shift in a cybercafe. During the weekends, I’d take on the job of a  sales promoter. This was when I’d get calling cards from the casting  agencies,” said Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It was a chance that she would not miss, thanks to the efforts of her  friends and family members who egged her on into giving a go at the  entertainment industry. By this time, however, her business acumen had  kicked in and despite her tender age, she was already organising events  for her clients.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It started with a simple request to find more promoters and what I  would do was to find 10 girls who could do the job and I’d make maybe  about RM20 from each of them in terms of introduction fees. Things  progressed from there and over time, I just did what came naturally,”  said Lee, who has become a pro at event management.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Still, at the time of her first beauty contest, the Miss Tourism  International in 2003, Lee admitted that she had not yet mustered enough  confidence to take part in such a grand event.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My initial philosophy was to have a steady footing as a  businesswoman. Furthermore, I was the type to get stage fright and I was  very scared of speaking out,” said Lee, who had once owned a boutique  and a nail spa.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In came her ardent supporters who insisted that she gave the pageant a  go and to cut a long story short, Lee emerged triumphant to eventually  wear the coveted tiara as Miss Chinese Cosmos International.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It was a decision that the judges would not regret as Lee eventually  took on the job of promoting the pageant in Malaysia and later on in  South East Asia, under her company, White Fairy, which is situated in  Bandar Sri Damansara.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In addition, Lee also clinched the lead role alongside Filipino actor  Alfred Vargas in Muli, a hit Philippines drama series in 2006.    &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Detailing the rides that have accompanied her thus far, Lee who  started off with a Gen 2 is proud to reveal that she will be awaiting  the arrival of her Audi TT next month.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“What I wanted was a Nissan Fairlady but I thought that the Audi  would stand out better because it was rare. This will be a personal  treat for me,” said Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Still, the Audi TT will not be Lee’s first thrill ride. Back in Hong  Kong, she has her boyfriend’s Ferrari 430 waiting in the garage.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“After driving a Ferrari, there is nothing you can’t handle,” said  Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;However, for the family oriented Lee who is the second of three  siblings, a sports car would not be the end all for someone who likes to  have her family members close by.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is why she also has a Hyundai Grand Starex, a 11-seater family  car where parents, brothers and cousins can fit in comfortably. In fact,  big SUVs are quite a hit with Lee, who used to have a Nissan El Grande  parked in her driveway. The Nissan eventually made way for the Hyundai  when the numbers in her family grew.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Big and spacious is what I like about the Starex,” said Lee.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For more information on Carrie Lee, check out her website at &lt;a href="http://www.carrielee.com.my/" title="www.carrielee.com.my"&gt;www.carrielee.com.my&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; Story and pictures by Grace Chen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in CBT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                   &lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://w.sharethis.com/button/sharethis.js#publisher=c364e28d-f50f-4382-a77b-1e81549e87eb&amp;amp;type=website&amp;amp;style=rotate&amp;amp;send_services=email&amp;amp;post_services=facebook%2Cfriendster%2Cdigg%2Cdelicious%2Ctwitter%2Cstumbleupon%2Cfriendfeed%2Creddit%2Ctechnorati%2Cmixx%2Cblogger%2Ctypepad%2Cwordpress%2Cgoogle_bmarks%2Cwindows_live%2Cmyspace%2Cfark%2Cbus_exchange%2Cpropeller%2Cnewsvine%2Clinkedin"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;span id="sharethis_0"&gt;&lt;a st_page="home" href="javascript:void(0)" title="ShareThis via email, AIM, social bookmarking and networking  sites, etc." class="stbutton stico_rotate"&gt;&lt;span st_page="home" class="stbuttontext"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-7403722808985655075?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/7403722808985655075/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=7403722808985655075' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7403722808985655075'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/7403722808985655075'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/04/queen-of-cosmos.html' title='Queen of the Cosmos'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-586450810516003951</id><published>2010-04-10T20:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-10T20:18:55.566-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Steady Footing With The R350</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-primary-image"&gt;     &lt;div class="field-items"&gt;             &lt;div class="field-item odd"&gt;                     &lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/imagecache/v2_600x450/027.jpg" alt="" title="" class="imagecache imagecache-v2_600x450  imagecache-default imagecache-v2_600x450_default" width="590" height="443" /&gt;        &lt;/div&gt;         &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;HERE'S an interesting tidbit from Datuk Michael Tio, the managing  director and group chief executive officer of PKT Logistics Group.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;According to this 41-year-old father of two who started life as a  used car dealer at the age of 18, a car is very often an extension of  one’s personality.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Say, if you drive a Mercedes, high chances are that you may be a  stable, consistent and conservative character with a corporate outlook.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you prefer a BMW, then you’re most probably one of those ambitious  but fun-loving types.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To satisfy your curiosity, Tio has been driving a Mercedes R350 for  the past three years and incidentally, the car that will ultimately turn  him on is not the one which has the most kick or power but one that  will offer value for money and good resale prospects.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is such consistent traits that have put Tio at the helm of PKT  Logistics which offers total transport solutions not only for fast  moving consumer goods but for CKD vehicles and automotive parts for  manufacturers and assemblers in the Asian region.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Another advice from Tio is to never buy a car from a smoker who has  no qualms about lighting up at the wheel. People who smoke while  driving, maintains this anti-nicotine crusader, is obviously not too  particular about car care as evidenced by the burn marks and stinky  interiors.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for the best candidates to buy a second car from, it is the ladies  who win hands down because they are most likely to send their cars in  for service on time. In addition to being high scorers in the hygiene  department, they are less likely to go into hard shoulders causing less  wear and tear.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tio is not blowing hot air here. Long before he started the  automotive logistics division in PKT, a venture which he described as a  "high volume game", Tio has been wheeling and dealing in luxury cars  from his days as an accounting student in the University of Hull in  Britain.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The first car I bought while in college was a Mercedes 230E from an  old couple. They were pretty worried because I had a baby face then and  looked much younger than 18. When they asked me where I got the money, I  had to tell them I was buying it for my father. Then when I got into  the car, they had to teach me how to drive it because I didn’t know how  to operate an auto transmission,” recalled Tio.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Being a car dealer made Tio a popular guy at school as at any one  time, he’d have a Panther 3.6, BMW 735 or a Mercedes 300SE in the  parking lot.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Delving into his past experience, Tio revealed that he has always  found Mercedes cars durable while the most complaints came from the  Jaguar owners. The BMWs, after a certain mileage, had electronic issues.  This was during the 1980s and Tio recalled that this was a time when  the British car dealers had yet to iron out their communication  strategies with their Chinese buyers. In came Tio who argued for his  brethren whenever there were complaints about imperfect gearboxes that  made the cars jerk in the second and third gears, a common problem at  that time. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“This was my form of customer service and most of the time we  negotiated on repair bills with the buyers and bore the costs,” he said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ironically, the car dealing venture that would pave the way for his  future nearly got him into trouble. The stress caused Tio to fall asleep  at the wheel during a trip from Hull to London and he nearly collided  head on with a lorry.      &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Though those used car dealer days are over, Tio still has a pressing  dilemma concerning the current love of his life, his gold R350 (the  other is his wife’s Peugeot 308 Turbo).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I’ve had this MPV (multi-purpose vehicle) for the past three years  now and it’s time for a change but I just don’t know what to settle for  next. The R350 has such a strong presence and till today it is turning  heads,” said Tio.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Man and machine found each other when this freight forwarder was  looking for a mode of transport that could accommodate his two children,  their comics, their minder, his father-in-law and husband and wife.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There was some fierce competition with an S-Class along the way but  good old fashioned Teochew sensibility prevailed as Tio weighed the pros  and cons.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“For a 3,500cc engine, the R-Series was definitely more value for  money as it can seat more passengers. I also like the big front grille,”  said Tio.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The only gripe that Tio has is on the lack of after sales service  when it comes to his ride, namely in the spare parts department. A brush  with faulty electronics in the auto door of the booth of his R350 saw  Tio going back to the workshop not once but three times! &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“They told me that they had no stock in hand and a replacement part  would take a week to arrive,” he said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tio is one of those doting owners who will not hesitate to replace a  driver the moment he suspects that they are trashing his car.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I don’t like the drive-fast-and-then-brake style. It makes me feel  very disturbed because I can feel the engine transmission suffering from  all that work. At the end of the day, I can feel its exhaustion,” he  said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tio’s driver, Mat Noor, who is in his mid-40s knows this well and  both work to make each journey in the R350 a pleasant drive. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We work as a team,” said Tio, who always makes it a point to sit in  front with Mat Noor.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; Story and pictures by Grace Chen&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in CBT (Cars, Bikes and Trucks-NST)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-586450810516003951?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/586450810516003951/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=586450810516003951' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/586450810516003951'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/586450810516003951'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/04/steady-footing-with-r350.html' title='Steady Footing With The R350'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-8572485103562319724</id><published>2010-04-10T20:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-10T20:13:52.037-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Queen of Etiquette</title><content type='html'>&lt;h2 class="title"&gt;     &lt;/h2&gt;  &lt;div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-primary-image"&gt;     &lt;div class="field-items"&gt;             &lt;div class="field-item odd"&gt;                     &lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/imagecache/v2_600x450/079.jpg" alt="" title="" class="imagecache imagecache-v2_600x450  imagecache-default imagecache-v2_600x450_default" width="225" height="300" /&gt;        &lt;/div&gt;         &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p&gt;MANY will remember Aziah Jasmin Azizul as a former TV3 newscaster but  to the legion of professional consultants, she is known as Ms Manners.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Making the shift from TV screen to the business of telling people how  to dress, behave and act couldn’t have come more naturally for this  Ipoh-born beauty who drives a black Perdana V6.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I feel that the crux that makes manners so important in any culture  is the need to take the feelings of others into consideration,” said  Aziah, 38.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The realm of road motoring, according to this personal image and  style consultant, is badly in need of etiquette awareness.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While it may seem difficult to say one’s Ps and Qs from the confines  of an enclosed cabin, Aziah maintains that there are some things that  motorists could observe.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;One is to refrain from picking one’s nose when traffic comes to a  standstill.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“No one should be caught in action doing this. The only place where  you should pick your nose is in a toilet with the door closed and  curtains drawn,” said Aziah.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Spitting out of windows is another no, no. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Not only is this disgusting but it is also a health hazard as it  spreads viruses and contributes to air pollution. From the pedestrian  point of view, it’s like manoeuvring a mine field when you have to watch  where you are stepping,” said Aziah.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This etiquette queen, who started driving at the age of 17 in her  brother’s Proton Knight (later known as the Proton Aeroback), even has  an answer for motorists who is facing the predicament of black or white  smoke emitting from their vehicles.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Apologise. While it is not possible to let every motorist know that  it is not your intention to foul up their breathing air, you can at  least apologise to the nearest driver. I remember stopping at a traffic  light once and this biker who had white smoke coming out from his  exhaust turned to say sorry to a driver who had its windows wound down,”  she said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Signalling is also another gesture of politeness. In Aziah’s  etiquette book, nothing can be more irritating and dangerous for a  driver who does not use her signal lights, especially when there are  other motorists waiting to come out of a junction.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While she maintains that it is unforgivable to cut queues in traffic,  should the inevitable happen, then it is only proper to raise a hand in  a gesture to ask the other drivers for permission to cut into a lane  before manoeuvring one’s vehicle into place.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"It is more forgivable for a driver to do this rather than to cut in  abruptly and cause the cars behind to a sudden brake. Though there is an  urgent need to save time in today’s hectic lifestyle, understand that  others too have the same urgent need to reach a destination, so practice  consideration,” said Aziah.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for the horn, Aziah, who confesses to being a speed demon on  straight, clear roads, said that it should only be used for two things -  in emergencies and as a gesture of friendliness.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“You know how some drivers go ‘teet, teet’ and then wave? I’ve seen  some drivers do that for big trailers when they give the all-clear  signal for cars behind to overtake. To honk at a vehicle in irritation  is likened to giving someone a scolding. I am sure that it is not in  one’s best practice to go about scolding strangers,” she said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Aziah is especially stern with those who park in lots reserved for  the handicapped.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The disabled already have enough problems with mobility. They don’t  have to contend with inconsiderate drivers who deny them of easy  entrance to shopping malls and other public buildings," she said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Although Aziah’s Perdana V6 runs on automatic transmission, this  former student of SMJK Main Convent, Ipoh, admits a preference for  manual drives as it gives her a macho feel. It was the same reason for  her choosing the sporty GTi Satria as her first car.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Changing gears makes me feel active while driving,” said Aziah.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Talking of her dream car sees her eyes misting over as she whispers  the hallowed name of the red Ferrari. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Sometimes I am afraid of myself when I realise that I love speed,"  she said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;"I once drove from Penang to Kuala Lumpur in two hours. This was at  night too but I have discovered throughout the years that I am a better  driver at night than in the day as the glare makes me feel sleepy.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For more etiquette advice from Aziah, visit Star Studio at 5-1, Jalan  PJU 5/10, Dataran Sunway, Kota Damansara, 47810 Petaling Jaya.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;By Grace Chen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in CBT (Cars, Bikes and Trucks-NST)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-8572485103562319724?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/8572485103562319724/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=8572485103562319724' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/8572485103562319724'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/8572485103562319724'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/04/queen-of-etiquette.html' title='Queen of Etiquette'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-2011922069541804651</id><published>2010-04-10T20:07:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-10T20:09:25.168-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Mum In The Fast Lane</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-primary-image"&gt;     &lt;div class="field-items"&gt;             &lt;div class="field-item odd"&gt;                     &lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/imagecache/v2_600x450/080.jpg" alt="" title="" class="imagecache imagecache-v2_600x450  imagecache-default imagecache-v2_600x450_default" width="590" height="443" /&gt;        &lt;/div&gt;         &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;WITH a toss of her lush curls, Gina Finanza, 35, looked at the  trophies displayed in her comfortable living room and declared that for  once, people should stop looking at gender especially in the field of  motorsports.&lt;br /&gt;“There’s no such thing as having an advantage just  because you are male or female in rally driving. In the end, it’s the  best person who will win the race,” said Gina, who clinched the  championship in round one of the Rally Sprint and Rally X in Sepang last  year.&lt;br /&gt;To Gina, who credits her mother Morni ‘Ann’ Rahman, 61, for  inspiring her to take up motorsports, the stand to maintain gender  neutrality is also a standard that she imparts to other aspects of her  life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/041.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="600" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“This is not the Stone Age where brawn is  needed to survive. Today, almost every aspect of our daily lives has  been automated and tasks can be completed via a touch of the button. So,  that puts men and women in an equal playing field where the excuse of  not being able to perform most tasks due to one’s gender is no longer  applicable,” said Gina.&lt;br /&gt;This does not mean that this strong-headed  lady has refused to acknowledge the male role in society.&lt;br /&gt;It’s just  that when it comes to living one’s dreams, she feels that the issue of  gender should never be wielded to deter an individual from pursuing  ambition.&lt;br /&gt;“The only thing that will hold anyone back from doing  anything they have set out to do is the willingness to learn. The next  thing I suppose is the courage to get out of your own comfort zone,”  said Gina.&lt;br /&gt;Gina said that her attitude is largely influenced by her  mother, who used to participate in motocross races on a Kawasaki ZZR 250  in the '80s with people like Sunny Ramalingam and Chow Kit Chong at the  Batu Tiga tracks.&lt;br /&gt;Like Gina, Morni or Ann as she is better known, is  still a stunner for her age with perfectly coifed hair and impeccable  make-up. The only thing that betrays the hidden speed devil in her  serene smile is her penchant for cargo pants.&lt;br /&gt;Still, the years have  called for a slowdown of sorts and this meant having to sell the bike  for a slower ride - a Proton Wira GSR Turbo 1.8 in matt black with  orange lines!  &lt;br /&gt;“My mother always stressed that we should be  independent. We had a strict but simple upbringing. By five, I could  wash, fold and keep my own clothes. By age seven, cook for the whole  family. Not that my brothers couldn’t do it but they made a mess every  time and I couldn’t stand it,” said Gina, the youngest, the only girl  and the only one who has followed in her mother’s footsteps, of four  siblings. &lt;br /&gt;Being independent from a young age has certainly worked  to her advantage.&lt;br /&gt;“I find that this sense of independence has been  crucial to my success in rally driving. This is a sport where you have  to watch out for yourself. Say, if you have a puncture, you’d have to  fix the problem very quickly or lose time. Then, there is not only your  own safety to consider but your co-pilot’s as well because once you  become the person behind the wheel, you take on a certain  responsibility,” she said.&lt;br /&gt;In retrospect, she affirms that her  upbringing has also honed her to become an organised multi-tasker which  has enabled her to finance her own rally car, a Satria GTi 1800cc GSR,  in addition to owning a Honda Accord 2.2 Vtec, a Wira GSR Turbo 1800cc  and a Kancil 650cc L5 Turbo.&lt;br /&gt;Due to her impressive record, Gina is  also currently supported by Hypertuner, which gives back up as her  service crew in rallies, MH Tuner, which does the repairs and tuning and  Race, which sees to her car’s alignment.&lt;br /&gt;“I am very calm under  pressure. At times, when my co-pilot fumbles, I can make my own  decisions without making it known that she has made a mistake. I think  this is important where the safety aspect is concerned and also to  alleviate unnecessary stress for both parties,” said Gina.&lt;br /&gt;Talking of  keeping her head, Gina recalled a time in 2008 when she was a  participant in the Malaysian Rally Championship in Sepang.&lt;br /&gt;During the  flag off, her bonnet flipped open and cracked the windscreen while she  and co-pilot Nur Rashidah Abdul Rahim were travelling 140km/h on the  highway.&lt;br /&gt;With their view suddenly blocked, Gina kept a cool head by  peeping under the bonnet and steered her rally car to safety. Despite  broken windscreen and all, Gina managed to clinch 3rd place in the P12  class of round 6 in the competition.&lt;br /&gt;Gina, a mother of four who works  as an occupational safety and health officer with a local telco giant,  began her racing career on go karts in 2004, making her debut at the Pan  Global F1 Driver Search at the Sunway Extreme Park.&lt;br /&gt;By the next  year, she had garnered enough experience to win the Maxis  Inter-Department Go-Kart Competition.&lt;br /&gt;The move to rally driving came  about in 2007 when she took a Satria GTi for a spin around the Sepang  track.&lt;br /&gt;“With no disrespect to any party, I found it to be a boring  affair after a while. After going round and round, I knew by heart what  speed I should take for each corner,” recalled Gina.&lt;br /&gt;When she  discovered rally driving, thanks to friend and mentor Jagjeet Singh of  Wheelspin, there was no looking back.&lt;br /&gt;“There is nothing as exciting  as tearing through a twisty, muddy gravel road! That is how I have  adopted the tagline, ‘Let’s Skydive Horizontally’ as my motto,” said  Gina. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;img src="http://cbt.com.my/sites/default/files/060.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="600" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Grace Chen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Published in CBT (Car, Bikes and Trucks-NST) Sunday April 11 2010.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-2011922069541804651?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/2011922069541804651/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=2011922069541804651' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2011922069541804651'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2011922069541804651'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/04/mum-in-fast-lane.html' title='Mum In The Fast Lane'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-6795590197159311867</id><published>2010-04-10T07:18:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-10T07:20:21.409-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Meeting Bond’s M</title><content type='html'>					 					ON Joanna Chee’s business card, her position is simply  stated as “M”. M, James Bond fans will tell you, is the secret agent’s  lady boss. &lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;p&gt;  This seems apt, for Chee, 40, director of nightclub  Bond in Avenue K shopping complex in Jalan Ampang, certainly fits the  bill of a strong but feminine character. Having been in the nightlife  business for 13 years, Chee is one tough cookie. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Once when she  was seven months pregnant and working for a newly opened club, Chee had  to resort to standing in the doorway of the club to stop an  over-enthusiastic crowd from barging in. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “I think they stopped  the moment they saw me. I was huge! And I don’t think anyone would be so  heartless as to push a pregnant woman aside so they can come into a  club!” laughs Chee who, on numerous occasions, has had to step right  into the middle of a fight to break it up. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="334"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2006/10/14/lifefocus/f_04joanna.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;(Second from  left) Joanna Chee has vast experience in operating a nightclub. —  Starpic by AZHAR MAHFOF&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;  “I know most  of these people so it’s easy for me. I feel that sending in the bouncers  would just create more tension. I just go in and tell them not to do  this in my place because it’s not cool. I normally get the respect. I’m  lucky that I have this sort of ‘likeability’ with my guests,” she says. &lt;p&gt;   Some may remember Chee from the 90s as the cute chick with boots in  Echo, Bangsar. I, for one, will never forget her dancing on stage during  The Right To Question Party at The Mines in 1998 – a beer in hand and a  sticker in the form of a question mark stuck to her chest. If you have  been to any of those island getaway parties these past eight years,  chances are you have met Chee. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “I loved those parties because  it had all the elements of fun and romance and hints of a ‘dirty’  weekend,” she recalls fondly. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  A mother of three now, Chee used  to bring her eldest child Ben, now 21, along for the island revelries.  But she has stopped organising these parties because her two younger  children, both under six, need her at home.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Today, she is still  in the business of nocturnal parties but Chee says she doesn’t go  clubbing anymore. She prefers to spend the time with her children,  reading them stories and tucking them in at night. She’s done her fair  share of partying, at any rate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Hailing from Klang, Chee started  her first club in 1993 in Atlanta, Georgia when the rave movement was  just beginning. When she came home during the 90s, her first posting was  in Penang in Novetel’s Shock Egypt club. Boom Boom Room opened in  Kuantan and Chee worked with them for two years, then came to Kuala  Lumpur to do the marketing for Wall Street, near KLCC.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Echo Jazz  Bar, Twelve SI and Nouvo followed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Experience, she has plenty.  But Chee says the nightlife scene is not the easiest business to be in.  Competition is keen.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “You can’t just open a club and hope  people will come. You have to do a lot of marketing,” says Chee. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   If she has to hire belly dancers to attract the crowd, then that’s  what she will do. In fact, that’s precisely what she did – getting  professional belly dancers to teach the ladies the moves for Wednesday’s  Bond Ladies’ Night.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Chee says that in opening a club, one has  to be clear about what one wants and meticulous in executing the plans.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   “This includes details like the music, door reservation policies, and  what type of people we want in the club. These tie in with the concept  of the club. In choosing the sound, Bond has opted for old school, as in  Modern Talking and Michael Jackson. It’s music that you can actually  dance to and still look sophisticated,” she explains. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Once  they get the crowd in, the PR people have to go on the floor to ensure  the evening works out well. Those who like to dance would be ushered to a  place near the dance floor and those who just want to chill out will be  put in a section where they can people watch. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “If you tell us  that you are coming to see us on a particular day and you don’t show up,  we make sure that you know that we noticed you did not show up. In this  way, customers feel that they belong,” she says. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Chee says  it’s important to create a relationship with the customer by putting in a  bit of care and friendship. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “I feel that it is important to  train my PR girls to be professional in the way they carry themselves  with the clients. You can be in contact with your customer every one or  two weeks, and you can do this either by an SMS or telemarketing.” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   The business of selling fun also requires an outgoing personality. You  must be willing to hit the dance floor when it is empty and walk up to  total strangers and treat them like old buddies. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Chee says that  at her club everyone is treated equally, whether they are buying a  bottle of premium whisky or just a glass of juice. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “The  question I always ask myself is: are we doing enough? To me, a customer  is always right. If they complain, it means something is wrong, so we  have to listen. That’s how we improve,” says Chee. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “There was a  time when I had to do everything myself and it was very tiring. But I  have since learned how to plan and delegate so that different people  will do specific tasks. I still have sleepless nights, but I take time  out to meditate and eat healthily,” says Chee. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  And when she  leaves for work, Chee has peace of mind because her husband is  supportive. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “He is just wonderful with the children. 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Would you  like to come?” &lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;p&gt;   Of course! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   Avran and I go back a  long way, almost 10 years. This was when I was a cub reporter for a  small publication called &lt;i&gt;Movin’ KL&lt;/i&gt;. We’d badger the former  manager of Roxy Club at Renaissance to allow us in to cover the VIP  parties. And good ole Dave always gave in despite the complaints from  his guests. How the memories are returning.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="right" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="194"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2006/10/14/lifeliving/f_29bernie.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;DJ Bernie&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;  &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;   The Remember Series is what you’d get when an  “uncle” decides that he is not ready to relinquish his Harley bike for  the rocking chair just yet. &lt;p&gt;   “The senior DJs and patrons told us  crazy stories about the fun they had back then. They said it was missing  in today’s clubbing scene and suggested it would be nice to bring it  back,” says Avran. And that was how The Remember Series was born. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;    The first party was on April 8 at Bond in AvenueK. So far there have  been eight Remember Series parties recalling the popular clubs of the  1990s, like Baze, Scandals, Saqs, Boom Boom Room, Heaven at Modesto’s  Forum, Barbarran Bar and Dance Club, DV8, Viva Dance Club, &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;    Bringing the past to the present is not easy since most of the old clubs  no longer exist. Avran and his team had to track down former nightclub  owners to get an accurate picture of how they did things back then. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;    “We needed a place that could fit the crowd and be flexible enough to  cater to the various nuances of our tribute nights. Bond Lounge in  AvenueK was very supportive of our needs and fitted the image we wanted.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   “But the plan is not to stick to one place, as we also want  the crowd to experience other venues. For example, the Betelnut and  Brannigans tribute night was held at Sugar Club at Crowne Plaza Mutiara  Hotel,” Avran says. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   All the Remember parties, they decided,  would be held on weekend nights. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   “We knew our target market  could only be persuaded to come out on a weekend night. This is so that  they can recuperate after dancing and singing the night away.  Understandably, most say they aren’t as energetic as they used to be,”  admits Avran. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   &lt;b&gt;Getting the music right &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Then  came the little detail called the music. DJs from the old clubs, like Mr  Q of Baze, Groovemaster of Viva, and Philippe de Souza (now spinning in  Rum Jungle) of Betelnut were called in. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  According to Avran,  finding the DJs weren’t a problem but getting them to play the songs  from the old days was. Some had sold off or given away their music  collection. Others had retired and become rusty. And the vinyl of some  of the old records had warped with the years. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  One 31-year-old  deejay, who only wants to be known as DJ JD, tells me that some rare  club versions like &lt;i&gt;After The Love Has Gone&lt;/i&gt; by Princess and JD  Taylor’s &lt;i&gt;Long Hot Summer Night&lt;/i&gt; had to be re-mastered and remixed  again after being downloaded from the Internet. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Altogether it  was a long and tedious process of searching for the songs because they  are no longer found in the record shops. And because we could only get  10% of the sound from the MP3 format, we had to bring the sound up to  100% again,” says JD. Jeremy Lee, aka Groovemaster, 30, says the  Remember parties certainly bring back the old memories. Jeremy, who  began deejaying at 15 in shopping malls, was only 25 when he played at  Viva but by then he was already one of the most expensive DJs around,  making around RM8,000 a month. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="264"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2006/10/14/lifeliving/f_29royston.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;Groovemaster  and DJ Royston at the Viva tribute night at Bond in avenueK.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;  &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;  “When we were in Viva, people had this perception  that we were arrogant because we didn’t entertain requests. This was for  work reasons because requests interrupt the flow of the music. The idea  was to build the tempo slowly and then go to a high. We created an  upmarket dance club with the brand of music that we played. &lt;p&gt;  “We  also played mambo jambo, which is mainstream R&amp;amp;B, and 1970s and  1980s music, where you’d get Kool and the Gang and Billy Joel. Then from  1am till closing time, it would be Happy House (disco type of beat),”  recalls Lee, who now runs his own golf consulting business.” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   The scene has changed, Lee observes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “During the 1980s, people  could go to clubs without worrying about raids. But now people are  starting to rely on unnecessary substances. This, I think, started to  happen in the 1990s when I had my first experience of being in the  middle of a raid at a club in Bukit Bintang,” said Lee.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  JD  thinks the pill-popping trend does not contribute to the party  atmosphere at all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Back in those days, we would be on a natural  high and when people danced, you could feel a sense of camaraderie,” he  remarks. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Now,” chips in Lee, “there is a very cold and  pretentious feeling with the people in the clubs.”JD also thinks people  in those days had more class. They had a certain style because clubbing  was an occasion to dress up. Nowadays, the crowd is not only unpolished  but too hip-hop. Also many of today’s clubbers tend to go to a club  alone compared to back then when people went in groups, which  contributed to a better party atmosphere. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  DJ Bernie, 36, whose  real name is Bernard Charles, says there is little variety in the  clubbing scene in terms of music. He reckons that the nightclub owners  had better do something about this before the people start heading  overseas to party for the weekend.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  These deejays cannot help but  miss the bygone days. What JD misses most of all is the music flow of  today’s clubs. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “The new deejays seem to have taken the shortcut  where everything sounds like it has been cut and pasted together. Back  then, we would blend in and remix the songs so that it would not sound  choppy,” he says. “Nowadays,” Lee adds, “I get the impression that the  new deejays are either deaf or mute. You seldom hear them speak. In  those days, we would build up the hype by doing things like turning the  volume down so that the crowd could sing along.” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  While the  Remember parties are just the thing for nostalgic deejays, some were  sceptical the parties would really take off. After all, the party  animals of the previous decade have become the parents of this decade.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   “They couldn’t believe that we managed to get these old regulars to  come out of their family lives for just one night to celebrate their hey  days,” explains Avran. “I think some of them got very sentimental about  it and realised that all those years of being a DJ had a meaning after  all.” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  For the climax, watch out for the Remember Series bash in  December called “Reunite – Class of 1980-2000”. Expecting close to 3000  people, Avran and his team from Smoove Pinch will be playing 25 years’  worth of music in one night. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="CENTER" bgcolor="#ffcccc" border="1" cellpadding="5" cellspacing="5" width="400"&gt;  &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; Coming tribute parties in November and December are  listed below. Cover charge: RM 30 with one free drink unless stated  otherwise. &lt;p&gt;   Remember: Tin Mine, Rumours &amp;amp; Club Oz&lt;br /&gt;Remember:  The Backroom KL Immaculate &amp;amp; Silhouette Sessions 1999-2000 Reunion&lt;br /&gt;Remember: Movement&lt;br /&gt;Remember: Echo, Ohm &amp;amp; White Room Bangsar&lt;br /&gt;The Remember Series Finale – Reunite &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;li&gt; &lt;i&gt;For more  information on dates and venues, visit: &lt;a href="http://www.smoovepinch.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.SmoovePinch.com&lt;/a&gt;  or contact Dave Avran at 019-235 4775.&lt;/i&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt; 						&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 						&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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Everyone is invited, never mind if  you don’t have a musical background, say the Tugu Drum Circle, another  street band that encourages crowd participation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Rosdi “Shady”  Zahari, 27, of the Tugu Drum Circle, says it’s just a matter of feeling  the rhythm and fitting in. All one needs is a good ear for music and a  sporting spirit, adds Izzardzafli “Nicky” Fadzil, 27, of The Abonation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="364"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;  &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2006/8/19/music/f_pg07abonation.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;The Abonation  brings people together in their public jam sessions. --Starpic by SIA  HONG KIAU&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;  Shady, a self-taught  percussionist, has been teaching drumming techniques to the group, free  of charge, for three years. &lt;p&gt;  “It’s very easy and anyone can do it.  Once you can play, we’ll teach you how to improvise with different beats  and that’s when you can learn to ‘sing’ with the drum,” says Shady. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   You don’t have an instrument? No worries. The musicians will probably  lend you theirs. In any case, you can always make your own, like Paul  Lau, 45, the founder of Tugu Drum Circle, did. He makes percussion  instruments out of broomstick handles with bottle caps nailed to them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   These interactive street groups sound nothing like a conventional  band. Their music seems to come from the heart and soul. It’s tribal.  Organic. Catchy. Very alive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “It’s a form of community service,”  says Shady, of the free music lessons they offer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Not everyone  can afford music lessons and there is a saying that if you keep  knowledge locked away, it will wither and die. Share it and it will  grow.” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Nicky, for his part, thinks that public jam sessions may  help youths on the streets who have neither the resources nor space to  pass the time productively. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “When I started busking at Bintang  Walk two years ago, I thought, ‘Why not teach these street youths to  make music instead of sitting around and wasting time’?” &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  With  this in mind, Nicky invited youths to join his new band. Today, they  have five core members and their début album &lt;i&gt;Birth&lt;/i&gt; will be out  Aug 15. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Public response to jam sessions by The Abonation and  Tugu Drum Circle are encouraging. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  One retired 55-year-old TNB  technician who calls himself Ramli Rock joins The Abonation in their  sessions at least three times a week. A paraplegic, Ramli thinks the  activity is a way for him to rejoin the mainstream. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  He plays  the harmonica, bird whistle and beats time using a comb handle and  wooden block. These jam sessions always make Ramli’s day and is a great  way for him to make new friends. W&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;i&gt;For  a copy of The Abonation’s album &lt;/i&gt;Birth&lt;i&gt;, call Nicky at 016-3670  138. They play from 9pm to midnight every day in front of Maybank near  BB Plaza&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;h1 id="story_title"&gt;Drumming to foster unity&lt;/h1&gt;                   &lt;p&gt; Life is full of funny turns. For example, if Paul Lau, 45, had  not been working 12-15 hour days as a landscape designer three years  ago, the Tugu Drum Circle may never have been formed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Feeling  “physically and mentally drained” from his hectic work schedule, Lau  decided to look for an outlet for stress. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Drumming sounded like  a good idea, so Lau decided to take up drum lessons with Lewis  Pragasam. But he hardly had time to practise. Luckily, Pragasam did not  forsake this “tardy” student of his. When he formed Beat Club, Pragasam  invited Lau to tour the country with the drum and percussion band. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   And that was how Lau became hooked on drumming and how the notion of  creating a “drum circle” began to form in his mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Drum  circles, explains Lau, are not new. It has its origins in the US when an  African drummer, the late Babatunde Olatunji, started the practice of  drumming as a form of community service. What makes drum circles unique  is that there is no audience. Everyone is part of the performance. The  goal is not precise rhythmic articulation or perfection of technique,  but the ability to form a group mind, a state of “entrainment”. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   “When everyone makes music together, their brainwaves are in sync. This  is a primal form of communication that creates a non-vocal bond with  all people regardless of gender, race or religion,” Lau says. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="364"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://ecentral.my/archives/2006/8/19/music/f_pg09circle.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;The Tugu Drum  Circle jamming. --Starpic by SAMUEL ONG&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;   “When everyone in the drum circle is in a state of total  synchronicity, there is a special moment where everybody gets a natural  high and their bodies feel light. I have felt this and even without  thinking, my hands would move to the rhythm,” says Lau. &lt;p&gt;  This  drumming enthusiast says that when people come together to make “in the  moment” music, it creates positive thoughts and feelings. It also  fosters a sense of &lt;i&gt;muhibbah&lt;/i&gt; as it brings people of all races  together in an activity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “As you can see, our country is very  rich in drum culture with influences and traditions from various parts  of the world. We have Chinese, Malay and Indian drums but they rarely  come together in a jam session. Our aim is to bring people together from  all walks of life and build a stronger community spirit by making music  together,” he says. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Lau thinks drumming also allows people to  “voice” their feelings. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “In the Tugu Drum Circle, anyone who  starts a rhythm is the leader and the group will support that person. As  the rhythm continues, it could metamorphose into another rhythm and  everybody will support the player of that new rhythm. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Everyone  is a star whilst being supportive of each other, and, in the process,  everyone gets to ‘speak’. As such young players will also get a ‘voice’  regardless of their age and this empowers them to ‘drum talk’ as young  people are usually too shy to voice out their feelings”.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  To take  his drumming passion further, Lau attended a seven-day workshop –  thanks to a provisional grant from the Ministry of Arts, Culture and  Heritage – in Hawaii on Aug 7, where Arthur Hull, a reknowned drum  circle facilitator, conducted his Drum Circle Facilitator Playshop 2006.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Lau hopes the experience will enable him to take the Tugu  drummers to a higher level. – &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;By GRACE CHEN&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;i&gt;The Tugu Drum Circle gathers every Sunday  from 5.30pm to 8.30pm at the National Monument in Lake Gardens. To get  in touch with Paul Lau, call 012-2663292.&lt;/i&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;h3 id="story_date"&gt;The Star, Saturday August 19, 2006&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-4823855310969000242?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/4823855310969000242/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=4823855310969000242' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/4823855310969000242'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/4823855310969000242'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/04/having-fun-with-music.html' title='Having fun with music'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-9169715476271450617</id><published>2010-04-10T07:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-10T07:10:21.962-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A tribute to T-shirts</title><content type='html'>Figure Eight, a fashion and music event saw a hip crowd  turning up in full force at their T-shirt bazaar and dancing to their  line-up of local bands at the Central Market Annexe recently. &lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;p&gt;   Though the flyer did not say it, there was no denying that this “do” was  a tribute of sorts to the humble tee with the appearance of eight local  bands wearing limited edition T-shirts. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Drummer and founder of  Tugu Drum Circle, Paul Lau, 46, was the first to sing to his piece of  cotton covering. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="264"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2007/6/23/central/m_24shahir.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;Hanging out  in comfort: (From left) Shahir, Fyra and Ewan clad in to their favourite  tees to suit the occasion.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;  “T-shirts  are the easiest to wear when it comes to performances. Unlike sequined  stage costumes that have to be dry-cleaned, you can just chuck a T-shirt  into a washing machine. I’d rather wear them than anything else,” he  said.&lt;p&gt;  At the gig, Tugu Drum Circle wore white limited edition tees  with colourful screen-printed figures designed by Kurasaraksaksa, a  label that also carries a line of unusual jewellery, bleached and worn  sneakers.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  Otherwise, what makes a T-shirt cool, apart from the  material, is definitely the design.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="264"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2007/6/23/central/m_24norhayati.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;  According to Norhayati  Md. Noh, 3,1 of Dollhouse, the idea was to achieve authenticity with  inspiration from everyday life.&lt;p&gt;  “It is important to express oneself  and the T-shirt is one way you can do that and be noticed,” she said.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   And for a touch of radical self-expression, there is no better vehicle  than the T-shirt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  DTG, an acronym for Don't Trust Girls, is one  such label, a division of crazeecausa, a local line of skater related  merchandise founded by a Mike Tan in 2004.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Just like girls are  always saying that boys are not to be trusted, here’s an insight to how  boys feel about girls as well,” the stall operator said at the bazaar.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   In what he terms as an effort to promote the local music and T-shirt  art scene, Warren Chan, 29, organiser of Figure Eight, said it was  inevitable for these two disciplines to complement each other.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="7" width="214"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2007/6/23/central/m_24chickenhotel.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;Chicken  Hotel: Norhayati of Dollhouse says this T-shirt is open to your  interpretation.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;  “Musicians are like  heroes and naturally, their fans would want to have a piece of them. One  way to do this (in addition to buying the band’s music) is to wear a  t-shirt with a picture of the band on it,” he said.  &lt;p&gt;  As for the  objective of connecting T-shirts and music for the Figure Eight event,  Chan said he had seen this as an opportunity to help the fledgling  T-shirt design scene. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “It is a young but thriving market. This  is largely due to the fact that T-shirt art is more accessible to the  youth unlike art (say for example the work of a portrait artist) because  they can wear it,” Chan said. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  At this juncture, Reza Salleh,  24, Chan’s assistant said T-shirts were not only for the young but  transcends across all generations. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “One of my favourite  photographs is of my grandpa in a Batman T-shirt,” he said. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  As  for the negative image of the T-shirt wearer being a slovenly and  unprofessional character, Reza said it was as a matter of perception. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   “We are not here with the agenda to say that you should wear a T-shirt  to the office though I know a lot of professionals who do. We are just  giving the artists an outlet for creativity because we feel T-shirt art  is a valid art form and it should be given the same amount of respect,”  he said. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  The Figure Eight event is organised by Junk, a music  magazine that targets those aged 18 to 25. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  For more details,  visit &lt;a href="http://www.junkonline.net/" target="_blank"&gt;www.junkonline.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;   						&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 						&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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Here, you can find the typical Arab staples such as &lt;i&gt;hummus&lt;/i&gt; (RM8) or mashed chickpeas with sesame, squeezes of lime juice and olive oil; and &lt;i&gt;foul foul&lt;/i&gt; (RM10) or fava beans fried with garlic, onions and tomatoes. Both are served with &lt;i&gt;bidara&lt;/i&gt; bread.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Also worthy of mention is the &lt;i&gt;shawarma&lt;/i&gt;, which never fails to tempt as the aroma of the fragrant meats can easily make the mouth water. This is a delicious &lt;i&gt;bidara&lt;/i&gt; wrap with grilled chicken (RM8) or lamb (RM9), shredded lettuce, chopped tomatoes, halved olives and lime pickles.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/28/sundaymetro/m_07arabianBreakfast.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="354" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Unique flavours:&lt;/b&gt; Mohamed Mahmood Aly of Egypt Café sits down to a typical Arabian breakfast of scrambled eggs with tomatoes and onions, salata, fava beans, cheese, pickles and bidara bread.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;For lunch and dinner, there is the &lt;i&gt;kabsah&lt;/i&gt; rice cooked with tomato paste, cinnamon and shallots. It comes with either lamb, chicken or salmon fillet (starting from RM25).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Most Arab tourists come here for breakfast, the most popular of which is the tomato and onion egg omelette (RM10) with white cheese made of buffalo’s milk, and a generous helping of &lt;i&gt;bidara&lt;/i&gt; bread.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Cross the street, walk further down, and you’ll find UK Asia. Here is where you’ll see a buffet offering of typical northern Indian fare like &lt;i&gt;achar gosht&lt;/i&gt;, lamb &lt;i&gt;karai&lt;/i&gt;, mutton tripe (from RM5 for a single portion each) and the indispensable chicken &lt;i&gt;briyani&lt;/i&gt; (RM10 per plate) authentically served in a &lt;i&gt;degh&lt;/i&gt;, a traditional, specially insulated pot which the owner had brought in all the way from Pakistan.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;UK Asia also serves the fluffiest &lt;i&gt;chapatti&lt;/i&gt; (RM1.50); and girls, take note that stepping into this place is like walking onto a Bollywood set! The place is a mad house, especially on Fridays at lunchtime.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Next door is Paradise Restaurant, which is a little quieter. This is where the diner will actually get an unhindered whiff of lamb &lt;i&gt;kebab&lt;/i&gt; and chicken &lt;i&gt;tikka&lt;/i&gt; (both RM8) from the charcoal grill served with freshly baked &lt;i&gt;naan&lt;/i&gt; hot off the tandoori. Do watch out for the chicken &lt;i&gt;kofta&lt;/i&gt; too, as this is the restaurant’s speciality.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Interestingly, how did a once predominantly Chinese area become an exotic Eastern food stop?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yeok Ah Yong, 62, the owner of Bukit Bintang’s famous Chee Meng Hainan chicken rice, offers an answer.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It is my guess that after the terrorist attack of the World Trade Centre on 9/11 (2001), the cold treatment towards Middle Easterners by the West most likely made them look towards Asia as a tourist destination of choice.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/28/sundaymetro/m_07beanie.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="275" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Beanie goodness:&lt;/b&gt; Foul foul (pronounced ful ful) is a dish of fava beans cooked with onions, tomato and garlic.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Still, the major wave which also brought in Pakistani and Bangladeshi influences to the Golden Mile came about in 2002. That was when our tourism ministry was promoting Malaysia as a holiday destination of choice and, at one point, the whole area was so inundated with Middle Eastern and Indian tourists that I sometimes had to remind myself that I was in Malaysia and not Dubai,” says Yeok who has been in Bukit Bintang for the past 23 years.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ala Salih, 52, the Iraqi owner of Sahara Tent, an upmarket Middle Eastern restaurant in Jalan Berangan, which has seen the patronage of three Malaysian Prime Ministers, claims to be one of the very first to see the viability of setting up business on the Golden Mile. He says he made the decision to extend his restaurant chain in Malaysia in 2000. “There were three places that I had in mind – Bangsar, KLCC and Bukit Bintang. Bukit Bintang became the obvious choice when I saw the number of hotels and shopping complexes in the area.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nevertheless, the early days for the Middle Eastern restaurateur were far from easy. Ala, now married to a local Chinese and a proud father of a nine-month-old-boy, remembers a time when his diners constantly complained of unscrupulous taxi drivers who charged their passengers no less than RM20 to get from the Marriott Hotel to Sahara Tent, which is less than 1½ km away!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Even worse was the presence of child beggars who waited outside his restaurant to beg. The last straw for him was the presence of corrupt officials who constantly harassed his workers for identification papers. Disgruntled, he called the very people he could rely on for help – his regular clientele which boasted of big names from the government departments.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When I had their attention, I said that the only way to ensure the success of the Visit Malaysia campaign to the Middle Eastern market was to make the environment safe for the tourists. I also said that adequate facilities, such as transport, food and other services must be easily available to make them feel welcome. After that, things became much better,” says Ala.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of course, each restaurateur has his own story to tell on why they decided to set up shop on the Golden Mile, and stay.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I found my heart here,” says Mohamed Mahmood Aly, 50, the loud, jovial and rotund owner of Egypt Café who came to Kuala Lumpur in 2001 from Cairo.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Describing himself as a cook with a travelling spirit, he says he has worked in Malta, Italy, Damascus and Thailand, and that he came to Bukit Bintang as a penniless foreigner.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Luck was on his side when Cupid’s arrow struck and he fell for and married a local, Zaleha Hashim, 44. The couple now have a son, Abdul Rahman. Life has been good to Mohamed and with 23 workers under him, he is due to open his third outlet in Cheras with the help of his brother-in-law.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/28/sundaymetro/m_07chickenTikka.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="351" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tempting:&lt;/b&gt; The aroma of chicken tikka and fresh naan wafting from Paradise Restaurant is a beacon for hungry food seekers.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Pakistani Adelel Qaisei, 32, of UK Asia, goes back to his tumultuous teenage years in Pakistan to relate how he ended up in the food business. His younger brother got burnt by acid and had to be sent to Britain for treatment, he says. His father had to go with him, leaving Adelel, then 17, in charge of the family’s fabric dyeing business. The business eventually went bankrupt and Adelel ended up working as a waiter in an uncle’s restaurant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Adelel came to Malaysia two years ago, having gone first to the United Arab Emirates and then Singapore.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For those who have vocally opined that Northern Indian fare is no different from what we are used to at the &lt;i&gt;mamak&lt;/i&gt; shops, Adelel is quick to point out that nothing can be further from the truth.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Northern Indian food is not as hot as the food served in &lt;i&gt;mamak&lt;/i&gt; shops. One reason why we have such a good crowd of Bangladeshis and Pakistanis here is they find the food in the &lt;i&gt;mamak&lt;/i&gt; stalls too spicy for their liking,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The UK Asia chef, Feroz Din, 47, who hails from Kashmir, says that they use a special spice mix from Pakistan with freshly ground ingredients like tomatoes, garlic, ginger, red chillies and onions. Spices like saffron and fenugreek leaves are also used. The result is very close to a gravy that is slightly creamy and spicy with a slight sour tinge.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;On the local front, acceptance of the Middle Eastern and Indian eateries and their patrons took a bit of time. Yeok himself confesses to feeling a bit unnerved at seeing veiled female diners slipping spoonfuls of food under their face coverings to eat. But, he says, they got used to it and now every one is relaxed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star 28, Feb 2010.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 						&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 						&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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And the leader of the pack is none other than comedy queen Joanne Kam Poh Poh, currently the ambassadress of Unisense, now a svelte 66kg but who used to tip the scales at 89kg.&lt;p&gt;  The new Joanne takes a bit of getting used to. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; This outspoken diva comedienne has thrown her weight around unashamedly, verbally and literally during her Boom Boom Room days. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  One could safely say that she was larger than life with her exaggeration of off-colour but also slightly true punch lines.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Today, Joanne’s pared down image seems to have pushed her famous persona of the big, brash-mouthed diva to the background, or so it seems.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “It doesn’t mean that if I lose weight, I lose my ability to entertain. My jokes are still funny,” insists this 34-year-old.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; So is her new image the result of reinvention? Madonna and David Bowie are famous examples of entertainers who change their stage personas like chameleons. Is Joanne trying to pull the same stunt? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  As it is, her new image has prompted Mamat Talib, the director of &lt;i&gt;Kala Bulan Megambang&lt;/i&gt; (a comedy thriller due for release by the end of this year) to comment that she is ‘too pretty’ for the role in which she plays a masseuse who ends up outraging the modesty of the character played by actor Rosyam Nor. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “I’ve always been a big girl. When I took the weight loss programme with Unisense after giving birth, I was also planning for a lifestyle change. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “You know how every fat girl imagines herself to be smaller. I was curious to see if I could do it,” explains Joanne of her shrinking act.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; The weight loss, she explains, is not the result of crash diet but a gradual process, which took two years with thrice-a-week visits of one-and-a-half-hour sessions to Unisense. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “I lost an average of one and a half kilo every two months which is a healthy rate,” says Joanne, who is under the Yummy Mummy package which also addresses the problem of water retention and stretch marks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; The process has also involved a change in her lifestyle and Joanne now stays away from rice and noodles. Nevertheless, she still keeps a wide berth where gym sessions are concerned using time constraints as an excuse.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “I know I’ll get faster results if I threw in a gym session or two, but tired &lt;i&gt;lah&lt;/i&gt;,” she sighs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Still, with someone of Joanne’s talent, it would seem that the issue of weight should not be something she should worry over but clearly she has a personal agenda. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “I’ve come to a point in life where I don’t just want to attract any guy. My friends have told me that in all aspects I would make the perfect wife or girlfriend but this is still Asia. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “First impressions count and losing weight has allowed me to experience the pleasure of wearing the right dresses, people telling me that I look hot and guys coming up to chat me up.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “I also feel that people are treating me more differently as in they are more cheeky – until they find out who I am, that is.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; But as for which side Joanne would take in the issue of fat versus thin, she would choose to address the misconception of fat people as lazy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “Take, for example, a computer programmer who is at the top in her field but she is fat because she spends most of her time behind a desk. Do we just then say that a person is lazy because she is inactive? What about the mind? In the end, we must look at what a person has achieved. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “If she is at a high level, then she is not lazy,” opines Joanne, who started her career at age 19 in Haw Par Villa, Singapore, and is now boss of her own event management company.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; And talking of change, one thing for certain is that this hot-looking momma is no longer the carefree bachelorette for she is now a single mother to Jade, her two-year-old daughter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “My decisions now have to revolve around what’s good for us (Jade and her), not only what’s good for me. It’s not easy but I make it work as best as I can,” says Joanne. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  One of the challenges is allocating quality time because she is constantly on the go. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “I don’t have a choice because of my line of work. Taking a break is not a good idea because in the entertainment line, it’s hard to get back into the scene if you have been away for too long. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “So, I find a balance. In the past, I would finish the night at 3am, then go to a friend’s house and not get home till 2pm in the afternoon. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “Now I make sure I get in so that Jade can see me when she wakes up. It’s a schedule I have established where she knows I will go but I will also be back,” says Joanne, who has a reliable maid to thank.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  As for throwing her weight around with in her new slim form, Joanne says that 66kg will not be the end all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “I plan to lose another 6kg in the next six to eight months,” she confirms. And aren’t we all waiting to see the results?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Sunday Metro, Sept 2, 2007&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  					&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; 					&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					 					 							&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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Those who suffer from poor appetites should consider lunching with this 38-year-old bachelor.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Watching him eat a simple bowl of beehoon soup is a gastronomic performance for the senses and it does not take long for the watcher’s salivary glands to twitch and hanker for a bite of what he’s having. But then, that is expected of a personality whose passion for food has turned him into a household celebrity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  For the uninitiated, Chef Zam, as he is popularly known, is the star of &lt;i&gt;Seri Mas ... Selera Dunia&lt;/i&gt;, a food and lifestyle programme on TV2 which airs every Sunday at 5pm. The programme ended its first season last year and the second one will be scheduled for shooting once the sponsors have been confirmed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “The second season will see us heading for Europe where we will be doing a travelogue on halal food in the region,” is all Chef Zam will reveal for the moment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;table width="264" align="right" border="0" cellpadding="7"&gt; &lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2008/3/16/sundaymetro/p5chef.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;div class="caption"&gt;In his element: Chef Zam surrounded by the loves of his life, which he turns into culinary wonders.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt; &lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt; Meanwhile, the celeb is content to settle into his daytime role as senior lecturer in KDU College’s School of Hospitality, Tourism and Culinary Arts.&lt;p&gt;  Not surprisingly, &lt;i&gt;Sunday Metro&lt;/i&gt; would find him in his ‘teacher mode’ during a lunch cum interview at the Signature Kitchen outlet at Sunway Mentari, a kitchen fittings showroom. Where else would a chef feel more at home? But then, Zam is in no mood to reveal the A-Zs of his dream kitchen. Instead he would take the opportunity to wage a personal campaign of his own. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;  “Cooking is a basic life skill that must be taught to children,” is his manifesto. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; The statement stems from what he feels is an unhealthy rising trend of instant noodles taking the place of healthy meals, especially so among young people who are living away from home for the first time. And horror of horrors, the chef would reveal his terrifying discovery that some adults have yet to learn how to cook rice! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “It’s a shame. Some parents tell me that their daughters or sons cannot cook and they seem proud of it. They say that these teenagers are more interested in reading or surfing the Internet. There is nothing wrong with that but there will come a time when they have to eat. What then?” he queries. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Cooking, unlike the presumptions of many who are not familiar with the kitchen, is not a difficult task at all, assures this chef who started frying keropok at the tender age of five by standing on a chair to reach the stove. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; While this revelation would make many gasp at the safety issues brought on by exposing a child to fire and the possibility of painful and potentially fatal oil scalds, Chef Zam would counter that adult supervision will make the activity a safe one. In his case, it was his grandmother who played the role of watchdog. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; And Chef Zam would agree that there is nothing wrong with starting them young. May it be peeling onions or baking crazy cookies, the life lessons learned will carry a child beyond the kitchen. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “There are multi skills to be learned. A child will know the danger of knives and fire. Cooking is also a little project on its own which requires the intelligence of organisation. Though I know Asian culture does not encourage boys to be in the kitchen, I feel this is wrong,” he says. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; As for the excuse of lack of equipment, Zam, who speaks from 11 years of experience, insists that a wok, stove, spatula plus a chopping board and knife, would be more than sufficient to whip up a delicious meal. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; “In the first place, understand how ingredients work. This is not hard because everyone has had the experience of eating. 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Today, they call Shanti, “Mathaji” – the divine light who touches the soul.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Her story began 11 years ago, when Shanti and her husband, Muthukumaran Velu, now 49, were on the verge of suicide.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 393px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/4/5/sundaymetro/ms_11mathaji.jpg" alt="" width="379" height="236" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Maternal affection: Shanti Kunchaloo, better known as Mathaji, reaches out to others via motivational talks and sharing sessions.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;By all standards, Shanti had all the makings of a bright future. The third child of six siblings, Shanti grew up at 18th mile in Bagan Datoh where her father, Kunchaloo Engkana, now 73, worked as a taxi driver.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;A former student of SMK Johari, a Telugu school in Sungai Sumun, Perak, Shanti was a popular figure in sports and the school’s debating team.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;By the age of 17, she garnered the place of second runner-up in a beauty contest held at the Petaling Jaya Civic Centre and had no less than five marriage proposals to consider.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But Shanti felt that she was too young for marriage and instead, opted to stay with her sister and her husband in Sabah where she taught at an elementary school and gave tutoring services to upper secondary students. It was there that she met and fell for Muthukumaran with whom she married in 1989.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She was homely, well-mannered and a great cook. She made the best crab, fish and chicken curries, the softest chappatis and the sweetest chakera ponggals (sweetened brown rice) I had ever known. I put on 30 kilos after marrying her!” recalled Muthukumaran.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But alas, the happiness would not last. After 13 years of taking care of a cocoa plantation in Sabah, they lost their jobs after a verbal promise of employment in the Peninsula failed to materialise. To add to the pain of losing a steady income, Shanti had to deal with several miscarriages and her last baby, born in 1994, died three days after she delivered him via Caesarean-section.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My father brought my baby to me and told me to kiss him. It was only after they put him in my arms did I realise that he had passed on,” recalled Shanti, tearing at the painful memory.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But in her book, &lt;i&gt;Divine Light&lt;/i&gt;, which is a compilation of her spiritual experiences, there is a saying and it goes like this:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;I asked the Almighty to give me happiness&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;and He said, ‘No’.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Instead He gave me his blessings&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;and said that happiness was up to me.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Through a cloud of emotional pain, Shanti sought to seek answers through prayers and meditation. What was her true role in life? Why was she here? Why had she been made to go through so much pain?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The turning point, she recalled, had come about in 1998 during a telephone conversation with Guru Mahan, the founder of Universal Peace Foundation, an institution for yoga, naturopathy and holistic science in Thirumurthi Hills, South India.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;During the telephone conversation, which lasted 45 minutes, Shanti would hear Mahan utter these words: “To gain something, you must lose something.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Guruji told me that the most important thing was to condition my mind to accept all the life challenges that had come my way. It was not easy because I had a stubborn nature. I was insistent that for someone who had done no wrong in her life, she shouldn’t be made to go through so much pain,” recalled Shanti.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But eventually, Shanti realised that if she did not change her mindset, she would forever be trapped in the pits of despair. And so, with the support of her husband, Shanti began to reach out to others via motivational talks, seeking her listeners to sort out their problems with calm and understanding in spite of the adversities they may be facing&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;During her talks, Shanti is known for touching and hugging her audience with a maternal affection and addresses everyone with a warm sounding “Ma”, explaining that it’s the equivalent of calling someone “Dear” or “Love”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In 2002, she was given the title of “Mathaji” by Datin Padmabathy, the wife of a Johor politician, during a seminar at the Muneswaran Temple in Tampoi, Johor. Thinking back, Shanti recalled seeking this “title” because she had felt odd that no one had ever addressed her as a mother despite the fact that she had had three babies.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“When I asked Guru Mahan, he said that I should let the world know me as ‘Mathaji’ (mother) and hence feel satisfied for being known as such. He said that though I have no children of my own, henceforth, all living beings on Earth shall be my children,” said Shanti.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Today, as Mathaji Shantiekumar, she is a regal sight in her yellow robes. It is the only colour that she wears, in public as well as at home, as she strongly believes in the rejuvenating energy of this vibrant shade. Black is one colour she eschews, insisting that it attracts negative vibes.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And though she admitted that she still finds it irksome when it comes to dealing with unpunctuality, she has come to accept that one can never be completely free from life’s frustrations.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The best way to deal with frustration is to smile. Through experience, I have discovered the immediate effect of this simple gesture. The moment you smile, you experience a positive energy which will bring on a sense of gladness,” she said.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“And remember,” she said as a form of parting advice, “whatever that may happen in your life, accept it. If you don’t, the problem will continue to fester and become serious”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To find out more about Mathaji Shantiekumar, call 016-651 7629 or visit her website at &lt;a href="http://www.mathajivvv.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.mathajivvv.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star April 5 2009.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 						&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 						&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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Smiling apologetically, the tousled-haired 29-year-old bassist of Meet Uncle Hussain, who is better known as Afat, explained his less-than-chirpy appearance was the result of a late-night gig. &lt;p&gt;A budding cartoonist who used to work as a sales assistant at an optician’s shop, Afat brought out a sketchbook of his doodlings for our flipping pleasure before hurrying into the next room to rouse a still-slumbering Nik Mustaza Nik Mustapha (better known as Taja to friends and f ans), the band’s 30-year-old mastermind and songwriter.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image right" style="width: 194px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/5/19/central/m_23unclehussain.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="258" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Meet Uncle Hussain upclose: (Clockwise from top) Afat, Taja and Lan.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;By now, one can safely bet that at the very least, half the nation are able to sing along to his lines from the hit single, &lt;i&gt;Lagu Untuk Mu&lt;/i&gt;. It goes like this: &lt;i&gt;Tiada bintang dapat menerangkan hati yang telah dicelar&lt;/i&gt;… (roughly translated as ‘no star can ever light up a broken heart again’). But, lest Taja be mistaken for a misogynist, he is well into a healthy relationship with girlfriend Kimmy Nafisah, who is also the band’s manager and PR officer.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Within the neat and tastefully furnished interior of the apartment shared by the two men, Snowbee, Afat’s one-and-half-year-old tomcat, frolicked playfully with its playmate Chinonit, a seven-month-old tabby. Looking on from the shallow depths of a glass aquarium were some species of freshwater fish, also belonging to Afat. Earlier, the bassist had revealed that three turtles had to be moved out as they had grown too big. To ease the pain of departure, a goodbye ceremony had been held at the lake of the Taman Tun Dr Ismail playground where they were released.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nearby, Taja’s hamsters, a Syrian named Hang Tuah and three dwarves, Kudung, Bakrina and Dicki, scurried around in their man-made habitats. Kudung was named thus for its missing front paw. According to Taja, Kudung had its front paw entangled in a twine of grass as a baby. The twine had cut off all circulation to the limb, which subsequently rotted and fell off.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Away from the bright lights and without their guitars, the two would fit the bill of aspiring zookeepers in the making.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is a different case with the group’s 27-year-old enigmatic lead vocalist Norazlan Rosle.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The youngest of the three, this hyperactive charmer, who is known as Lan, had waltzed in, found a plastic snake on the floor and tried to scare his bandmates silly by waving it in their faces. His playful nature is a trait that has endeared him to his large brood of nephews and nieces – all 20 of them. Wrestling matches with the kids when he goes back to Ulu Langat, snooker games and eating out at restaurants, admitted Lan, were more his scene.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“You can catergorise Lan as ‘special’. As in the case of ‘special’ people, they have their quirks, but once he takes the stage, everything is forgiven. The guy really has charisma,” commented Taja with regard to Lan’s display of playfulness.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“What we have is a ‘mind’ connection,” affirmed Lan, referring to the sense of kinship with his bandmates, all self-taught musicians.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One crucial aspect of ensuring the success of the band is to be able to see the logical side of things when it comes to dealing with important issues. There will be disagreements, stress and gossip to contend with, but in the end, we must know what we want and work towards a common goal,” added Lan, who used to work as a restaurant captain.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Up close and personal, raw and unplugged, this, affirmed Taja, was what real life was like for an indie rock band that had achieved overnight fame in 2007 when its debut single &lt;i&gt;La La La…Kerja&lt;/i&gt; was chosen to be the opening soundtrack for &lt;i&gt;Kami&lt;/i&gt;, a TV series produced by Lina Tan and aired over 8TV.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When asked if the three bachelors were living the high life as a popular rock band, the trio chorused out a loud ‘no’ in perfect unison.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“At the moment, we have a regulated monthly allowance of RM2,500 each, a measure that our manager has come up with to control cashflow,” revealed Taja.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It was a necessary move, he explained, to keep the band out of the red and to preserve longevity. So, no excesses for the time being, not until album sales have increased to a certain level and existing cheques cleared. But fame is certainly catching up with them.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It has been rather trying for Lan. As the lead vocalist, he has been getting all the attention, and as a result, he gets mobbed on a regular basis when he comes out in public. As for Afat and me, we are still free to go wherever we please as we are always in the background,” grinned Taja.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In all honesty, Taja insisted, rest days were pretty scarce and far between, for the moment. In addition to singing engagements, Lan, for example, is still working for an events company. Afat, a talented cartoonist with the innate ability to sketch everything he sees, is currently working on a graphic biography which is targeted for publiscation by December this year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Whatever free time that is left, inevitably goes to their menagerie which requires constant attention.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“But it’s worth it. When you come back tired from a gig and the cat comes and snuggles up to you, all the stress is gone. They give you a sense of fun because they are so hyperactive,” opined Afat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So, for the love of their furry and fishy friends, one wonders if the men from Meet Uncle Hussain are contemplating vegetarianism?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“&lt;i&gt;Nah&lt;/i&gt;! Not to that level. Some animals are meant to be eaten but we’ll certainly not resort to eating wildlife like monkey’s brains, for example,” concluded the three.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To listen to Meet Uncle Hussain’s songs, log on to &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.myspace.com/meetunclehussain" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.myspace.com/meetunclehussain&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Metro Central May 19 2009.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					 					 							&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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Hung on hooks, these slabs of roasted pork flanks with their crackly orangey skin are a normal sight at any Chinese coffee shop with a chicken rice stall or at the morning markets. But finding good &lt;i&gt;siew yuk&lt;/i&gt; is another matter altogether.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is because roasting is a science. The fire has to be just right. Too hot and the skin will turn black. Not hot enough and the meat will smell like it has been exposed to burning joss sticks – the smoke has seeped into the meat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 284px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/11/15/sundaymetro/m_06low.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="395" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Goose and duck talk:&lt;/b&gt; William Low holding up his crisp, golden skinned duck to show off a perfect roast.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;For a sampling of how a premium roast should taste, head over to Yummy Duck, a roast house in Jalan Kuchai Maju, Kuala Lumpur.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Here is where you’ll experience a slice of heaven when you sink your teeth into the crackly skin and the rest just melts in your mouth. There is a beautiful balance in the layering of fat and lean meat, and the marinades are done just right, leaving a nice flavour and without an oily aftertaste.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The &lt;i&gt;char siew&lt;/i&gt; (roasted pork shoulder) here is equally good, too. Lean, well done, slightly chewy and beautifully covered with a caramelised soya coating, what little bit of fat here has a translucent shade, a sign of the roaster’s skill.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It would be an injustice to leave out the roasted goose with its crisp, flavourful skin. This is quite a show stealer as it is ceremoniously brought from the kitchen to the front where it is expertly cut by the chef.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While many assume that the secret to a good roast is in the marinade – in Yummy Duck’s case, it includes salt (to make the skin crackle), five spice and garlic powder, and &lt;i&gt;lam yue&lt;/i&gt; (red preserved bean curd) – the base ingredient, meat, is equally important.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yummy Duck get their meats fresh, with the best cuts of pork belly for &lt;i&gt;siew yuk&lt;/i&gt; (the hardest to source) costing them as much as RM17 per kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ultimately, Yummy Duck, which was opened about three months ago, is a testament to the culinary skills of its director William Low, who is very fussy about quality.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/11/15/sundaymetro/m_06noodles.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="238" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Triple play:&lt;/b&gt; Noodles with a combination of &lt;i&gt;siew yuk&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;char siew&lt;/i&gt; and roasted duck&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;To explain, Kang Moon, Low’s older brother, mentioned the springy egg noodles which are specially imported from Hong Kong. Despite constant urgings to order more to cut down on shipping costs, Low is steadfast about bringing in only enough for the restaurant, says Kang Moon.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Low’s reasoning is that ordering large batches will give the supplier the impression that they are doing a wholesale business, which might encourage them to offload their old stock on them. Low’s insistence seems to be paying off as the egg noodles have a wonderful springy texture.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Low, a 41-year-old father of two, began his career in the food business as a commis in Regent Kuala Lumpur’s Lai Ching Yuen (the present Grand Millenium). At that time, it was under the charge of Chef Mak Thong, who is now lecturing in Tunku Abdul Rahman College. Thong is well known for being a stickler for details and this, evidently, has rubbed off on Low.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;After two years with Thong, Low left to open a chicken rice stall near the market in Sentul, KL, with a partner. Fifteen years later and pressured by six of his older siblings to move to somewhere safer and more permanent, Low set up Yummy Duck, so named because the original idea was to brand his restaurant as the place for roasted ducks. But as it turned out, it was the &lt;i&gt;siew yuk&lt;/i&gt; that would become more popular.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Setting a contemporary tone with plenty of gold and woody notes, the interior of Low’s restaurant is definitely a far cry from the chicken rice stall in Sentul where diners had to make do with folding tables and plastic chairs and only a large tree for shade.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thankfully, prices are still friendly. A plate of egg noodles with a combination of &lt;i&gt;siew yuk, char siew&lt;/i&gt; and roast duck is only RM11.80 either dry or in a soup. The spicy version costs an extra RM1.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 364px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/11/15/sundaymetro/m_06yummyDuck.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="287" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Added attraction:&lt;/b&gt; Yummy Duck has become popular for its delicious roast pork.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Considering the generous portions of meat, this is a pretty fair price. The &lt;i&gt;siew yuk&lt;/i&gt; is RM18 per portion. The roasted goose is the most expensive item here at RM150 for a whole bird and RM80 for half. Again, Low justifies this with his insistence in using only fresh meat.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Apart from the roasted meats, Low also offers side dishes of deep fried silver fish (RM8) and soft shell crabs (RM12), and chicken wings stuffed with glutinous rice, &lt;i&gt;char siew&lt;/i&gt;, sliced Chinese sausage and dried shrimp (RM12).&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Do try the unique green coloured chili sauce which comes with the roast goose. 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As children, we looked eagerly to the festive season for so many reasons, partaking of practices that we didn’t quite understand but loved doing anyway.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Before the days of hampers and commercially-packed cookies, those celebrating the new year would send their children to the homes of their non-Chinese neighbours to deliver traditional homemade &lt;i&gt;kuih&lt;/i&gt; and biscuits on a plate topped with mandarin oranges. And the plate would never be returned empty but filled with sugar or something sweet.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/7/sundaymetro/ms_p6KokShan.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Power of prayer: Yap Kok Shan, 81, the temple treasurer, says that in remembering our ancestors, we are reminded of the lessons of hard work, perseverance and determination&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Before children had new clothes just about every time their parents went shopping, a set of brand new home-sewn clothes, underclothes and even toothbrush and toys were highlights of the year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Before reunion dinners were held at restaurants offering the same old fare, the womenfolk – and sometimes the men too – would toil for days over family recipes and delicacies that would only be served once a year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Such lovely memories of the good old days.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Fortunately, in some households, these traditions still hold true.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Madam Y.H Lim labours every year over the reunion dinner. She has little choice as her family of four children and 12 grandchildren don’t want any restaurant fare but her once-a-year pork stewed with bamboo shoot, stewed duck, &lt;i&gt;ham choy&lt;/i&gt; duck soup and other handed-down recipes.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/7/sundaymetro/ms_p6Lims.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="294" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;All in the family: The Lims and their children (from front) Masni, 13, Razin, seven, Zulkamal, 12, and Ros, 18, cherish family togetherness and make it a point to ask forgiveness from their parents when they receive their ang pau.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Deep-frying the huge chunks of belly pork to be stewed with bamboo shoot is no mean feat. One year, recalls Lim, the &lt;i&gt;wok&lt;/i&gt; cover flew up due to the pressure from the deep-frying; luckily no one was injured. This is one dish no one in the family wants to pick up!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It takes me a few weeks of planning, marketing and cooking. It’s hard work as I have to do all by myself but it’s worth it when I see my family enjoying the food with such relish.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My daughter says if the family loves these dishes, why can’t we have them more often instead of once a year? But then it wouldn’t be a New Year speciality any more, would it?” shares Lim, 68, who learnt most of these dishes from her mother-in-law who came from China.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Crockery that is only used once a year is taken out of storage and washed while chopsticks are brand new each year. Although meals are eaten daily on plates, rice is served in bowls at the reunion dinner.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And because everyone knows how much work goes into that feast, all are warned ahead that they should savour every bite and not rush through the reunion dinner.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;After dinner, in keeping with the family tradition, all the grandchildren, dressed in brand new pyjamas, line up to receive their &lt;i&gt;ang pau&lt;/i&gt; from the grandparents, with an exchange of salutations of “longevity, prosperity and good health” and “be good children, study hard”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 214px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/7/sundaymetro/ms_p6Loh.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="276" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Modern take: Loh holding up the longevity peach buns which are symbolic of good health and plenty of offspring.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Food certainly plays an important part in Chinese homes, especially during the festive season. One family churns out &lt;i&gt;pau&lt;/i&gt; in the shape of animals and other symbols for good luck and “&lt;i&gt;ho yee thau&lt;/i&gt;”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Lee Kian Seong, 22, the Chinese New Year celebration is synonymous with novelty-shaped &lt;i&gt;pau&lt;/i&gt; on the dessert table. His mother, Loh Mooi Kim, 43, explains that the longevity peach buns called &lt;i&gt;yi shuen mun tong&lt;/i&gt; or”a garden full of grand children” in Cantonese is especially auspicious to the Chinese who put a premium on loads of offspring to ensure the preservation of one’s lineage. This is symbolised by the bigger peach being stuffed with smaller versions which altogether “make up” 19 in number. Again the number is another indication of long life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 364px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/7/sundaymetro/ms_p6yap.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="267" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Honouring the ancestors: Yap with his wife, Tan Siew Sin, 49, son Shang Feng and daughter Jyy Huey pay respects to their ancestors in the family temple&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;But Lee, a pastry chef, has innovated and added to the traditional longevity &lt;i&gt;pau&lt;/i&gt;. He has introduced pink piggies, chocolate-eared puppies and prickly porcupines, to name a few; and his mum has creatively attributed to each an auspicious meaning. The pink piggies signify the Chinese saying of “&lt;i&gt;chee long yap sui&lt;/i&gt;”, which, loosely translated, means “an influx of cash”. The porcupines, which are known as &lt;i&gt;chin chee&lt;/i&gt; in Cantonese, signify the constant churn of activity which is necessary to bring in business. The puppies, as suggested by their homophone, aim to wish the diner long life and are also regarded as a sign of friendship as dogs are considered man’s best friend.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Recently, Lee added to his repertoire cat and leaf-shaped &lt;i&gt;pau&lt;/i&gt; as the cat in Japanese culture is a symbol of welcome and leaves are synonymous with life and a fresh start to all of one’s endeavours.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To usher in the Chinese New Year, Haniff Lim, 46, a Seremban native of Hokkien descent, and his wife, Zulaila Damin, 43, will clean their aquarium and goldfish ponds by changing the filters and giving everything a good scrub.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;His love for fish started as a boy but with financial independence as an adult, he started to take this hobby even more seriously and to a grander scale.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;He now has no fewer than 70 goldfish of the ryukin and oranda varieties, to name a few. He also checks on his collection and replenishes his stock before Chinese New Year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As a practice, he replaces every expired fish with at least three new members to make up for the loss.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“About a month or so before Chinese New Year, we’ll go to this aquarium called Fengshui Fish in Puchong and look at the latest breeds of fish available to add to our collection. The fact that the general manager is such a good salesman helps to make the decision easier,” says Haniff in jest.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The operations manager believes that his fishy friends’ state of health will reflect his personal happiness. If they do well, he and his family will be happy and thrive too, hence his conscientious care for his watery pets.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And needless to say, the fish are a great source of pride when visitors come to his home during Chinese New Year and marvel at his collection.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While some are very much into auspicious names and symbols, the Yap family prioritises an extensive get together at a family temple.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Yap Seong Kon, 54, Chinese New Year would not be complete without paying respects to his forefathers in the Yap family temple Onn Kay Yeoh San Yap Ser Kah Chuk&lt;i&gt;,&lt;/i&gt; off Jalan Ipoh, on the 14th day of the New Year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The practice of paying our respects to our forefathers is passed down through the generations. To date, there are 3,000 individuals bearing the Yap surname in Malaysia and come the festive season, you will find no fewer than 500 of our relatives gathering at the temple,” says the father of two.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;He has been going to this temple since very young although it has been relocated several times. And he has kept the family tradition alive by bringing his children to the temple each year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Temple treasurer Yap Kok Shan, 81, shares that in addition to seeking spiritual guidance, praying to the ancestors evokes the lessons of the past.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Though our ancestors are no longer around, they were once individuals who strove to improve the lot of the younger generation. In remembering them, we are reminded of the lessons of hard work, perseverance and determination.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Members of the Yap clan find the New Year gathering an ideal platform to network and be reacquainted with each other. At the same time, it is an opportunity to offer prayers and seek the blessing of their ancestors.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Yap, who runs a kindergarten, prayed for his young charges to be spared of the A(H1N1) outbreak last year and, he says, his prayers were answered. His daughter, Jyy Huey, 24, was granted her wishes for good grades in her CLP and a good career while her brother Shang Feng, 19, recalls that a simple wish he made as a nine-year-old for &lt;i&gt;yee sang&lt;/i&gt; was granted.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Sunday Metro, 7th February 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 						&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					 					 						&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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During Chinese New Year, the act of giving and receiving gifts is an art form.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;p&gt;WHEN it comes to gift-giving or &lt;i&gt;soong lai&lt;/i&gt; during the Chinese New year season, most of us take it for granted and don’t give it that much thought. As long as there are the customary &lt;i&gt;kum&lt;/i&gt; or Mandarin oranges in addition to other goodies in the gift bag, all should be well.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But this is where we are wrong. The older generation would be the first to tell you that there is an art to &lt;i&gt;soong lai. &lt;/i&gt;Careful consideration must be given to the the items that make up the gift hamper or bag. You must consider the status of the receiver, for example, if it is the mother-in-law or someone of the older generation. Ideally, you should also know the receiver’s likes and dislikes and the significance of each item based on its value, what it symbolises or simply how the words sound.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Retired teacher Ho Soon Theam, who is in her 50s, takes great pains in putting the items together for &lt;i&gt;soong lai &lt;/i&gt;as the gift reflects the giver too&lt;i&gt;. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Even the number of items is important: eight is a good number as it signifies luck, nine denotes long life while 10 implies perfection.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/7/sundaymetro/ms_p9hampers.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="325" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Prepack hampers at Carrefour: When packing for soong lai, consider having eight items as 8 is a number that signifies good luck. 9 is also looked at positively as it denotes long life, while 10 denotes perfection&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Never settle for a count of four as it sounds like &lt;i&gt;sei&lt;/i&gt;, as in ‘die’. Likewise, bookworms beware and not bring along books during &lt;i&gt;pai leen&lt;/i&gt; (visits during new year) as the Chinese word for book, &lt;i&gt;shee&lt;/i&gt;, sounds like ‘lose’ and is therefore not a positive element,” says Ho.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What goes into a goodie bag should also reflect the auspicious occasion.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She adds that the best is the gift of a box of Mandarin oranges as it denotes a chest of gold, which is symbolic in wishing the recipient much wealth in the coming year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For close relatives, Ho advises against skimping. “Give the best such as bird’s nest, abalone and Chinese mushrooms which symbolise the arrival of many good opportunities throughout the year,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In the old days, it was also not uncommon to receive gifts of live chickens from close family members to signify togetherness.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ho also recalls how daughters would present their parents with brandy to show filial piety, the reason being that it is an expensive item.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In the end, the best practice is to have sound knowledge of the recipient’s favourite preferences to make up the ideal goodie bag.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;What you put into the bag for &lt;i&gt;soong lai&lt;/i&gt; can also reveal your character, she says. recalling an incident when she was mistakenly given a box of half eaten roast duck. It turned out that her friend had bought two boxes, one for her own family’s consumption. But in the bustle of the season she had grabbed the wrong box! Though Ho kept mum, her friend realised the mistake and insisted on giving her a replacement despite repeated pleas on Ho’s part that there was no need to.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Let’s say you find a mouldy orange among the &lt;i&gt;soong lai&lt;/i&gt; items; don’t make a fuss. After all how much does a Mandarin cost? If you do, you may just shame the giver and though she is obliged to apologise and give you a new one, it may give the impression that you are calculating and petty,” reasons Ho.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She is such a stickler for the art of &lt;i&gt;soong lai &lt;/i&gt;that her daughter has found it hard not to follow in her footsteps, agonising over what to put into the gift bag for her mother-in-law.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Once, I was falling asleep and suddenly I thought of something that I had forgotten to put in,” says Ho’s daughter, who declines to be named, with laugh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/7/sundaymetro/ABALONE.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="399" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;For close relatives, Ho advises giving the best such as bird’s nest, abalone and Chinese mushrooms&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Rose Lim, 80, is another person who says that to &lt;i&gt;pai leen&lt;/i&gt; during Chinese New Year without a goodie bag in tow is abominable. It is an absolute no-no to this former ICI dealer who used to spend no less than RM10,000 on hampers for her clients and suppliers in the days when her business was running full swing.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“How can one think of not giving anything to family and friends during Chinese New Year? It shows that one has no idea how to &lt;i&gt;sek chou&lt;/i&gt; (know the proper thing to do). If you have no sense of what is proper, then others may see you as uncaring and may not want to do business with you. It is about believing that what goes around comes around,” says Lim, a mother of three.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The rule of thumb on &lt;i&gt;soong lai&lt;/i&gt; for business associates and staff, she shares, is dependent on the volume of transactions over the year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As a rule, the client who has placed the most orders should be rewarded with the biggest hamper. It is also important to remember the people who have helped you even though their contributions may be small. In such cases, even a small monetary gesture in the form of an &lt;i&gt;ang pau&lt;/i&gt; or even a few Mandarin oranges can speak volumes.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The last word on &lt;i&gt;soong lai&lt;/i&gt;, says Kelly Toh, 52, a mother of four grown sons, is not just about the simple act of buying gifts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“What is more important is the sense of filial piety, the sense of respect on the part of the younger generation towards the elders. If a son or daughter has not accorded his or her parents the proper respect, then even the biggest and most expensive hamper will not make amends for this wrong. In fact, you’d be lucky if it is not thrown back at you,” Toh says.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star on the 7th of February 2010.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-2683460763519174571?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/2683460763519174571/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=2683460763519174571' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2683460763519174571'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2683460763519174571'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/02/time-to-be-generous.html' title='A time to be generous'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-2911376692683996121</id><published>2010-02-18T21:53:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-18T21:54:39.271-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Why Angel flies home</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;Come Chinese New Year, you won’t find Angel Wong in front of the cameras hosting any festive countdown shows. It is the time she finds her way home to mum’s cooking and bonding over the mahjong table.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;div id="story_content"&gt; &lt;p&gt;HOME is where the heart is and that is where TV host Angel Wong insists on being every Chinese New Year. No matter what the expectations of her bosses or her work commitments are, she makes it a point to usher in the lunar New Year in Hong Kong with her parents and sisters.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;While Malaysia is the work base for this host of the TV food programme &lt;i&gt;1 Day 5 Meals&lt;/i&gt;, which is currently in its third season on Astro Wah Lai Toi, Wong always makes it home to Causeway Bay for at least a week.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/14/sundaymetro/m_03angel1.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="354" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;In her blood: Angel Wong, host of the TV food show 1 Day 5 Meals, which is currently in its third season on Astro Wah Lai Toi. This food critic gets her sensitive taste buds from her father, George, a former chef who used to cook for royalty.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I spend about eight to 10 days in Hong Kong and my mother picks me up at the airport,” says Wong who tries to make it home at least two days before the reunion dinner.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;There is, of course, some “gentle pressure” from her bosses to appear for countdown shows due to her popularity but Wong, who is in her mid 30s, remains firm. “I simply tell them: ‘Thank you, but I want to go home’,” says the actress and television personality.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Nothing will make her miss this occasion with her family, not even her three dogs whom she leaves under the care of a good friend. One emceeing job away from home on the eve of Chinese New Year was enough to put her off doing it again. “I felt terrible,” recalls this Taurean.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is not so much a matter of missing her mother’s Shanghai-influenced cuisine or time with her family as she sees them four to five times a year. It is the significance which matters to Wong as she sees the occasion as the end of all things past and a fresh start.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Certainly, the food that her mum, Janet To, 59, prepares for New Year is worth making the trip home for. Her favourite dishes are chicken gizzard and pig’s tongue preserved with Chinese white wine (which is eaten as an appetizer) and drunken chicken, served cold, steeped in a mixture of Chinese herbs for a few days. Of course, there will be the traditional hot pot, too.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/14/sundaymetro/m_03angel2.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="379" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;With her slim, toned figure Angel can certainly afford to indulge in all the festive goodies.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wong’s timing is such that by the time she gets home, all the food preparation would be finished!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But Wong is not without her own culinary skills, too. Her forte is egg skin dumplings, a recipe she got from her mother.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It looks like &lt;i&gt;sui kow&lt;/i&gt; except that the skin is made from egg. To make the skin, beat some eggs and pour in a little oil. Heat the pan to medium and spoon the mixture into it with a tablespoon, turning it around to form a round skin. Then spoon in some mince meat as filling and quickly seal the edges before the skin is thoroughly cooked,” shares Wong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;With such delicacies on offer during the lunar New Year festivities, it is no wonder that Wong fears stepping on the scales after the feasting. Not that she needs to, weighing a mere 51kg.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Spending time with her mother and sisters, Anita, 30, and Anny, 37, is another treat for Wong who uses this time to bond with them – over the mahjong table!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;All four will be earnestly pitting their skills against each other in the first four days of Chinese New Year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This is the time when Wong’s father, George, 63, will pamper the ladies of the house by ensuring that they are well fed with all sorts of Chinese New Year snacks and delectables.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;He was a chef who used to cook for royalty although it is Janet who takes charge of the kitchen. As Wong explains, there cannot be two CEOs in one company or tempers may flare.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Though her parents are originally from Shanghai, the family celebrates the New Year in Hong Kong as it can be daunting sharing the festive season with the large network of relatives in the mainland.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Handing out so many &lt;i&gt;ang pau&lt;/i&gt; will be a challenge!”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wong shares that she would not be where she is today if not for her parents. Having graduated from the Hong Kong University of Science and Technology with a Bachelor of Science in Biochemistry, she was very aware of their concern when she decided to pursue a career in entertainment in Malaysia 12 years ago. But instead of kicking up a fuss, they let Wong pursue her dreams.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I am who I am today because of my parents. During my growing years, they instilled in me a sense of independence and recognised me as an individual. They also let me make my own mistakes and when they do pitch in to help, it is done very quietly,” she says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The biggest influence in her life is her mother, who has been appointed the family’s chief financial officer due to her prowess in the stock exchange.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Though she is a housewife, my mum is always under pressure as she feels responsible for our investment portfolios. There are times when she will tell us not to give her any more money so that she does not have to worry about the outcome of our investments,” says Wong with a laugh.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Working on an extremely tight schedule for her TV shows and emceeing work in Malaysia, she is more than happy to be a couch potato when she is at home for the New Year. “That is what I mean by coming home. It wouldn’t make sense if I spent all my time going out when I am supposed to be spending time with my family, right?” she reasons.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The cue for her to return to Malaysia is when the Hong Kong Stock Exchange opens for business. Leaving Hong Kong after the New Year festivities is tough, though, and she has to will herself not to cry.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“This is why I choose to fly off on Sundays on the 2.30pm flight so that we can have a &lt;i&gt;dim sum&lt;/i&gt; lunch before that. It is a good prelude to the ensuing farewell as everybody can just stand up, and then I wave goodbye and check in.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“You have no idea how much control I have to muster to keep the tears from flowing,” says Wong.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Though she is fortunate to be with her family every Chinese New Year, she feels that such privileges should never be taken for granted.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I always believe that if you want to show your love to the elders in your family, do it now. Don’t wait. After all, how many years do they have left? That is why I always make time for them,” concludes Wong&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Sunday Metro, on 14th February 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-2911376692683996121?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/2911376692683996121/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=2911376692683996121' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2911376692683996121'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2911376692683996121'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/02/why-angel-flies-home.html' title='Why Angel flies home'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-2877351962082209742</id><published>2010-02-18T21:46:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-18T21:48:31.931-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Big ideas in little boxes</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;How one man bridges technology with everyday life&lt;/b&gt;&lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; IT IS raining cats and dogs and Damian Mycroft, the senior design manager at Nokia, knows he will not be going anywhere. He whips out his mobile phone and, before long, the 42-year-old is online looking at Lamborghinis, an item he is planning to add on to his shopping list when he gets his bonus.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just then, a harried PR account manager pops into the room to announce that the Nokia Comes With Music launch would begin in a few minutes in the Berjaya Hall of Bukit Kiara Equestrian Park, Kuala Lumpur.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As a retort, the Brit cheekily snaps a picture of her with his phone. He later summons her by pressing on her image, showing off the touch-screen technology and memory recall interface within the little box that he and his team have designed.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 264px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/18/lifeliving/f_11damian.jpg" alt="" width="250" height="354" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Future forward:&lt;/b&gt; ‘It is about envisioning the future and, to do this, one cannot have a mindset that is stuck in the past,’ says Damian Mycroft.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;This includes the Nokia X6, a handphone which can offer up to 35 hours of music, 32GB on-board memory, an 8cm touch screen and a 5 megapixel camera with Carl Zeiss lens.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is an apt setting for Mycroft to demonstrate how far the mobile phone has evolved. From making calls and texts messages, it has become a little box of wonders for people to go online, manage mail, talk, share photos and play their favourite music.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;It is also a case of sheer coincidence for the heavens to be pouring that day as this was exactly the same scenario that had inspired this Brit to put a mobile disco into a tiny box of a handphone some three years ago.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In recalling a walk on a busy street in India, Mycroft remembers the sounds of nature being drowned out by the jarring sound of metal works in the background. Then he spotted a young man wearing a pair of earphones, obviously trying his best to sort out the music amidst the surrounding din.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“My first thought was: ‘Why not make a louder phone?’” recalls Mycroft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The idea, which has materialised into two strips of wafer-thin speakers by the side of the X6, also led to the creation of an advanced music player where songs can be downloaded into an 8GB microSD card. Feedback reveals that the X6 is an effective alarm clock, too.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The business of putting big ideas into little boxes is not alien to Mycroft who, as a boy, would cut out cereal boxes and paste the openings with clear plastic to make them look like computers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To get on the same wavelength with this digital designer who is constantly looking at how he can change the way we see and interact, you’d have to imagine a mind that is able to bridge technology with everyday life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The first thing about making successful use of technology is to look into what’s natural and intuitive to its users,” says Mycroft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Relevance the key&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Using the slim speakers on the X6 as an example, he reveals that he could have opted to use sound bugs, which can turn any flat surface into a speaker. The drawback was, being the size of tea cups, they were not small enough.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Here, making something intuitive for a mobile phone user, is to have something that he can put into his pocket and not to have to lug a lumpy object around. The day will come eventually, and this is where a close relationship with the innovative product groups comes in,” explains Mycroft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Understanding human nature is a subject that is very close to Mycroft’s heart, having gone as far as sitting among the slum dwellers in Bombay just so that he could get a first-hand feel of how people from different walks of life live.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I see how they go out, do business, arrange to meet their friends. I find out about things that are important to them. Then comes the part where these lifestyle habits can be related to the digital world, to bring about a more convenient way for people to live, so to speak. The keyword here is relevance. People must be able to use the technology easily,” says Mycroft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;And yes, even this boss – who studied industrial design at Manchester University, completed an MBA in design management at Harrow Business School, and has seven designers under his charge – has had his ideas shot down occasionally.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“I once thought I had a great idea about making a fashion phone, sporting different skins to match the seasons, like a handbag. It didn’t even pass the drawing board, chiefly because a phone is supposed to adapt to the user, not the other way around,” he smiles sheepishly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Still, to have Mycroft’s way of thinking requires a bit of mind-bending, a skill he honed while pursuing a foundation course at the Chelsea School of Art in London.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One of the first things that I learned to do was to see things as they are and not imagine them to be what I think they should look like.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Take a covered chair, for example. If I asked you to describe the shape, you’d tell me that it has four legs, even without peeking under the covering. That’s looking at things as what’s already there. I had to break away from this mindset and look at the world without making assumptions,” says Mycroft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Envisioning the future&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Careerwise, Mycroft started on his first job at P13, a London-based design agency where he translated brands into tangible experiences. After that, he joined Frazer Design, an agency developing consumer electronics, and then, Philips in the Netherlands, where he was part of the consumer electronics design team. He joined Nokia in 2006, creating new concepts for lifestyle products.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In retrospect, while Mycroft could have opted to travel the path of an artist and run the circuit of gallery exhibitions, he admits that it is the very idea of technology that has pushed him to place his talents in a more relevant world.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having fiddled with computers since the 1970s, thanks to easy access to the community library and being exposed to his mother’s architectural work in designing houses for Richard Rogers (a well-known architect in Britain), his entry into the world of digital design was a natural course.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In the end, the function of digital design, says Mycroft, who leads the team behind Nokia’s range of musical devices, is not only about aesthetics.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It is about envisioning the future and, to do this, one cannot have a mindset that is stuck in the past. You’d go nowhere this way,” says Mycroft.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for what is to come, Mycroft says that the day will arrive when mobile Internet becomes so advanced that a person in Bombay will be able to have meetings with someone from across the globe via video conference on his phone. This is when distance and time will become irrelevant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;His job will then be to present this software interface to the person on the street, and making it so user-friendly that even a five-year-old can use it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star, Star Two, on 18th February 2010.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-2877351962082209742?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/2877351962082209742/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=2877351962082209742' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2877351962082209742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/2877351962082209742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/02/big-ideas-in-little-boxes.html' title='Big ideas in little boxes'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-3355762930634403778</id><published>2010-02-18T21:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-18T21:42:26.497-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Say Gong Xi! Gong Xi!</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;It’s the Year of the Tiger and Sunday Metro goes on the prowl to find out how celebrities and personalities spend their new year.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;div id="story_content"&gt; &lt;p&gt;CHINESE New Year is often associated with noise, the good kind, of course. The loud bursts of fire crackers (despite the fact that the practice is banned), the clash of cymbals and sonorous beat of the drums accompanying the lion dances, and everyone wishing each other “&lt;i&gt;Gong Xi Fa Cai&lt;/i&gt;” all add up to the cacophony of sounds that is the celebration of the festive occasion.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image right" style="width: 184px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/14/sundaymetro/m_05wong.jpg" alt="" width="170" height="334" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Home boy: Michael Wong has never celebrated Chinese New Year anywhere except Ipoh .&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Ipoh-born singer, composer and actor Michael Wong, who is based in Taiwan, sums up this &lt;i&gt;yeet lau&lt;/i&gt; mood pretty well.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“It’s a fantastic time that I love because everything is so ‘happy’. Happy songs, happy colours, happy people everywhere.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Wong, who is best known for his hit single, &lt;i&gt;Tong Hua &lt;/i&gt;(Fairy Tale), has never celebrated Chinese New Year anywhere except Ipoh where he gets to be with his nephews and nieces and they help him to forget about work!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Sino-Kadazan Roger Wang, a solo acoustic guitarist based in Kota Kinabalu, the important thing is to spend this auspicious occasion with loved ones.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Chinese New Year has always been about family and relatives for Wang. Hence, he wants his his three-year-old daughter to meet everyone in the extended family.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Of course, the new year is also synonymous with food and a time to tuck in his mother’s Hakka cuisine, especially her sumptious &lt;i&gt;kau yook&lt;/i&gt;, which is steamed pork belly with yam.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As Wang was born in the year of the Tiger, he is confident that all his efforts will mirror the courage, power and authority of this animal. For celebrity cook Agnes Chang, “going home” means travelling from her base in Kuala Lumpur to Singapore to be with her 85-year-old mother, her three grown children and six grandchildren for 10 days.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To let her put up her feet and not slave over the stove, her children will be treating her to a grand reunion dinner in a restaurant. But there is no keeping this chef from her &lt;i&gt;wok&lt;/i&gt; and the doting mum will endeavour to cook all her children’s favourite dishes during her stay in Singapore. Among her signature dishes are stuffed oysters and Chinese cabbage soup with abalone and seafood.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image left" style="width: 194px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/14/sundaymetro/m_04chang.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="246" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;At home: Agnes Chang (top) will be with her 85-year-old mother, her three grown children and six grandchildren in Singapore.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;She says during Chinese New Year, she always remembers her late mother-in-law, a Teochew.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She never failed to say ‘&lt;i&gt;sin chia ju yee&lt;/i&gt;’ (which means peace and success throughout the year) when I served her tea on the first day of Chinese New Year,” Chang recalls. “In reply, I would say ‘&lt;i&gt;tang tang ju yee&lt;/i&gt;’ which reciprocates the greeting.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;However, not everyone will be joining their families for the reunion dinner.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Hannah Tan, singer-songwriter and TV personality, will be one of those who will be missing out on her &lt;i&gt;ang pau&lt;/i&gt; collection. This year, Tan will be in Tokyo for work. As the Japanese Government does not recognise Chinese New Year as a public holiday, it will be a working day for her. But being the tech savvy chick that she is, Tan will be extending her Chinese New Year wishes to her family in Kuching via Skype.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Zhang Zhi Chen (Z-Chen), the Malaysian singer who is based in Taiwan, is not as upbeat as Tan when it comes to celebrating Chinese New Year away from home.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Recalling the time when he had to do a few shows in Taipei during Chinese New Year five years ago, he says: “It was weird because it was filled with emptiness and loneliness.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Zhang, who is Fish Leong’s cousin, there will be no joy without his mother’s special &lt;i&gt;yong tau fu&lt;/i&gt; and mahjong with his family.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Victor Tseng, the representative of the Taipei Economic and Cultural Office in Malaysia, says he will not be going back to Taiwan and his two daughters will not be joining him for the reunion dinner here.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 294px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/14/sundaymetro/m_04tseng.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="365" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Staying put: Victor Tseng, the representative of the Taipei Economic and Cultural Office in Malaysia , will remain in KL this Chinese New Year.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;But he will nevertheless be kept busy making his round of visits to official functions and open houses in Malaysia.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Due to the nature of his job as a diplomat, spending Chinese New Year away from home is common. Considering that Taiwan is just a short four-and-a-half-hour flight away from here, Tseng says that his trips home are frequent enough throughout the rest of the year.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Naturally, Tseng has plenty of interesting tales to tell of his Chinese New Year experiences in foreign lands. In New York, for example, he was asked to make a lion head “come alive”. This is done by dotting the lion’s head with red vermillion and saying “&lt;i&gt;Tien Lei Ti Tung&lt;/i&gt;”, a prayer which seeks the favour of the God of Thunder to stabilise the earth. It was an elaborate ceremony which saw two lion dance schools pitting their skills against each other and the paper shreds from the exploding firecrackers formed an inch-thick carpet on the streets. Later, Tseng found out that the organiser was the head of a Chinese triad!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Danny New, the violinist for the band &lt;i&gt;It’s An Honest Mistake&lt;/i&gt;, which won the Voize Independent Music Award 2010 for the Best College Act, remembers a childhood which had been largely spent overseas. While in the United States and Thailand, New, whose father is a banker, made many Asian friends and had a gala time watching lion dances in city parades, having &lt;i&gt;lou sang&lt;/i&gt; house parties, lighting firecrackers and doing the usual round of visiting.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 394px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2010/2/14/sundaymetro/m_04anHonest.jpg" alt="" width="380" height="253" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Double celebration: The band members of An Honest Mistake (from left: Danny New, Darren Teh, and Kevin and Leonard Chua ) are celebrating both CNY and Valentine’s Day.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;As Chinese New Year also falls on Valentine’s day this year, some will be opting for a double celebration. Leonard Chuah, the lead guitarist of the band, says he plans to send his girlfriend Mandarin oranges shaped in a bouquet complete with an &lt;i&gt;ang pau&lt;/i&gt; (from his parents, of course) in Seremban.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Malaccan-born Lim She Ting, the NTV 7 Mandarin news reader, will be expecting her fiancé to bring her a take-away of fried rice with abalone on New Year’s Eve as she will be working over Chinese New Year. This year will be extra poignant for her as it will be the last time she is receiving &lt;i&gt;ang pau&lt;/i&gt;. To find out who the lucky beau is, catch her on &lt;i&gt;The Breakfast Show&lt;/i&gt; tomorrow at 8.30am on 8TV.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In line with the festive mood and the Chinese tradition of uttering “auspicious words”, Danielle Dai, the host of&lt;i&gt; Women’s Zone&lt;/i&gt; on NTV 7, is counting on her son’s ability to master a few choice phrases.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She hopes to get her 15-month-old son to wish the family “Gong Xi, Gong Xi” this year. He will be dressed in his new gold and red Chinese suit, she says, adding that she has been coaching him in preparation for visits to her friends’ homes in Kuala Lumpur.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For Kuala Pilah-born Fish Leong, who is the Queen of Love Songs to fans in Taiwan, Hong Kong, China and Singapore, this will be her first Chinese New Year as a married woman.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Leong, who tied the knot with Tony Zhao on Feb 1 in the Philippines, has this message for her fans. “Let’s hope that the stars of luck will smile favourably upon all of you for continuous good fortune and luck. Everyone should remember to smile and to be brave in facing all challenges for the coming year.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Published in The Star 14th February 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-3355762930634403778?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/3355762930634403778/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=3355762930634403778' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/3355762930634403778'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/3355762930634403778'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/02/say-gong-xi-gong-xi.html' title='Say Gong Xi! Gong Xi!'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-1426724282283305058</id><published>2010-02-17T18:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-17T19:03:07.820-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Harley Springer Softtail'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ultimate Gym'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Terry Gallyot'/><title type='text'>A Muscle Bike For a Muscle Hunk</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/S3ys49ACM0I/AAAAAAAAAMY/wDmxd9q_uzs/s1600-h/032.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/S3ys49ACM0I/AAAAAAAAAMY/wDmxd9q_uzs/s400/032.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5439412544404075330" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Story and Photos by Grace Chen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ask Terry Gallyot, Mr Asia 1999, who the real love in his life is and he’ll tell you it’s none other than his Harley Softail Springer 92/93. Of course, there is a Penang girl in the picture, but we will not go there. CBT is not a gossip pullout.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just for a bit of epiphany, the Harley is Gallyot’s second ‘wife’ and it was very much a case of love at first sight when this muscle hunk set eyes on the V-twin 1340 cc stunner at a friend’s workshop in 1998 and decided that it was time for him to part ways with his Kawasaki Vulcan 1500 Classic which he had been riding on for the past six years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Parting with the Vulcan, as Gallyot reveals, was one of those long goodbyes. After all, it was the Vulcan that got him initiated into Headhunters MC, a motorbike club. Man and machine were initiated into the club in Phuket and while Gallyot prefers to keep the details of his initiation rite private, he discloses that it is not uncommon for newcomers to have to walk around in a box or to have their eyes blindfolded as they are asked to drink a ‘mysterious’ concoction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still, the split was inevitable.  Gallyot has no regrets however, as he reckons that the Kawasaki had been the closest thing he could afford at that time and any avid biker will tell you that having any bike was better than none.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Just like wanting to be a bodybuilder has always been in me, it’s the same way with the Harley. When I saw it gleaming at me in the workshop, I knew that we were meant to be together and the first sign was in the Malaccan number plate, my hometown,” recalls Gallyot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To show off his new ride, one of the very first things that Gallyot did was to make a grand entrance with his new metal bride at the Mr Commonwealth event Melaka in 1998.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“When I reached the check-in area, there was a mixed reaction when I walked in with my leather outfit and Headhunter vest. I must have looked like a character out of ‘Terminator’ which was a stark difference from the other competitors who were looking tense and nervous,” recalls Gallyot who earned a second place in the event.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/S3ytm2F3hCI/AAAAAAAAAMg/pf_9owpcJAs/s1600-h/061.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/S3ytm2F3hCI/AAAAAAAAAMg/pf_9owpcJAs/s400/061.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5439413332823475234" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gallyot’s affair with his Harley was no doubt an intense one. In the early days of their courtship, it was quite the custom thing for Gallyot to do a disappearing act (even while his gym was running on full!) just so that he could take his bike out for a quickie- a ride round the block and back. These, insisted this 125kg owner of Ultimate Gym in Wangsa Maju, were orgasmic moments. The rumble, the response of the throttle, the very thrill of riding on a Harley-it is a subject that Gallyot could write a book on. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“The Harley is a sturdy construction of steel, not unlike the Japanese models which is full of plastic bits which can easily shatter into smithereens on impact. A Harley however, can cut right through a car. That’s how tough it is,” says Gallyot&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For Gallyot and his iron horse, being hefty, tough and macho is what life should be about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Don’t even suggest the idea of having ‘Hello Kitty’ painted on my bike. I’d break it!” exclaims Gallyot. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not the type who will shy away from intimate details, it does not take much for Gallyot to talk about the more personal aspects of his machine.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To increase performance power, a two into one Thunderheader exhaust was fitted to boost back pressure and compression. The original fuel tank was replaced with a bigger 5 gallon tank and at present is able to go to about 350km on a full tank. That works out to about RM30 for a ride from Kuala Lumpur to Penang.  A high flow petcock and an S &amp;amp; S carburetor was also added on. As Gallyot describes it, an extra bit of surge would be a great help especially when it comes to moving a King Kong sized rider like him along.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For better braking, twin calipers have been installed on both sides.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I thought a bit of added braking power would come in handy when it comes to stopping. After all my bike and I are pretty heavy,” says Gallyot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He also opted for drag handle bars for aerodynamic purposes and a La Pera Gunfighter seat for a more streamlined look, just so that it would not look like he was sitting on an overstuffed pillow. For a touch of unique subtlety, a special kind of black on black wrinkle effect paint in the shape of flames was airbrushed on the front fender. To give the wheels a chunkier look, Gallyot opted for Fat Boy solid aluminium disc rims. The engine and the Softail rolling chassis remains untouched as Gallyot does not want to run the risk of ruining the bike’s soul.    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Expectedly, man and machine had some wild days. In the past, before the running of Ultimate Gym took up most of his waking hours, Gallyot would ride down to Hard Rock Café on Fridays, wait till the place was near closing time, jam the front brakes and spin the back wheels and smoke the place out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“On one side, the manager would be running up to me and telling me to stop because he was afraid that I would chase all his customers away. The customers, on the other hand, would be clapping and asking me to do more,” laughs Gallyot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For someone who is prone to such crazy stunts, it is sobering to hear Gallyot’s reminder that at any time, a motorbike will only have 2.54 cm of tyre touching the ground. That’s not much traction to speak of and the risk of losing that balance is ever present.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“If you wipeout, you might kill an innocent bystander. Remember that this person may have family and children. Killing him will effect everybody around him. So just think of that the next time you decide to have a few seconds of thrill,” says Gallyot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For more bike and muscle talk with Gallyot, he can be found at Ultimate Gym, 12-2, Jalan 1/27F, K.L.S.C. Wangsa Maju, 53300, KL. Tel: 03-41436214. Open from 12pm.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7509492205243956681-1426724282283305058?l=tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/feeds/1426724282283305058/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7509492205243956681&amp;postID=1426724282283305058' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/1426724282283305058'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7509492205243956681/posts/default/1426724282283305058'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tellmeastorygrace.blogspot.com/2010/02/muscle-bike-for-muscle-hunk.html' title='A Muscle Bike For a Muscle Hunk'/><author><name>Grace Chen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16201525264607856371</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/SjZ6ZShL4HI/AAAAAAAAAJI/K45v0G02Je4/S220/Picture0005.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_vUNTL5rilzk/S3ys49ACM0I/AAAAAAAAAMY/wDmxd9q_uzs/s72-c/032.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7509492205243956681.post-645230010209174740</id><published>2010-01-21T06:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-21T06:33:53.817-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Pleasurable pursuit</title><content type='html'>					 					&lt;h1 id="story_title"&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;div id="story_content"&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;b&gt;A childhood fascination has bloomed into serious business.&lt;/b&gt; &lt;p&gt;LOCAL celebrities can’t seem to get enough of Von Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The homegrown couture batik house has seen some well-known folks such as Jaclyn Victor, Asha Gill, Sazzy Falak, Betty Banafe, Noryn Aziz and Corinne Adrienne donning their myriad-hued creations.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;But just how did Von Jolly threads end up on the back of these celebrities?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/12/31/lifearts/f_pg02aaron.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="365" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Dressing celebs: Designer Aaron Jolly at his gallery in Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur, showing off the signature batik fabrics of the Von Jolly house.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Label founder Aaron Jolly’s reply is simple: “They call us.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Detailing the events leading to the dressing up of various stars, Jolly, 32, insists that there was no fervent chasing or arm twisting.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“For instance, dressing Betty Banafe started with a phone call from her manager, Sharizan Isa,” explains Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She asked us to come up with 12 outfits for the Samrah Festival in July 2008. I think we were chosen because our work with batik was very much in line with the Malaysian theme which the organisers were looking to promote.”&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/12/31/lifearts/f_pg02betty.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="320" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Glamorous: Singer Betty Banafe in two of the 12 outfits created by Von Jolly for her concert at the Samrah Festival in July 2008.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;Looking at their celebrity scorecard, it may seem incredulous that every name on their list had arrived there by such pleasant coincidence. According to Jolly, it had been simply a matter of making the right connections.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;He quotes another example of dressing popular actress Sazzy Falak for the 16th Anugerah Industri Muzik (AIM) last May. Jolly recalls that it was the result of a brief handshake during the KL Fashion Week in 2006.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for dressing Asha Gill for the TAG Heuer India Polo Event in 2006, again, it was TAG Heuer Malaysia who buzzed them as they had seen a Von Jolly dress on Wan Zaleha Radzi at another event.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for actress Corinne Adrienne, the label’s muse, both had met during a photo shoot and had come to the amiable agreement for a “win-win” situation.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 164px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/12/31/lifearts/f_pg02electric.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="370" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Striking: A short ‘train’ adds a hint of drama to this electric blue outfit.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“She had just returned from Singapore in 2006 and was trying to get into the movie industry in Malaysia. We were working on establishing our name so we thought we’d be able to work in tandem. In the end, it turned out well for both parties,” enthuses Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;To put a fashion house on such an esteemed pedestal is no easy feat. Participating in competitions and a regular presence in fashion events run the gamut of Jolly’s itinerary.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One crucial event that helped to shape the Von Jolly name was winning the grand prize in the Fashion category during the Piala Seri Endon in 2005. That opened many doors for us, including the requests from the celebrities,” says Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having a celebrity wear one’s creations makes a good marketing tool because it attracts attention but, as Jolly points out, dressing a famous name is mostly on a sponsorship basis. As such, Jolly still has to look for customers who will buy his work.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 214px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/12/31/lifearts/f_pg03jaclyn.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="384" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Sublime: Jaclyn Victor wore this stunning gown to the Citrawarna event&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Overheads in the Von Jolly house come up to about RM30,000 per month, with a big chunk of it going towards raw materials and wages for staff which includes our 12 seamstresses. As such, we have to cover a wider scope of the fashion industry, not just couture,” explains Jolly who also designs uniforms for corporate companies.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Jolly made the decision to forego a career in architecture by making his foray into the fashion scene with his uncle, Raymond Jolly, now 56, in 2003. He points out the three crucial elements that helped the Von Jolly house to establish their clientele in Kuala Lumpur, Milan and London.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The first one was passion. Raymond and I grew up in a family of very vain ladies!” exclaims Sarawak-born Jolly who is of Eurasian parentage.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“One example was my mother, Doris George (who is now 68), the former general manager of Sports Toto for East Malaysia. She never wore the same dress twice for all the events that she attended. Let’s say if the function is at 7pm, she would have started getting ready the night before. As a child, I watched all this with awe and it impressed on me that the business of dressing up was a very serious but beautiful and joyful pursuit,” recalls Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div class="story_image center" style="width: 314px;"&gt; &lt;img src="http://thestar.com.my/archives/2009/12/31/lifearts/f_pg03oriental.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="436" /&gt; &lt;span class="caption"&gt;Elegant: Sexy Orientalinfluenced gown.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;p&gt;He also stresses the importance of having a thorough understanding of what one wants to do.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“As a fashion house, you must have your own signature style. In short, we don’t copy. At Von Jolly, our strength lies in our batik prints which carry sweeping brush strokes and abstract art.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We have a very contemporary feel to our prêt-a-porter and couture lines. This is why we have described our work as ‘the defining authority of Malaysian contemporary batik’ in our business card,” adds Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Having a sound technical knowledge of tailoring is crucial and this has to be established in a fashion house before any form of marketing can be done.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Jolly says that he and his uncle learned the rudiments of tailoring from the women in their family. He points out that any designer who gives the nod for a chiffon skirt to be put on the rack without lining, for example, obviously does not know what he is doing.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Lastly comes persistence and consistency and it is in this area that Jolly reveals that he has often been chastised by friends for “not having a life”.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“In business, everything boils down to marketing and sales. While many assume that I have a team to do this, I will tell you now that the buck stops with me and my uncle. We brainstorm for new themes and design ideas, organise the literature and photo shoots for our brochures and establish the contacts to develop the business,” says Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;From the very beginning, it had been Jolly’s plan to cater to an exclusive market.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Let’s be realistic. Without the right customer to support your work, there will be no room for you to develop your creations,” he says.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The early days of establishing the Von Jolly house started within Jolly’s community in Kuching when he and his uncle made evening dresses for his mother’s friends.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Their customer base soon grew as their name spread by word of mouth. Being fortunate enough to have relatives who meet regularly with the well-heeled in society, Jolly did not have to wait long before he was invited to such gatherings.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“The first do I attended was thrown by the association of ministers’ wives in Sarawak and it was from there that I landed my first VIP customer, a lady senator who ordered five batik kurungs from me. I remember being over the moon on receiving our first cheque totalling about RM7,000,” recalls Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As for the issue of the fashion industry turning a guy “soft”, Jolly’s initial answer is a diplomatic smile.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;For him, the task of having to completely alter a dress within a short span of four hours is certainly not for the faint-hearted. This is especially so if the dress is commissioned by a foreign embassy whose intention is to put it on an artiste who will be wearing it in the presence of other VIPs.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“We are creative people and, being in the fashion line, you need a certain degree of flamboyance. Or else, you’d be labelled as boring,” says Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In any case, Jolly jests that it is always best to adopt a “soft” approach, especially when it comes to advising a woman what will suit her and what will not.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“People assume that the biggest challenge for a male designer is to address bust and panty line issues but, let me tell you, the hardest part is convincing a client to accept your advice. This is especially so when they already have set ideas about what they think they will look good in.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;“Some examples are clients who think they will look fabulous in pencil skirts when an A-line cut is more appropriate. The catch here is, though the customer isn’t always right, there is a need to adopt a ‘soft’ approach in explaining why without bruising any egos,” concludes Jolly.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&gt;&lt;i&gt; To find out more about Von Jolly, log on to &lt;a href="http://www.shavalvonjolly.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.shavalvonjolly.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 					&lt;/div&gt; 					&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt; 					 					 							&lt;!-- Google AFC--&gt;						  	&lt;script language="JavaScript"&gt; 	&lt;!-- 	function google_ad_request_done(google_ads)  	{ 		/* 		* This function is required and is used to display 		* the ads that are returned from the JavaScript 		* request. 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